posted March 24, 2013 05:06 PM            

I wonder what he thinks about me, and would he hurt me?

Sorry for all the questions, recently, I'm dumping out all the questions I have in my head so it can be finally cleared up for me.

posted March 25, 2013 07:11 AM            

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Originally posted by Tofu addict:
I don't see a chart, but if you are considering this question, and you do for maybe good reason, i would not wait for an answer, i would be out of there. Unless you like to live dangerously.

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posted March 25, 2013 03:45 PM            

How does he feel about you:

King of Wands
Two of Wands (reversed)
The World

I think he is confident and self-assured. Older, perhaps a little narrow-minded. I'm not sure he has completely made up his mind about you, it's almost as though he goes out of his way not to have any concrete thoughts about you or not to come to any conclusion. What he does think though, from what he acknowledges, is that you seem to have an inner self-confidence and maturity. Not a rash, full-of-yourself confidence, but more of a 'I know I'm not perfect but this is who I am', 'know your own know'.

I know this is more about how he sees you than what he thinks about you, but I think that's the way he works. Objective.

I was very reluctant to ask this next question because I think you should use your judgement for this, but I did anyway. Your instinct should override anything I say though because this might be meaningless/ wrong.

Would he hurt you?

Two of Swords
Knight of Pentacles (R)
Three of Pentacles (R)

I think he is a very controlled person - controlled about his emotions. Sort of fits with above. Doesn't feel like a hot-head. I can imagine him getting frustrated quite easily and perhaps being impatient sometimes, but I can't imagine more than this. But this is my imagination, thousands of miles away from you (I think - I'm in the UK!) and it may well mean nothing! He feels like the sort of person who likes things done his way, which I suspect is probably 'just-so' and he probably gets irritated by things that fall below his standards or aren't just the way he likes them to be done.

Bottom card for these two was The Hanged Man. I think that perhaps there might be a bit of a lack of compromise between the two of you? Slight lack of give-and-take and not 'going with the flow'?

I also asked for some advice for you:

Temperance (R)
Eight of Pentacles
The Hermit

Despite Temperance being reversed, I think this trio still speaks of acting in a calm, balanced manner. Think before you speak, act with prudence and avoid mood-swings or inconsistent behaviour. Generally good advice anyway! Also trust yourself and perhaps even take The Hermit literally and have plenty of time apart. I relate the Eight of Pentacles with the three above - I think he would appreciate 'good' work. Working hard and doing things well. At school, day-to-day tasks or otherwise. Again, good advice!

Bottom card is Eight of Swords (R) - do not act with haste.

I also asked some other random questions because I was struggling, to try and give me a bit of background. I think that one or both of you wants to move forwards but neither of you really know how to go about it, and so things are stuck in a bit of a rut. Some resistance to change. I don't get a lot of feeling of warmth about your relationship - it seems quite 'functional'. Both holding back a bit.

I may be way off the mark, but is this a family matter? I feel as though there's a bit of emotional confusion revolving around home and you feel a little misunderstood and/ or left out. Maybe issues from the past have resurfaced, or not been completely put to rest.

posted March 25, 2013 04:43 PM            

But.. the answer seemed a little vague on if he'd hurt me"? Was that a concerte yes or no? I'm confused haha!

Also -- what does he hold back from me?

posted March 26, 2013 02:19 AM            

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Originally posted by curiouswoman:
Hi rhia can you please read for me?
who is the man i am going to marry? did i already meet him? thank you so much.

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Oh, you made me get so excited.

posted March 26, 2013 05:27 PM            

CW - better leave this thread as KQ's I think

I don't think I can give a definite yes or no as to whether he would hurt you. From the reading I would say that he wouldn't hurt you now because he seems in control of his feelings, but I don't think tarot can fully take into account free-will or a complete change in circumstance, purely what will happen if things carry on as they are now. So although it looks as though he wouldn't hurt you now, I can't say that he never would. I'm sorry that's vague, but I don't feel comfortable giving an absolute answer!

I don't thing he's holding anything specific back from you, more as though he is reserving judgement, if you know what I mean. Like he's reluctant to decide what he really thinks about you. I didn't get a strong feeling of why that was, but if I had to take a punt I would say that he's trying hard to give himself a fresh start and leave his old self behind. Leave behind past flaws. Trying to do better, and part of this is not making rash judgements about people.

posted March 26, 2013 05:30 PM            

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Originally posted by rhia:
Sorry I missed the replies to this, but thanks very much for you compliment!

CW - better leave this thread as KQ's I think

I don't think I can give a definite yes or no as to whether he would hurt you. From the reading I would say that he wouldn't hurt you now because he seems in control of his feelings, but I don't think tarot can fully take into account free-will or a complete change in circumstance, purely what will happen if things carry on as they are now. So although it looks as though he wouldn't hurt you now, I can't say that he never would. I'm sorry that's vague, but I don't feel comfortable giving an absolute answer!

I don't thing he's holding anything specific back from you, more as though he is reserving judgement, if you know what I mean. Like he's reluctant to decide what he really thinks about you. I didn't get a strong feeling of why that was, but if I had to take a punt I would say that he's trying hard to give himself a fresh start and leave his old self behind. Leave behind past flaws. Trying to do better, and part of this is not making rash judgements about people.

Just a thought, I'm not sure about this!

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