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beijing07
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posted March 23, 2013 09:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Everyone, Describe the potential of this relationship.

I don't know if I should hold on or let go. I really love this guy.

If you can please list some good aspects vs negative aspects.

Do you see any Karmic or fated aspects?

Where does Juno come into play in this relationship?

Prefer analysis to be detailed. I'm open to all feedback.

Our Synastry


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lotus_flower
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posted March 24, 2013 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotus_flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Hi Beijing07!

I'm just looking at the synastry and houses. :-)

The first thing I notice is that your uranus is in his 7th house, conjuncting his moon. This can make for a wild contact that is full of excitement. This may not be too jarring for him since his moon is in Sagittarius and that is a freedom loving and easy going moon. I also notice that your saturn is also there conjuncting his descendant. That is really important as you also bring a sense of seriousness to the relatinoship. So to you, I can see that you would feel this is fated. \

The other trend I notice is that you are all up in his 4th house! This clearly means that you are impacting him and connecting with him on an instinctual basis. Interstingly all the planets are the same--so you probably seem to be very familiar to him. You also are conjunct his IC with mars--which can mean that you spur him and ignite his everyday life. Does he say that you inspire him? This also can be tough on the IC person because it can be grating and pushy at times as well. I get the sense that this is a VERY intense relationship.....I notice that you also have mars conjunct pluto double whammy. PLus your pluto is on his ASC. Good grief! That is really, really intense. Have you thought of settling down with him? Or did you have the sense of doing this when you met? His saturn is in your fourth-I would imagine he brings a sense of order to your life that you find relieving.

Were you both attached immediately? With a moon and aries and moon in sagittarius I would imagine soon. Those are "get-up-and-go" placements.

Honestly, I see very, very intense stuff going in between you two. I don't think he could have avoided you even if he tried! I feel that you are definitely bring a lot of intensity to this relationship.

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beijing07
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posted March 24, 2013 01:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ lotus flower Thanks. Yes we became attached almost instantenously. There wee a lot of physical attraction, but I think my intensity became too much for him. We haven't spoken to one another in months. I think I was forcing him to face his emotions about the situation between us way to soon. Just hope he comes back to me .I really love him, don't doubt that he loved me. I just don't think he was ready for this . Do you see any in dictation of a reconcilation

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beijing07
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posted March 24, 2013 01:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, he never told me that I inspire him, but we both always did push each other towards greatness. We were able to see each other potential. I do want to settle down with him. What can you tell me about the asteroids placement.

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lotus_flower
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posted March 24, 2013 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotus_flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Bejing,

I don't know anything about reconcilliations--that may have to do more with progressions than anything and I don't know anything about that.

I do understand however, the bond that you guys have had because it's right there in the chart!!

Also, I do not know much about asteroids either, but I am sure someone here will be able to help you out with that! :-)

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beijing07
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posted March 25, 2013 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here is Synastry Chart of a new guy I met

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Lunae
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posted March 26, 2013 01:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey beijing! At first look, here's what stood out to me in your chart:

I think you get along quite well with this guy. You are both intellectually-inclined, indicated by your Virgo and Gemini suns. There is good communication between you. You can relate to each other well, especially where creativity is concerned. Both of you are comfortable with your styles of emotional expression, having that same 'go-getter' and fun-loving, optimistic quality.

I think you feel very comfortable with him, with his sun/moon on your vertex/antivertex axis. You feel as if meeting this guy was "meant to be". You also have a Venus-Uranus DW. This indicates an immediate, electrifying kind of attraction. You might have met each other under unusual circumstances, or you might have been attracted to an unusual quality in each other.

There is a lot of tense energy in this chart, however. Sometimes, you may not appreciate his "scattered" energy, and he may misunderstand your words for criticism.


Hope this helped! Please tell me your thoughts.. if this relates to you in any way.

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beijing07
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posted March 26, 2013 10:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Lunae, thanks for the feedback. Question are you looking at first synastry chart that was posted because second synastry chart that was recently posted is of that of a new guy I recently met about 2 months ago. First chart, the guy and I had a really intense connection. It's was more emotional than anything. Sexual attraction was there, but I think I may have been too aggressive and frightened him off. Haven't spoken to him in several months. He did seem scattered all over the place. What I mean, he was so confused about his feelings it was ridiculous. Every time we were around each other, we would fidget, couldn't keep still. I notice anytime I tried to get him to talk about his feelings, he would go into an emotional outburst. I really miss him, I felt like it was meant to be

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Lunae
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posted March 26, 2013 08:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I wsas ctually looking at the second one XD

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beijing07
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posted March 26, 2013 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks for feedback on the second one, I think I just want to be friends with the second guy. What can you tell me about synastry with Guy 1, which is the first synastry chart

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Lunae
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posted March 27, 2013 08:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ideas on the first chart is similar to Lotus Flower's. I think you found a common ground in him because a number of your personal planets are in close proximity to his personal planets. He is also activating your relationship houses, since his personal planets are making aspects to the rulers of these houses. That explains why you are feeling the "fireworks" in this synastry. However, tense aspects to personal planets will create lots of misunderstandings.

That mars-pluto double whammy sure is intense! Also, in addition to what Lotus said about uranus conjunct the moon in the 7th, I think uranian themes appeal to you since your Virgo venus is in the 11th, a house ruled by uranus.

Another thing, you may feel it's fated because you both have a moon-antivertex double whammy. Conjunctions to the vertex/antivertex axis may signify an important event or meeting someone who makes a big impact on your life.

There are more tense aspects than harmonious aspects here. Both may not be able to accept each other's shortcomings over time. This is a difficult synastry IMO but a difficult synastry does not equate to doom. My parents have a difficult chart and yet they are married for almost 25 years now.

Non-astrologically speaking though, let things be for a while. I know you need proper closure, but in time, things will heal. You will be able to talk it out when both of you are ready. As for now.. all you need is acceptance of the situation.

Hope this helped!

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beijing07
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posted March 27, 2013 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ Lunae Thanks for the feedback. I guess I have to be patient and see what happens. O

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posted March 27, 2013 09:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, I agree with everything that's been said. First thing I looked at were the north nodes. His NN aspects your sun and saturn- your NN aspects his sun and vertex. NN contacts always imply relationships of significant impact, regardless of whether they are hard or soft aspects...especially NN to sun, they are binding!

I also see his moon conjunct your uranus and your mars and sun widely conjunct his uranus...so this not only is a Plutonian relationship, but a Uranian one as well. especially with the sun conjunct uranus...that could explain the separation going on right now. However, you do have some saturn aspects to ground it, plus the NN aspects which are significant.

My opinion: yes, this is intense- probably frightened him how intense it was...maybe he's never felt that kind of connection before. Either way, it impacted him for sure so my recommendation as well is give it time. If it's meant to happen, it will. That's what uranus does, it can separate but in the end if there are binding aspects as well, it can work out. Best of luck!

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posted March 27, 2013 09:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ tgem thanks! Being patient is so hard! Can you shed some light on the synastry with guy I met several months ago. We work together. I get this vibe that he likes me, but reading him and his signals are confusing at times

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beijing07
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posted March 27, 2013 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ tgem thanks! Being patient is so hard! Can you shed some light on the synastry with guy I met several months ago. We work together. I get this vibe that he likes me, but reading him and his signals are confusing at times

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Lunae
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posted March 27, 2013 11:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by beijing07:
@ Lunae Thanks for the feedback. I guess I have to be patient and see what happens. O

No probs, beijing! glad to be of service.

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tgem
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posted March 28, 2013 08:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by beijing07:
@ tgem thanks! Being patient is so hard! Can you shed some light on the synastry with guy I met several months ago. We work together. I get this vibe that he likes me, but reading him and his signals are confusing at times

I agree with lunae...also His venus falls in your 7th with aspects to your 7th ruler. Nice. None of your planets fall in his 7th but there are aspects to his 7th house ruler so that can give the vibe of possible marriage material. Your sun on his ASC looks nice. His uranus aspects your virgo stellium nicely which can make for some excitement and slight tension but nothing too harsh. You also have some hard and soft saturn aspects to ground the uranus and pluto aspects. It is intense- once again.

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beijing07
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posted March 28, 2013 01:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beijing07     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ tgem thanks! I don't feel the intensity this time like I did with guy 1....why is that? Or is it too soon

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tgem
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posted March 28, 2013 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by beijing07:
@ tgem thanks! I don't feel the intensity this time like I did with guy 1....why is that? Or is it too soon

For one with the first guy his pluto aspects your virgo stellium and your pluto is conjunct his mars like his to yours so it's a DW. That definitely could could part of the immense attraction, especially the mars/pluto DW!

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posted March 28, 2013 04:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by tgem:
That's what uranus does, it can separate but in the end if there are binding aspects as well, it can work out. Best of luck!

Gosh I hope that's true...

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