posted March 24, 2013 05:05 PM            

I know you said your a beginner but I love your readings you gave others. I would like to know about a guy I really care for. I want to know if a reconciliation between us is possible? Maybe taking a look at how we were when together, what seperate us, how he feels about me at moment.

posted March 25, 2013 04:51 PM            

What was the nature of your relationship?

Five of Wands
Page of Swords
Ace of Wands (R)

I feel like there was probably a lot of lively discussion/ verbal sparring in your relationship. Probably could occasionally progress to disagreements - I suspect you're both have quite strong opinions? Good (strong)communication but there might have been a bit of a bottleneck translating this into action, and I think the relationship maybe lacked forward-movement or drive.

What separates you:

Nine of Wands (R)
The Hermit
The Moon

I think he wasn't at a stage where romance was his top priority. I think he probably found your emotions confusing and you both weren't entirely sure what you wanted. Neither could completely understand the other's point of view. Perhaps neither of you were willing to go out on a limb and really have the conviction to say that this was what you wanted and make it work. I think you both took a defensive stance and so when neither one of you really committed to seeing it through you ended up going your separate ways. I get the feeling that you both gave up!

What does he feel for you?

Ten of Pentacles
Three of Cups
Ten of Wands (R)

It feels like a warm, comfortable, safe kind of affection/ love. I think he still has a hope of reunion, maybe not consciously but I think in his heart of hearts your relationship is not confined to the past for him. I think at the moment he is still confused about what he wants and definitely has a fear of the commitment and responsibility that he associates with relationships. This might even obscure his true feelings for you to an extent - he probably isn't entirely honest with himself how much he still cares for you because his head warns him to think of all the 'baggage' (I use the term non-offensively!) that comes with commitment. Ultimately, I think he's in conflict.

Advice:

Seven of Cups
Five of Cups (R)
Four of Wands (R)

You need to make your choice and work for it as nothing worth having comes easily! I think that this is a gentle nudge to you to look on the bright side (focus on your two cups left standing). If you focus on what you want with a positive attitude you're far more likely to end up with the outcome you want. First step is to know what it is you really want. When you have that conviction then you can go ahead and fight for it with the confidence to face whatever hurdles might be thrown in your way!

Bottom: Three of swords (reversed)

Blergh don't like this card, I can almost feel those swords cutting my heart. Better reversed maybe. I think it speaks of what has gone before. Disappointment and misunderstanding.

posted March 26, 2013 08:38 PM            

I drew some cards for you!

When I was shuffling 3 cards fell out:

The 8 of of Pentactles, The Hermit, and The Three of wands. These 3 cards to me have something in common--focus, peace, and waiting. This could show the main themes of your relationship in that a lot of energy was put into this energy--I mean, real work in order to make progress. Additionally, now there is a period of waiting it out and doing some soul searching like The Hermit and looking for answers within. Finally the three of wands is another card of waiting for you "ship" to come and some sort of action (in this reconciliation) to take place.

So, with that said, after that, I picked three cards with your specific questions in mind:

1.) Reconcilliation: The Hierophant--this is a card of commitment definitely. Were you two close to being married? Living together of basically acting like you were? Was this something you both considered. There is a weight of commitment and heaviness to this union which is also shown by card two, The Lovers. Overall, this is a card of traditional values being explored.

2.) As far as what came between you to: The Lovers. Here I feel is karma at play--but still this is more of an idea than actuality. There is still a unique bond between you two, but was there a difference in lifestyle, value or opinions? No doubt, despite these differences and someone wanting to make a decision about the status of the relationship, this shows that there is a connection.

For the final card of how he feels about you: Justice. I feel that he sees you as someone who is balanced and that your perspective on the relationship was right. He admires your mental approach to things and your ability to suss out a situation without letting your heart get involved. You have a lot of power in this relationship and this may be something he appreciates.

Overall, I feel that this was a very, very serious relationship! 3 major arcana cards defined your relationship which shows that there are major lessons that were learned or could be from the outcome of your relationship.

I hope that you have found this helpful!

:-)

posted March 27, 2013 06:45 AM            

We were only together 2.5 months,but it felt like we knew eachother for years! We immediately felt comfortable together. We used to talk about:joking talk about children, I remember 1 time we talked about weddings it was us saying what it would be like etc. We met eachothers extended families, I spent EVERY night with him,all our spare time was together I miss it, I mas falling asleep with him beside me,waking up beside me,coming to his house to him after work

What came between us- maybe different reaction to a situation that happened, his ex hated me had hated me before I even dated him, he would still talk to her via txt,phone etc didn't see problem talking to her, I didn't like it knew she would sat&do things break us up - I was furious,was beyond furious when she made false police report on me trying to say I bothered her when reality is ye prior I changed my # from this psychopath woman...I was angry & I went postal on my ex basically,I cussed him up&down like no other because he asked f I did do that, I know I acted like a shrew because I was afraid he would dump me over her accusations & I don't know if he was but I self fullfilled that by acting like a monster causing him too

Judgement card, I dunno maybe now he sees and realizes where I was coming from? Yes, you can defense say with 3 of wands I'm waiting for my ship or reconciliation, hermit I been a hermit and isolated as he has too ...we haven't seen spoke in 2 myths but both have Bern in solitude working on ourselves seperately.

posted March 27, 2013 01:36 PM            

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do you think a reconciliation is possible then? Or is it completely done?

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You know 1Believer,

I don't feel comfortable saying yes or no fully b/c I'm no psychic! Still, I think you are really feeling the sting of this seperation--I just noticed that both Rhia and I also got The Hermit--and mine fell out of the deck. I feel that The Hermit shows time alone--but notice that he is carrying a light--which means that this is also a time of gaining new knowledge. Time apart also leads people together at times!

The 3 cards I got are all heavily karmic--and with the last being Justice, I feel that the way this situation unravels will be the way it's "supposed" to be. Do you know what I mean?

posted March 27, 2013 09:55 PM            

The Hermit card is very interesting, I know exactly what that symbolizes for the both of us - isolation, time to reflect, we both had some issues we needed to work out. He actually checked himself into rehab last month & I been taking a deep look inside myself & have been so isolated from my social life,friends & have been trying to piece my life together again you can say...I learned so much from all of this & a lesson I needed...it just sucks that in the process I lost someone I cared so deeply for. Definitely learned some new knowledge as I am sure he did.