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Topic: Correct/Birth Time; Help! Lotus flower,Orange, RAS, Starmoon, tgem
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dyedye08
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From: South Orange, NJ, USA
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posted March 30, 2013 10:06 PM
  
Hey Everyone, I finally found the time of birth. I would like to know what can be said about our Synastry & Composite? Just need some help with interpretation . If you of you can elaborate on any opposing aspects,challenges, hindrances, positive aspects. I feel that we have a soul mate/twin flame connection. Him and I are not a couple, but I would like some feedback, thoughts from anyone who can paint the picture of what we shared And if any Relationship Potential for us for the future
Our Synastry
Our Composite
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littlecloud
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posted March 30, 2013 10:19 PM
Wow this looks like a super difficult relationship...I don't even know where to start. For one Uranus on the composite asc gives the whole relationship instability. Exciting, adventurous but not steady, which wouldn't be too bad if it was more positively. There is a magnetic pull with you dumping all those planets in his 12th... Lots of conjunctions with squares.... Not easy at all. Very love/hate vibe I'm getting, kinda like any live with, can't live without. The conjunction will bring you close and the squares will make you drive each other crazy bc it's not smooth sailing. Like the couple who is crazy about each other but you argue all the time and break-up every other day. So it depends what you're looking for and can deal with... IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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posted March 30, 2013 10:25 PM
@ littlecloud Thank-You! Mutual friends would say all the time that we use to fall in and out of love of a monthly basis, but I love him. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted March 30, 2013 10:39 PM
What your friends say definitely sounds like Uranus in the asc in the composite. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted March 31, 2013 06:58 AM
Hey, I'm no expert, but I have experience of having a composite with many planets in the 12th house. It does feel like you're stuck together (well, you have squares & Uranus conjunct ascendant, so it's diff. For u). But being together feels like you have to be together (if you are/get in a relationship w. him) it's more like a spiritual connection - your own "private/secluded" world.
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tgem
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posted March 31, 2013 07:45 AM
First thing I saw was your NN conjunct his vertex..this is a top indicator for marriage....in addition to the other NN aspects you both have. Those in itself are binding and significant. I also see a good amount of saturn aspects in the synastry which can help ground the instability...plus a good amount of saturn aspects are said to be karmic....definitely intense...if you like intense!IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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posted March 31, 2013 08:12 AM
@ Empress Thank-You. You are absouletly right . I feel like I have to have him in my life. He complaints me in so many ways. IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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posted March 31, 2013 08:13 AM
@ Tgem Thank You! I hope these binding aspects actually do work, and bring us back together. I do feel that he is my soulmate.IP: Logged |
Orange
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posted March 31, 2013 08:44 AM
Its a deep and strong synastry. I would say the person on the outer wheel affects the inner wheel more. Like someone before me said - the North Node conjunct Vertex is a very powerful aspect, a top marriage indicator.
South Node on Sun is a karmic aspect, very binding as well and a past life indicator. Moon on DSC is hearthfelt and absolutely wonderful. Saturn on Moon is nurturing and endiring, if not too cold at times, but very supportive nontheless. This connection will endure most hardships. Mars on Pluto contributes with great sexual attraction.
Whats the story behind this synastry? IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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posted March 31, 2013 11:13 AM
@ Orange Thank-You!
My Moon is in his 6th House is right, we met through your work.
From the very beginning, there was this powerful spiritual connection that we shared together.I felt like we have this magnetic pull on one another. Physical attraction between us; so powerful that we quickly become aroused in each other’s presence. To me he was my best friend and ally. We were like a dynamic duo like a Power Couple Because both of us have strong emotions, the problem is we fail to comprehend the other’s emotional nature. We have difficulty expressing our feelings to each other. It seems like it isn't any easier for him to express himself to me, than for me to express myself to him. Because communication between wasn't always as clear as it could be. Even though we tend to think alike and have similar objectives. There has always been a tendency to evade important issues within our friendship. Sometimes things that should be said just isn't and other times things that shouldn't be said are, which led to tragic misunderstandings. I'm highly sensitive and can sometimes be emotional at times. Whereas, he's cool and restrained. Since, I'm the emotional one I feel unable to get close to him. I feel like there is a lot that he want to say, but he refuses to let me in. Because I felt that a close personal connection did exist between him and I. This caused me to push and this may have come off as being too aggressive to him. I'm fearful and inhibited, so I may have come across as being needy and emotionally dependent. Now I understand, that he felt like maybe I was smothering me. Which explains the distance between us Which would explain the disagreements and arguments we use to have. And why he felt the need to strike out at me in frustration or anger. It also explains the separation that is going on between us now. I sometimes feel that our personal needs are being met.
Even though, there is a great affection between him and I.
we sometimes managed to get annoyed and fed up with each other for short periods of time. I feel like he's the one, my soul mate. Like I have to have him in my life. We are not even speaking now, we haven't spoken in months. I miss him terribly. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted March 31, 2013 05:03 PM
"Because communication between wasn't always as clear as it could be.Even though we tend to think alike and have similar objectives." ^What you say right there is exactly be picture I was trying to paint in my explanation.
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Orange
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posted March 31, 2013 09:04 PM
Not being able to see things and understand emotions clearly between the two of you is your 12th house synastry. And it's a curse and a blessing in disguise. A blessing - because you are able to communicate in a telepatic sort of way ( 12th house) and feel each other despite a physical distance; a curse - because you are going to try to block those perceptions thinking that they're false perceptions. At the end - mistruss settles in and devides you. Saturn / Moon conjunction will keep you coming back together. It's a strong connection. IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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From: South Orange, NJ, USA
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posted March 31, 2013 09:52 PM
@ Orange thanks for the insight. So, due to 12th house synastry if I were to confess my undying love to him. Chances are he wouldn't believe due to 12th house synastry. This is the craziest thing I have ever heard, it's defeat the whole purpose. What's the point in telling the person how you feel, if they are not even going to believe you. This is hardIP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted April 01, 2013 05:28 PM
I'm not sure if he won't believe you completely but more that there will be this doubt of sincerity, perhaps it being too good to true type of thing. This would be a difficult relationship, one that is very movie/story like. Lots of love and passion but a certain disconnect that doesn't allow everything to flow easily. The most common suggestion where Uranus is strong is to avoid trying to control it or make it meet standards. This is a relationship that you'll have to discard any ideas/thoughts/actions of what a relationship is 'supposed' to be. IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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posted April 01, 2013 06:18 PM
@ little loud Thank You. Our main issues are competition and miscommunication. At this point, it doesn't even matter. He doesn't contact me and I have giving up on contacting him. Despite my feelings, I have to let him go. Maybe one day he'll come back to me IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted April 01, 2013 09:59 PM
i'm a bit surprised to hear about the communication difficulties because your mercury signs are closely conjunct both ways, and that is generally an indication that a couple will be able to communicate well. some things i noted is that you have his venus opposite your moon, and despite being close to your mercury, his venus sign (and moon as well) are not conjunct to any of your personal planets. i would guess that he is the less interested person all-around. there is also an absence of personal planets in the houses that are usually good indicators for happy romances - 1/5/7/8. as others have mentioned, you're overwhleming his 12th house! he is probably drawn to all that energy and yet cannot effectively handle it, so his feelings for you might really be all over the place. and yeah, uranus sitting on the ASC in the composite = not stable, despite the nice conjunctions to mercury and venus from the sun. you also have his uranus in synastry coming close to all the planets in your stellium. he has the 'power' in this realtionship because imo he isn't the one who is invested the most, and his planets in general (libra/sag) are more powerful than virgo in the sense that they can retain a lot of optimism. IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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posted April 01, 2013 10:11 PM
@ starmoon Thank-You! That's exactly how I feel too. I have invested a lot into this friendship hence I'm always the one to put my feelings on the line. What confuses me is how he could easily tell a mutual friend how he felt about me but he could never tell me how he truly felt. He has always had the power, I'm always waiting on him to make a move and he always disappoints. The whole no communication/separation is because of him. Right now, I really don't see him initiating any form of contact with me anytime soon. I think he may have actually let go. This is exactly, what it feel like he has done. It's hurts because I invested so much. I can't even get a simple hi or hello from him now. IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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posted April 01, 2013 10:15 PM
and his planets in general (libra/sag) are more powerful than virgo in the sense that they can retain a lot of optimism. If this is true meaning he would be the one that's optimistic about the whole friendship, why don't he act like it nowIP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted April 02, 2013 01:12 AM
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Originally posted by dyedye08:
and his planets in general (libra/sag) are more powerful than virgo in the sense that they can retain a lot of optimism. If this is true meaning he would be the one that's optimistic about the whole friendship, why don't he act like it now
i meant optimistic in the sense that those signs can (generally) move forward better from relationships - they retain a sense of optimism about life and love and being able to find new people and experiences... sorry :-( IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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posted April 02, 2013 07:50 AM
@ Starmoon I believe this is the attitude he has now. Being optimistic about his future, without any regard to my feelings at allIP: Logged |
tgem
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posted April 02, 2013 09:08 AM
@dyedye08 - your situation is so ironic as I am currently going through the same thing on all levels. It's so hard when you feel they are your soulmate. But I always believe things work out the way they should...at the very least, this is definitley an importnant lesson for your soul's growth, whatever happens.@ Littlecloud,Empressmendez,Orange and Starmoon: not to invade dyedye08's thread, but could you all take a look at my synastry in personal readings? I'm literally going through the exact same thing - could really use some opinions as I am heartbroken as well, please please please?! IP: Logged |
dyedye08
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From: South Orange, NJ, USA
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posted April 02, 2013 10:14 AM
@tgem Sorry to hear that you are going through the same thing. I can only imagine your pain . This has definetly been a experience, wish I knew just an inkling of how he sees this. Sending you lots of virtual chocolate. My state of mind is, it's his lost and I'm letting go and moving on. My mind is ready to move on and bypass the hurt and emotions, but my heart still wants to hang on for some reason. My motivation is that this too shall pass eventually, all I hope for is that one day we can talk and become friends again IP: Logged |
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