posted March 27, 2013 03:31 AM            

I'm trying to look into synastry charts. Noticed that in a 'fated feel' connection, my uranus and north node conjunct his ascendant.
On the other hand his north node
and vertex are conjuncting my ascendant.
Would that explain the instant attraction between us?

posted March 27, 2013 01:48 PM            

Neptune conjunct the ASC can be a spiritual, glamorous, and even mystifying connection. The ASC person can be under the spell of Neptune in a way that cannot be really defined. Meanwhile, Neptune's feelings can be reinforced by the ASC. It's a very magical connection, but one that most likely needs some balance and practicality as well.

Is this an earth sign that you both had in common?

posted March 27, 2013 02:58 PM            

So sorry, it was Uranus, not neptune! My head still must be full of neptune when I ponder over this, lol.
Thanks very much for the feedback though. Really appreciate it

It was just such a strange connection which spun me into looking at old (behaviour) patterns that came up. Thought I looked at most of my 'old stuff', but apparently I didn't. So even though we are out of touch this meeting still made me transform so much. That's probably why I now still ask if it was 'fated'. If you know what I mean. Might sound a bit odd, lol. Perhaps I just need the reconciliation it was something special. Doesn't matter in the end because I really made some changes for myself and that I do notice & benefit from. I'm rambling. I will post the chart here though I'm the one on the outside.

Thanks again Lotus

posted March 28, 2013 05:29 AM            

While I'm up I can look at this synastry.

I don't know how you guys here on LL all meet people with such contacts to your charts LOL.

First thing I see is your moon conjuncting his DC and Mercury which suggests a merger of emotions and thinking processes. Was this a case of "he said exactly what I feel?" This is also happening from the 6th house (daily activities) to your 12th house (unconcious). Did you feel free to really communicate your inner most thoughts to him--or feel the need to?

His Sun and Venus conjunction (love and sweetness!) is also in your 12th house! So he illuminated and was receptive to your inner thoughts and issues. It is a very sensitive and personal house! It handles all your unconcious feelings, etc. Also, your jupiter (which shows that you have a lot faith) is conjunct his sun and chiron as well. He probably brought a sense of optimism and healing to you as well! This is all happening in the sign of Taurus which is associated with earthiness and long-lasting responses.

PLUS, he's got Neptune and Jupiter in your 8th house which is also another deep. placement. Neptune brings awareness of dreams and spirituality so maybe you felt he made that real to you in a concrete way? Jupiter also represents "luck" so he could have shaken up your sense of self-worth as well.

posted March 28, 2013 05:56 AM            

I think it was more the other way around: I said what he (secretly) feels. And true, I have never been able to express my inner thoughts so much as I did with him. And he loved it, so that did have a healing quality to it.
It felt like a meeting in the middle: he is more practical /physical/the 'acting male energy' which I have trouble with sometimes (also due to my profession, I work with words and 'thoughts') He has that more spiritual/creative side to him, but doesn't really work with that area (think due rather conservative upbringing).
The meeting also fuelled my creativity into super high dimensions, lol.