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Topic: tarot reading: is she
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curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1055 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 22, 2013 11:25 PM
mad at me? What are her feelings towards me?IP: Logged |
lotus_flower Knowflake Posts: 269 From: New York Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 22, 2013 11:48 PM
Hi Curiouswoman!Hope you don't mind that I pulled some cards for you! Asking the questions if she is jealous I got The Star. Is this person younger than you? She may find you inspirational, or consider you to be the ideal in the some way. You may appear to be mystical and dreamy--perhaps exotic to her? This card may be saying that she "wishes" she was more like you. As far as this person's feelings, I pulled the 7 of Swords. This has to do with "getting away" with something, or leaving an established "community". Did you do something that might make her feel as if you "took" something from her? Or perhaps she feels that you "get away" with everything. The High Priestess also appeared so I sense this is definately a female centered issue. The relationship between you too seems mysterious. Are there some hidden feelings or emotions that haven't been expressed between you two? Hope this makes sense! IP: Logged |
curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1055 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 23, 2013 01:53 AM
Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my question. There many hidden feelings for sure from my side and hers. We always argue. Always. I feel as though she constantly criticizes me for things be it my looks, things I do. So I got frustrated and wanted to know the hidden reason for her feelings. Thank you so much again IP: Logged |
rhia Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 23, 2013 08:08 AM
I hope you don't mind but I had a go too. I am a beginner so if what I say doesn't fit, dismiss it. How she feels about you: Ten of Cups (reversed) Ace of Wands (reversed) I think she feels frustrated. In her heart I think she wants to be friends, but she doesn't really know how to go about it and so she feels blocked and disillusioned. Nothing changes because she doesn't know how to make it happen. This frustration then manifests as aggression towards you, because she tells herself it's her fault when deep down she knows it's her own. Why she feels this way: The Star Eight of Pentacles Interesting I pulled The Star too! I think this combination points to admiration - she seems to think highly of you. Perhaps she sees you as self-confident and successful and/ or skilled, something like that. I think she would like to be more like you. Bottom card: Queen of Pentacles (reversed) I think this gives the background to the situation on this occasion, which shouts 'self doubt' to me. I think she's insecure and lacks confidence in herself, on the inside at least, and this is the root of her problem. She lacks confidence in her ability to be friends with you, which I suspect she finds particularly hard because of how much she admires you. Perhaps she is secretly afraid that you won't think she's 'good enough' to be friends with. Maybe one of those people who feels more comfortable around people who they feel that they are 'better than' in some way. All you see is the frustration she has for herself projected onto you. To conclude, I don't think she is jealous of you, per se but she definitely admires you. I think this situation is one that calls for you to be the bigger person - understand the reason that she behaves as she does and brush her comments off without reacting or taking it to heart. If you treat her as a good friend, she might just turn into one. IP: Logged |
lotus_flower Knowflake Posts: 269 From: New York Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 23, 2013 02:12 PM
Rhia--That is so interesting that you got The Star too! Yes, there is a lot of admiration. I think admiration also forms the basis for many jealousies especially with women. Plus a court card that really shows her personality--The Queen of Pentacles. Shows she has her own strengths, but that she doesn't see them herself right now. Curious Woman-- Are you too related? Is she a part of your family or like family to you?
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curiouswoman Knowflake Posts: 1055 From: on earth Registered: Sep 2011
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posted March 23, 2013 09:44 PM
Woooow! That's so interesting, yes she is someone in my family. I have always pushed myself to be the bigger person and no matter how many times I felt she was against me, I told myself that she was against herself not me and pushed my self to be the better person for both of us. Thank you so much I really appreciate it.IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 3044 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted March 24, 2013 12:50 AM
I'm reading more, Rhia -- you are really good!IP: Logged |
1believer Knowflake Posts: 112 From: ask,me Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 24, 2013 03:00 AM
Hello,Both of you ladies did excellent job reading! I actually was curious, wondering if I could get a reading with same type of question...is she jealous of hate me? What is the issue with her? IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 3044 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted March 24, 2013 03:09 AM
I was actually wondering from Rhia if she could reply to what I said more on my thread. Would love that.IP: Logged |
rhia Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 24, 2013 07:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by 1believer: Hello,Both of you ladies did excellent job reading! I actually was curious, wondering if I could get a reading with same type of question...is she jealous of hate me? What is the issue with her?
Thankyou! Though I feel I might have a hefty dose of beginner's luck. I'd be happy to have a go on another thread but as I say I'm only just starting, so it would be really good if lotus_flower could do it too (and anyone else who wanted to!) because I don't trust my own judgement entirely yet! I don't think I should be let loose wielding advice!!! lotus_flower - what suggested family to you, the Ten of Cups or was it anything else in addition? I didn't notice the family connotations when I was interpreting. I feel like the cards I pull are truthful but the weakness comes in translation - I'm like someone trying to speak a foreign language from a phrase book when I try and interpret them! Practice makes perfect though IP: Logged |
lotus_flower Knowflake Posts: 269 From: New York Registered: Nov 2010
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posted March 24, 2013 12:45 PM
Rhia,You know, I don't know what exactly it was---I think I just had a feeling when I pulled out The Star, High Priestess--I got a sense that it was a family issue. Perhaps just intuition. The thing that I liked best about both the readings is that is reinforced the other in a strange way! How long have you been reading for? IP: Logged |
rhia Knowflake Posts: 63 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted March 24, 2013 02:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by lotus_flower: Rhia,You know, I don't know what exactly it was---I think I just had a feeling when I pulled out The Star, High Priestess--I got a sense that it was a family issue. Perhaps just intuition. The thing that I liked best about both the readings is that is reinforced the other in a strange way! How long have you been reading for?
I hardly dare say... really really not very long! It absolutely boggles my mind at the moment that I manage to come up with anything meaningful because I'm used to working with boring logic. I had a go for practice and only piped up because I pulled The Star, the same as you did, and it gave me a bit of confidence about what I was seeing! It seemed to fit together nicely with what you had said. I'm very impressed you got the family tie!
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1believer Knowflake Posts: 112 From: ask,me Registered: Feb 2013
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posted March 24, 2013 08:48 PM
Ok Rhia I started a new thread....instead, I decided to go with a different question you and lotus flowers can take a look if your up for it IP: Logged |