posted March 29, 2013 12:59 AM            

Your house of friendships being partially clouded by Neptune's presence and Mars in the 8th providing a "deep sensuality." Those kept at a friendly distance probably sense this in you and are attracted to it. It probably doesn't help that Neptune is trine your Leo stellium either. It could cause friends (even females) to perceive you and your feelings with a touch of fantasy.

Neptune/Mars definitely gets my vote for the male friends thing, though.

posted March 29, 2013 02:44 AM            

Does this aspect explain the obsession too?

posted March 29, 2013 03:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Jessica2407:
^^ Thanks for replying Lionfish <3

Does this aspect explain the obsession too?

So how does this work? Like if I keep pushing them they become more enamored by me but if I get involved with them the feelings they have for me will change? Because the guys I'm interested in are not obsessed by me,it's more the other way around. Sometimes I feel the best way for me is to hook up with someone I'm not really interested in!

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It *could* be part of the obsession. Pluto sextile Neptune seems more right to me for that, though. But Pluto aspects Mars, as well. Nice little trifecta.

Also, I think that obsession is usually more prominant in the chart of the obsessor not the obsessee lol. More so in synastry. Are most of your male friends the same age? As each other if not you, too?

And yes, that's a good possibility. That if you push them away they will come begging back..Never settle!! If they aren't what you want, don't settle for them. Eventually the guy will come along that you can't be without, who can't be without you. I'm not saying don't test the waters. Especially with your Cappy Asc/Cancer Dsc. It could just be that you have to give love time to grow between you and one of these obsessed boys

posted March 29, 2013 05:24 AM            

Most of them are younger to me or same age...and a bit immature. Recently someone I keep in high regards has been calling me a few times and I felt something different in the air,like he wanted to tell me something.I stopped him,because I was scared of what he wa going to say..I hope I'm wrong because I would be very sad if I have to cut him off,because I do keep him in high esteem.And yes he is married. I never never for one instant thought of him in that light and never will, married guys are simply off limits.

You are right, it certainly doesn't help having neptune touching my leo stellium in the 7th house...I've also noticed that I have clients at work that will only deal with me and no one else,mostly guys and yes a few women,but mostly guys.I don't know if that is also due to this aspect? My public image is very different to my private image.

posted March 29, 2013 06:27 AM            

For some reason I'm feeling very...Not in-tune. I think it was a rant I posted on another thread of mine..

But for starters.. I think people might not SEE your emotions because you don't project them. So maybe, unintentional doormat syndrome?

posted March 29, 2013 07:06 AM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
I'm gonna come back to this Jess.

For some reason I'm feeling very...Not in-tune. I think it was a rant I posted on another thread of mine..

But for starters.. I think people might not SEE your emotions because you don't project them. So maybe, unintentional doormat syndrome?

Like I said.. I'm feeling off. I'll come back in a few hours after I've got my energies all realigned. Some things shake me to my core even just typing them out and rereading what I wrote.

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awwwww <3

Okay, when you are feeling better,sure want to know what you think <3

However,you are right, I know people are confused about my emotions.Someone told me that DSC ruler in 6th house make people take me for granted or treat me as a doormat,I don't quite relate to it TBH.

posted March 30, 2013 01:44 AM            

Moon in 6th trine Uranus in the 10th: Are you extremely independent? A lot of very independent people can tend to have their emotions over-looked because they seem so sure of themselves as to be almost impentetrable by "average" people.
Also with Moon square Pluto, I think this would lead to you being used/walked all over for the simple fact that it could cause you to keep your feelings to yourself wondering why other people (since Cancer is your 7th house ruler) don't understand what you're feeling...even though you haven't laid it out for them.

posted March 30, 2013 02:22 AM            

Oh yes!! Very very independent, and self sufficient.I can pretty well function on my own,like I can live on an island alone!

''Also with Moon square Pluto, I think this would lead to you being used/walked all over for the simple fact that it could cause you to keep your feelings to yourself wondering why other people (since Cancer is your 7th house ruler) don't understand what you're feeling...even though you haven't laid it out for them.''

So true.

''So like I said before... If you ARE being used as a doormat, it's because you don't project/share your emotions enough with the people around you.''

Nope, am not....I was wondering about it after what someone told me about Moon in 6th house, since he said that is a difficult placement.

''Do you have an easy time at work talking to people or letting them into your personal life because you know you can go home at the end of the day and not have to deal with them? That's kind of how I feel like that Moon/Uranus trine would play out..''

LOL true