posted March 25, 2013 01:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Lunae:
It is possible, but Saturn in the 7th may also mean that the partner may bring structure and order into the relationship.

There is probably a karmic connection there, since SN in libra (late degrees) is in close proximity to Chiron in Taurus (early degrees).

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Thanks Lunae <3

posted March 25, 2013 02:17 AM            

Sun conjunct AC/DC- since the sun conjuncts both your angles, there is a feeling of instant attraction and comfort. You may feel like you know each other well because your Sun opposite sun (and on each other's angles) may indicate that you both "represent" what each other lacks. There is a feeling of a "perfect fit" between you.

Vertex conjunct moon/Vertex conjunct ascendant- personal planets/angles touching the vertex may generate the feeling of being in a "karmic" or "fated". Its placement on both of your relationship houses (7th and 8th) may indicate a significant turning point with regards to partnerships/intimacy.

posted March 25, 2013 02:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Lunae:
Hmmm, these are what stood out to me with regards to the feeling of "knowing each other":

Sun conjunct AC/DC- since the sun conjuncts both your angles, there is a feeling of instant attraction and comfort. You may feel like you know each other well because your Sun opposite sun (and on each other's angles) may indicate that you both "represent" what each other lacks. There is a feeling of a "perfect fit" between you.

Vertex conjunct moon/Vertex conjunct ascendant- personal planets/angles touching the vertex may generate the feeling of being in a "karmic" or "fated". Its placement on both of your relationship houses (7th and 8th) may indicate a significant turning point with regards to partnerships/intimacy.

Hope that helped!

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Yes very much Lunae, thank you

And I think the contacts on the NN too right?

posted March 25, 2013 03:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
Yes very much Lunae, thank you

And I think the contacts on the NN too right?

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Yep. I'm not sure about what a SN-chiron conjunction means, though. But, I think that in order for the conjunction (or any aspect, for that matter) to be powerful, transits, progressions or contacts from personal planets are needed to activate it. House overlays, too but the effect is not thar powerful compared to planetary contacts.

posted March 25, 2013 03:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Lunae:
Yep. I'm not sure about what a SN-chiron conjunction means, though. But, I think that in order for the conjunction (or any aspect, for that matter) to be powerful, transits, progressions or contacts from personal planets are needed to activate it. House overlays, too but the effect is not thar powerful compared to planetary contacts.

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I was looking at the NN contacts on sun and moon actually..

posted March 25, 2013 04:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:

If your still curious about all this stuff, I linked a bunch of threads about the whole ‘love relationship houses’ topic. I’ve posted on a lot of these thread and go into a lot more detail about how this stuff works in them.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/216505.html
SYNASTRY OF ATTRACTION: WHY IT DOES OR DOESN’T WORK.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/215804.html
The Dsc and Our Personal ‘Love’ Biases.

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/214876.html
Are you attracted to your 5th,7th or 8th house?

http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum24/HTML/217132.html
What planet or house shows the signs we attract for keeps?

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posted March 25, 2013 05:22 AM            

I only skimmed through the pages,will have to see if I find what I'm looking for.

I do know am attracted to him though lol

Been studying this synastry for awhile now, and have been wondering how does he see me? My 7th house stellium falls in his 9th house, my moon in his 8th,and Jupiter in his 7th.

posted March 25, 2013 07:22 AM            

His DC is taurus, ruled by Venus in Pisces. He is looking for stability, security and a "connection" in relationships. He may be attracted to/attract someone who has a neptunian blend in the personality or neptunian themes in a relationship. He may not show this sensitive and sensual side on the surface, but since the 7th house tells us what we "lack", he will tend to look for these qualities in a partner.

His secondary DSC, which will give you more idea about what he looks for in a partnership is located in his second house, which taurus originally rules. It is ruled by Sagittarius. In addition to Taurean/Neptunian, he may also look for Sagittarian qualities (freedom,optimism, openness) in a partner.

Your synastry has a lot of connections to neptune (venus-neptune DW) and your neptune both in Sagittarius and his stellium on your 12th (which is originally ruled by neptune/pisces). Both of you have a tendency to idealize relationships but since it relates to the themes in his DSC (plus venus-saturn conj), he will find the "security" and "connection" he is looking for. Be careful of that though, because overlooking your shortcomings will not be beneficial to the relationship.

Jupiter being in his 7th is good, since his own Jupiter also trines his moon and sun in the second. That points to the Sagittarian freedom and optimism in his secondary DSC.

On general note though, the oppositions and squares from your personal planets will present a challenge, such as your Sun/Moon/Sun opposition. It will indicate that both of you have different expressions of "self". There are times when you rub each other in the wrong way. Your unaspected moon on his 8th indicates that he may view you as emotionally "nurturing" to him, intimacy wise but you may sometimes feel that you are giving too much.

But hey, there is no "perfect' synastry and how you work your relationship will depend on your free will.

That's my take on it.. Please do tell me if it you can relate to anything on it

posted March 25, 2013 07:33 AM            

I posted this in the 8 House thread:

My moon falls in his 8th house,my 7th house stellium falls in his 9thhouse,my DSC ruler is moon, my Jupiter falls in his 7th house that is occupied by his natal Jupiter that trines his moon,so we have Jupiter conjunct Jupiter in syanstry, my 5th house ruler is Jupiter, I have Jupiter sextile sun natally..sun is my 8th house ruler, and I have mars in 8th house..

do you think am on to something there? I got lost half way lol

posted March 25, 2013 08:14 AM            

Okay, since we're already into this 5th/7th/8th house thing, let's learn together

So let's analyze your romantic nature first:

Your 5th house of romance is in Taurus, ruled by Venus in Leo, in the 7th. Your 5th house cusp falls on his 7th house cusp. Your Venus in leo makes a contact (a sextile, if I'm not mistaken) his chart ruler, Pluto. His intense and magnetic aura may have attracted you in the first place. You were attracted to the potential of being his future romantic partner.

Your 7th house is in Cancer, also ruled by your Cancer moon in the 6th. Your secondary DSC, which I have explained earlier is on your 4th, which is traditionally ruled by Cancer. Your 4th house Aries, is also on his 5th house. Ruler of Aries which is mars, trines the ruler of his 5th, which is mars. You are attracted to a man who has a goal and purpose in his life, as depicted by his exalted mars in Capricorn. Your 7th house cusp falls on his 9th. You may have met him on a foreign land, or there is a teacher-student quality in your relationship.

Your 8th house is in Leo, ruled by your Leo sun. When you give, you do it with all your heart. Deep inside, however, you also want to feel the same from your partner. This might be the cause of your misunderstandings, since your partner seeks a "connection" and yet, he tends to hold back. I know you feel that he is comfortable, but I think that you just need reassurance. Being a Capricorn (heavy stellium right there ), I think that he is not much into those touchy-feely stuff which your Leo stellium likes, but he shows your love by just being there for your at the end of the day. He might also have the tendency to spoil you with gifts.

posted March 25, 2013 09:57 AM            

''Your 5th house of romance is in Taurus, ruled by Venus in Leo, in the 7th. Your 5th house cusp falls on his 7th house cusp. Your Venus in leo makes a contact (a sextile, if I'm not mistaken) his chart ruler, Pluto. His intense and magnetic aura may have attracted you in the first place. You were attracted to the potential of being his future romantic partner.''

Yes, my venus sextile his pluto at 2 degree.

''Your 7th house is in Cancer, also ruled by your Cancer moon in the 6th. Your secondary DSC, which I have explained earlier is on your 4th, which is traditionally ruled by Cancer. Your 4th house Aries, is also on his 5th house. Ruler of Aries which is mars, trines the ruler of his 5th, which is mars. You are attracted to a man who has a goal and purpose in his life, as depicted by his exalted mars in Capricorn. Your 7th house cusp falls on his 9th. You may have met him on a foreign land, or there is a teacher-student quality in your relationship.''

Hey that's true!!! He is of a different nationality LOL, Lunae you are getting really good at this
Yes, am really attracted to guys who have a goal and purpose in life

Okay what about him? His 5th house of romance is Aries falls on my IC, does that count for something? Ruler mars is found in his 2nd house trine my mars which is in 8th house and squares my pluto. what kind of women attracts him? Do I fit his kind of woman?

''Your 8th house is in Leo, ruled by your Leo sun. When you give, you do it with all your heart. Deep inside, however, you also want to feel the same from your partner. This might be the cause of your misunderstandings, since your partner seeks a "connection" and yet, he tends to hold back. I know you feel that he is comfortable, but I think that you just need reassurance. Being a Capricorn (heavy stellium right there ), I think that he is not much into those touchy-feely stuff which your Leo stellium likes, but he shows your love by just being there for your at the end of the day. He might also have the tendency to spoil you with gifts.

How is that? Please tell me your thoughts! ''

Gosh, you are right. He holds back, that's so true and am confused, may be because I idealize how a relationship should be like,yeah I do like the touchy-feely stuff. I don't get this guy at all. He is sentimental, but he is not that sentimental, he is dreamy but not that dreamy.True, when I give I give it all and who wouldn't want to receive the same in return? That's why I don't get him. It's like he just wants to be there and I should be happy with just that.Him being there!!

posted March 25, 2013 10:54 AM            

To answer your questions, we will try to analyze his chart next

His 5th house is in Aries, ruled by his Capricorn mars. His mars makes a trine to your mars. He was initially attracted to you because feels like he could share that drive with you, since your Virgo mars also makes you a very efficient and detail-oriented worker yourself.

For his "ideal" woman, we will look at his Venus. It will give us an idea of how he perceives his "type".

He has his Venus in Pisces in the 4th house. Venus, being in the 4th house, means that there will be a Cancerian tinge to it, since Cancer originally rules the 4th house. So his ideal girl would be the sensitive, feminine, family-oriented type of girl. Your nurturing, cancer moon would fit the bill.For more info, we will look into the house which Pisces originally rules, his 12th which is in another water element, Scorpio.

From what we've gathered, he is attracted to watery types. You have lotsa fire, so how did you fit in? Your Leo venus aspects your own pluto, which is also similar to Venus in Scorpio. His venus in pisces would identify to your sensitive Cancer moon and your Plutonic Venus. He must have been attracted to your "giver" nature. You also probably have an intense approach to relationships, sometimes being possessive. As I've said in my previous post, he likes security, so he can relax knowing that you are loyal to him.

I've already written about his 7th and secondary DSC on the previous post so let's proceed to the 8th.

His 8th house Gemini is ruled by Capricorn mercury in the 2nd house. His 8th house being in an air sign plus its ruler in Cappy, he must have an intellectual and logical approach to intimacy. That may be another reason why you find him unemotional sometimes. But, with your moon on his 8th (and on his vertex), you are "softening" his rough edges, which is why he is attracted to you. Mercury also harmoniously aspects your secondary DSC ruler mars, which is also in your 8th.

posted March 25, 2013 11:02 AM            

Yessss I do, and I am very possessive

He knows it and he LOVES when I'm possessive towards him,he'll do things just to get a rise out of me.

''But, with your moon on his 8th (and on his vertex), you are "softening" his rough edges, which is why he is attracted to you. Mercury also harmoniously aspects your secondary DSC ruler mars, which is also in your 8th. ''

posted March 25, 2013 11:04 AM            

yes, you did

Been wondering about our mars-pluto sq aspect.What's your take on it?

posted March 25, 2013 12:01 PM            

Anyways, your chart ruler is exalted in the 7th house (traditionally ruled by Libra), but in detriment by sign. Being in detriment doesn't mean that your chart ruler is always weak, though. Saturn may find itself in a foreign ground in Leo but since it's placed in the 7th and it's conjuncting your other Leo planets, you're like a Leo with a controlled and disciplined way of expression (Leos love to express themsleves, albeit in different ways), courtesy of your Capricorn ASC and chart ruler Saturn

posted March 25, 2013 12:11 PM            

Actually I have all nice trines to neptune, mercury,venus,sun and saturn trine neptune all at very tight orbs.Neptune also squares mars though, but I think the trines help a great deal,having it trine my chart ruler keeps me grounded in reality