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MillyX
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posted March 30, 2013 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So I finally found the time of birth. I plan on cutting contact with him soon, for real this time.

So what can be said about our synastry & composite? We're not a couple.


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lotus_flower
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posted March 30, 2013 05:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotus_flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah Ha!!!

OK, so here's what I think! (I'm no expert though--I'm sure a smartie will come along and pick out something really detailed)

I see what you mean about the communication now! His mars is in your 3rd house of communication--which means he really energizes you in this area! I can see how he can really spark interest in you in this way. Also his pluto is in your 9th house which shows that he really can transform or change your point of view about various subjects. Do you guys talking about travel and philosophical things together also? Is it usually a deep conversation?

His sun,mercury, and venus conjunction is just sitting right on top of your IC--which connects to your family and home life. So I can see where his Taurus charm and sensuality really affected you. Plus, this brings a strong familiarity and sense of closeness--which explains why you felt like sharing your ideas/self with him. He probably is someone who generally gets what he wants with charm and persistence.

Still, I feel that he was just as vulnerable in this friendship--your mars/sun conjunction really lights up his 12th house--in such an instinctual way, he probably was very, very drawn to you on a primal level and probably in a way he really couldn't understand.That conjunction is also contacting his nodes--which I'm sure someone great person this board has more info on! ON the other side is also your mercury and venus--so yes, intellectual and physical attractions was there I'll say for sure on his end--you are very appealing to him on a primal level I feel.

You both have moon/saturn conjunction which shows seriousness and reserved feelings--so it must have been nice to find someone to really open up to. I also see where you felt pressure from him--his saturn is in your 1st house. Usually the saturn person wants to exert influence on the other person--but it's almost as if he is the "teacher" and you are the "student" Does this all make sense?

I hope so! :-)

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MillyX
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posted March 30, 2013 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you so much! Hehe yeah he was the teacher and I was the student when it came to late night after dark convos.

Yup he is very charming and persistent when it comes to having what he wants. He sweet talks ALOT.

My planets in his 12th...So he really is vulnerable huh? The thing is I don't want to hurt him but I feel like I have to cut contact with him because in the end I'll be the
one getting hurt . He sends me messages all day
telling & I never respond to them...Simply because I
never knew if they were genuine or not. And I feel kind
of bad because he seems to look forward to talk to me
all the time & I just withdraw... That's the thing I
don't know if he REALLY likes me or if he just wants to
get in my pants. So I keep my distance kinda...

Oh and yeah about the nodes. I just noticed that his sun is conjunct my south node & opposite my north node. I don't really know much about nodes though.


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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
Ah Ha!!!

OK, so here's what I think! (I'm no expert though--I'm sure a smartie will come along and pick out something really detailed)

I see what you mean about the communication now! His mars is in your 3rd house of communication--which means he really energizes you in this area! I can see how he can really spark interest in you in this way. Also his pluto is in your 9th house which shows that he really can transform or change your point of view about various subjects. Do you guys talking about travel and philosophical things together also? Is it usually a deep conversation?

His sun,mercury, and venus conjunction is just sitting right on top of your IC--which connects to your family and home life. So I can see where his Taurus charm and sensuality really affected you. Plus, this bring a strong familiarity and sense of closeness--which explains why you felt like sharing your ideas/self with him. He probably is someone who generally gets what he wants with charm and persistence.

Still, I feel that he was just as vulnerable in this friendship--your mars/sun conjunction really lights up his 12th house--in such an instinctual way, he probably was very, very drawn to you on a primal level and probably in a way he really couldn't understand.That conjunction is also contacting his nodes--which I'm sure someone great person this board has more info on! ON the other side is also your mercury and venus--so yes, intellectual and physical attractions was there I'll say for sure on his end--you are very appealing to him on a primal level I feel.

You both have moon/saturn conjunction which shows seriousness and reserved feelings--so it must have been nice to find someone to really open up to. I also see where you felt pressure from him--his saturn is in your 1st house. Usually the saturn person wants to exert influence on the other person--but it's almost as if he is the "teacher" and you are the "student" Does this all make sense?

I hope so! :-)


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lotus_flower
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posted March 30, 2013 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotus_flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have you said to him: "Listen, I need you to be real with me!"

Is it an option to just date and see where it goes? Or maybe "date" is the wrong word?

OR, do you feel like the "after dark" convos got to be too much and now there is too much tension?

So you would otherwise want a relationship with him--but you feel he doesn't want a real relationship with you?

Now, I'm confused! LOL

Maybe tarot would be insightful? :just thinking:

Do you believe in Tarot? Would you be opposed to me pulling cards? Or are completely done with this situation and don't need anymore insight?

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MillyX
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posted March 30, 2013 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Yes I believe in tarot. It's nice of you to offer. If you do want to throw in a few cards I guess my question would be: What is his true feelings for me?

When he talks to me, does he really mean what he say or is he manipulating me?


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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
Have you said to him: "Listen, I need you to be real with me!"

Is it an option to just date and see where it goes? Or maybe "date" is the wrong word?

OR, do you feel like the "after dark" convos got to be too much and now there is too much tension?

So you would otherwise want a relationship with him--but you feel he doesn't want a real relationship with you?

Now, I'm confused! LOL

Maybe tarot would be insightful? :just thinking:

Do you believe in Tarot? Would you be opposed to me pulling cards? Or are completely done with this situation and don't need anymore insight?


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lotus_flower
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posted March 30, 2013 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotus_flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi!

Ok, I hope I am not being presumptuous!!!

Here we go. Here are the questions:

Just as in the synastry, he views you are very warm, attractive and inviting. This is reflected in the Queen of Wands. She is someone who is assertive, charming, and beautiful. But also someone who is fiery and who stands on her own and won't back down! Do you think this mirrors the situation in life?

In terms of how he feels, you are a respite for him. He feels at peace with you and is able to relax and unwind. Additionally, he may also feel that you are safe haven of sorts. This is reflected in the 4 of pentacles. Did he recently go through a tough time with a prior relationship or some other event?

The Empress, Queen of Cups, Ace of Wands all describe what he wants from you. Simply put, I think this is emotion and affection. The Empress and Queen of Cups are also very sensual, poetic, and emotional representations of women. I believe that he sees you in this light and wants to express that with you. The Empress shows that he looks up to your femininity. The Queen of Cups is tranquil and calm and he would like to experience this--do you provide a shoulder for him to lean on? The Ace of Wands is a card of action--so he wants something tangible with you--it is a very action oriented card. I get the sense that he overcome with emotion and attraction to you. You are irresistible to him and he wants to act upon it. (Ace of Wands). He wants an opportunity to express himself to you. He feels that there is an opportunity to be explored with you.

As far as his intentions regarding his words, the Knight of Cups appears--as you said before he is a charmer and sweet talker! This is the knight of cups as well. They have way with words and emotions. It doesn't mean that it is insincere, they just want to express what they feel at the moment--that is what is most important to them. This knight goes by what he feels at the moment.

The thing that I pick up is that his attraction to you is very real and very romantic in nature. What he wants is to express himself to you.

I hope that you found this helpful! And that it resonated with you!

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MillyX
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posted March 30, 2013 10:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MillyX     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you very much Lotus! Ah it resonates with me very much. They are very positive cards and that makes me sad because I know that I will have to let him go soon.

Yes, him seeing me as the Queen of Wands is accurate.

4 of pentacles as feelings...Well yeah he had some sort of breakup months ago but we don't talk about his past. 4 of pents is a card of control, posession right? But I don't think he feels posessive about me I mean we're only friends.

Empress, Queen of cups, Ace of wands as for what he wants from me. It sounds romantic. I always thought that he was after my virginity. He even admitted to me last night that he wants to 'conquer' me (lol wtf) & he wants to be my first everything. He said that he'd feel so dissapointed if I decided to not lose it with him. Ugh I hate this. It makes it even more harder to stop talking to him now that I know that he has 'feelings' for me.
-_-

Thank you lotus. That gives me plenty to think about.I mean I like him but the problem is we are completely different people. I'm the studious, ambitious girl type he is the high school drop out, smoke weed all day type. We don't have alot in common...Once I decided to not talk sex at all with him...And yeah the conversation was boring. I didnt have much to say to him. =\

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lotus_flower
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posted April 01, 2013 12:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lotus_flower     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Milly,

You know that whole conquor thing is the Ace of Wands completely. He want to "express" his attraction to you.

I can't believe he freely admits that your virginity is something is after--just like that! O_O. Then again, the Knight of Cups WILL just say things because they think of them as just feelings.

I think you are really insightful to realize that he just sees you as a conquest--that is so eye-opening. You are definitely more than that!

I hope that you find someone compatible to really connect with next time!! And I'm sure you will! Keep focusing on your studies and the right person will come along! I know that sounds so cliche, but it is very true! :-)

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