posted March 25, 2013 04:13 AM            

He also likes Uranian_neptunian type of women, he has had a crush on a Uranus-Neptune conjunct Sun in Capricorn girl, Moon in Aries, with a Venus in Aquarius (and Mars in Cancer)

I have Moon in Taurus, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Cancer, and Uranus 1st house and Neptune conjunct Cappy ASC.

Why does he like me, I wonder? aren't I a little too "soft" for him? Haha!

posted March 25, 2013 04:50 AM            

According to Lotis' theory, Venus in a man's chart may show his 'ideal girl'. You fit the bill because your venus is in the same sign. If you also take the ruler of his 3rd house (which Gemini traditionally rules) into consideration, it falls in Capricorn, which is your ascendant. So, he may have an affinity for you because of Gemini/Capricorn/Sag(?) qualities in your personality.

Your Taurus moon also falls in his 8th house. Its ruler, venus, is in Gemini (it's all a loop, isn't it?) There's a pattern there.

The ruler of his 7th, mars also conjuncts his Venus, which is also the same sign as your Venus. Venus-Mars attraction, plus Mars is the ruler of his 7th house, he may view you as someone who complements what he lacks.

His 5th house is in Aquarius, with its ruler Uranus in the 4th conjunct neptune. The 5th house reperesents intial attraction, as what Lotis said. This may explain why he is attracted to Uranian-neptunian types. He is attracted to you probably because you have Uranus in the first house, which adds that uranian quality to your Cappy ASC conjunct neptune.

Does this make sense? XD

posted March 25, 2013 04:54 AM            

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posted March 25, 2013 05:01 AM            

Also your Venus and his Mars are conjunct by sign if not degree, along with his Sun and your mars.

His Venus trine Uranus probably apprectiates the 1st house uranian qualities you show.

His Pisces Moon probably likes the strength and solidity of your Taurean Moon/Cancer Sun. You are reliable/dependable to him and while he may not KNOW that's what he's after (mars/venus in Gem) it feels good to him to know he can depend on you.

You may be a bit "dreamy" at times with Neptune conj ASC, but your Saturn ruled ASC will almost always win out. I wouldn't think a Cap ASC was "soft" especially not with moon in Taurus. If anything you might be too stuck in your ways for him, eventually. Mars in Cancer can promote this stubbornness as well, making you a bit clingy/controlling. And while his moon might like having a sense of guided direction his Mars/Venus might feel a bit smothered if your "mine mine mine" Cancer Mars is activated ie, thru jealousy..

It looks like you have no reason to question why he likes you or not. Mars is the ruler of his 7th and your Venus like I said, conjuncts it by sign if not degree. So you are most definitely his type sexually. And it's in the same sign as his Venus so you guys probably enjoy a lot of the same tastes in things like music, movies, books... That right there, the intelluctual connection, could be enough right there for his Gem Venus to fall head over heels..

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Ooo I didn't see you posted your chart too!
That sextile between your Moon and his Sun is a big deal too. It's almost exact and in my experience Sun/Moon connections in synastry are some of the strongest. I read a quote somewhere once. : "And the Sun loved the Moon so much that every day, he died, just so she could live again"

posted March 25, 2013 05:14 AM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
Your ASC ruler is conj his DSC

Also your Venus and his Mars are conjunct by sign if not degree, along with his Sun and your mars.

His Venus trine Uranus probably apprectiates the 1st house uranian qualities you show.

His Pisces Moon probably likes the strength and solidity of your Taurean Moon/Cancer Sun. You are reliable/dependable to him and while he may not KNOW that's what he's after (mars/venus in Gem) it feels good to him to know he can depend on you.

You may be a bit "dreamy" at times with Neptune conj ASC, but your Saturn ruled ASC will almost always win out. I wouldn't think a Cap ASC was "soft" especially not with moon in Taurus. If anything you might be too stuck in your ways for him, eventually. Mars in Cancer can promote this stubbornness as well, making you a bit clingy/controlling. And while his moon might like having a sense of guided direction his Mars/Venus might feel a bit smothered if your "mine mine mine" Cancer Mars is activated ie, thru jealousy..

It looks like you have no reason to question why he likes you or not. Mars is the ruler of his 7th and your Venus like I said, conjuncts it by sign if not degree. So you are most definitely his type sexually. And it's in the same sign as his Venus so you guys probably enjoy a lot of the same tastes in things like music, movies, books... That right there, the intelluctual connection, could be enough right there for his Gem Venus to fall head over heels..

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Ooo I didn't see you posted your chart too!
That sextile between your Moon and his Sun is a big deal too. It's almost exact and in my experience Sun/Moon connections in synastry are some of the strongest. I read a quote somewhere once. : "And the Sun loved the Moon so much that every day, he died, just so she could live again"

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Aww, that's nice. Its very very accurate, to my surprise, he gets very annoyed when I get nervous when hes gone for an hour or two and he didn't like me hugging him all the time. lol...

posted March 25, 2013 05:28 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
by the waym, does my chart shows his my type sexually and romantically too? or is he lacking something -- just curious!

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Your moon is your DSC ruler.

His Sun is conjunct your Mars and sextile your Moon. I'd definitely say he's your "type" sexually. He could come off a little aloof at times for you though. Whereas you'd be happy constantly touching, holding hands, cuddling, playing footsie and the like... he's just fine sitting in the same room watching t.v. while you read a book or vice-versa

posted March 25, 2013 05:29 AM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
Your moon is your DSC ruler.

His Sun is conjunct your Mars and sextile your Moon. I'd definitely say he's your "type" sexually. He could come off a little aloof at times for you though. Whereas you'd be happy constantly touching, holding hands, cuddling, playing footsie and the like... he's just fine sitting in the same room watching t.v. while you read a book or vice-versa

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posted March 25, 2013 06:53 AM            

Okay, so my theory is that the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses show what we are attracted to.

His 5th house is Aquarius with his Moon in Pisces at the very end of this house, and the 5th house ruler Uranus in Aquarius in the 4th house.

Your are a Cancer Sun with Neptune and Uranus in the 1st house. His Moon in the 5th house, and 5th house ruler in the 4th house (the Cancer house), would attract him to your Cancer Sun. And your Uranus in the 1st house, which is tightly trine his Gemini Venus, would attract him because Aquarius is on the cusp of his 5th house.

His secondary 5th house is the 11th house. Aquarius rules the 11th house traditionally, and because of this the 11th house can actually function as a secondary 5th house (If your unfamiliar with this theory I’ve linked some threads below so you can read up on it, but for now I’ll just continue with the reading). His 11th house falls into Leo ruled by his Sun in CANCER! His secondary 5th house also links to your Cancer Sun, and Cancer Mars. Your Mercury in Leo falls into his 11th house (secondary 5th house) too.

His 7th house is Aries ruled by Mars in Gemini. Saturn in Aries also conjuncts his Dsc from late in the 6th house by only 2 degrees (For this reason I’d include Saturn in his attraction pattern as well). You have Capricorn rising, to match with his Saturn/Dsc conjunction, and Venus in Gemini to match his Mars in Gemini. Your Asc ruler Saturn in the Taurus also falls into his 7th house.

His secondary 7th house is actually his 1st house because Aries traditionally rules the 1st house. His 1st house is Libra ruled by Venus in Gemini, again matching to your Venus in Gemini. The fact that you have Mercury in the 7th house (the Libra house) is a faint match to his Libra secondary Dsc as well.

His 8th house Taurus, your Moon in Taurus falls into his 8th house, and sextiles both his Sun and his Moon. House synastry aside, these are excellent indicators of attraction, and with these aspects coming from your Moon in his 8th house, the effect would be strengthened.

Neptune is very closely conjunct your Asc. The Moon and Venus are signifiers for what guys like on a women, so you having Neptune conjunct your Asc would attract him (along with your Jupiter in Pisces) because of his Pisces Moon. Your Venus in Gemini would attract him too because of his Venus in Gemini.

Okay so he has a Gemini Venus, and Gemini traditionally rules the 3rd house. This means that the 3rd house will show extra details about how he appreciates women to behave (if your read the threads below this theory will be explained if you’re confused). His 3rd house is Sagittarius, ruled by Jupiter in Capricorn (which happens to be trine your Moon) in the 4th house. You have no planets in Sagittarius, but you have Capricorn rising and a Cancer Sun (Jupiter in the 4th house, the Cancer house).

And these are the astrological, technical reasons as to why your boyfriend would be attracted to your personality type. Hope this helps.

posted March 25, 2013 07:49 AM            

This is part 1, there may be something useful. The absolute fundamental of it, or so I understood, was that IC connections are what makes us feel comfortable, and at home. MC connections are what we feel comfortable to share and declare with the world and we feel can help us achieve our status... as it were. The articles are interesting and thought provoking.

Also, you shouldn't worry too much on why he likes you, just know that he does, and that should make you happy.

posted March 25, 2013 12:03 PM            

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Originally posted by Twirl:
Aww...
But of course we all copied your chart by now and saved it as a jpeg so we can use it for study

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