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Topic: Great Synastry / Terrible Composite??
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JoJo
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posted April 01, 2013 05:36 PM
  
Hi all, The synastry and composite charts for me and someone I'm seeing are below. I thought the synastry was great and was excited about our potential. Then I saw the composite and now wonder if I should just cut bait and run. Can you please give me your interpretations please? Thanks   IP: Logged |
imeanj
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posted April 01, 2013 05:58 PM
I would take out the asteroids and repost - easier to read and post the aspect charts. Also, I am unclear on the asteroids you have selected, Kaali and Lust, but no Eros and Psyche? Go for the planets first, because if they don't combine well, then not sure what the point of the asteroids is. Also the composite doesn't look BAD, just a lot of grand trines - so pulled in different directions, but still stable which is good. Just depends on how you interpret it. Good luck! IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted April 02, 2013 02:03 AM
The synastry seems ok, the aspects
between the planets don't seem too striking but then the angles and the aspects are..the house overlays are ok as well...you may be a little more affected then him.The composite, there's no grand trine, I think you meant grand cross or t-squares.
I won't lie when I first saw the composite I said "Holy **** !!!" With saturn on the asc like that I don't even know if anything will come of it..it's usually an indication of a slow start to a relationship or no start at all. IP: Logged |
JoJo
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posted April 04, 2013 06:29 PM
Thanks. Well, I guess I won't get my hopes up then. Our first two dates were amazing and we really, really connected. He even commented about how I felt like "home" to him. Then he seemed to drop off the face of the earth, so I guess that's that. I'll just wait and see if he calls me again. IP: Logged |
littlecloud
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posted April 04, 2013 07:51 PM
The home feeling he mentioned is the IC/AC conjunction. In my experience it's never been a good one. It depends largely on what 'home' is/was to you growing up. I grew up in an abusive environment so while the home feeling is nice for me for a while, it seems to end up being a bit volatile later in the relationship. And since I'm still a bit attached to that definition, my near future definition of home is likely to 'bad'. If somewhere down the line I manage to deal with this in a more positive manner an AC/IC conjunction may not be as bad to me. On the other hand if you grew up in a very supportive loving environment then that feeling would be a good one. He was AC I was IC, my brother was AC his now ex-wife was IC. I read somewhere on this site a while ago someone having a hypothesis that in this time of conjunction the IC person leaves the AC person, which in these two cases was true, however that's only 2 cases and I haven't exactly researched it. My main point is that it's definitely a strong pull to the person, it's that instant attraction but it alone does not ensure longevity. There are more factors that play into it. How long ago has it been since you first saw him? Have you tried contacting him? IP: Logged |
JoJo
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posted April 04, 2013 07:57 PM
Thanks. I saw him Monday and haven't really heard from him since. I know that's not that long, but it's more of a gut feeling I have than anything. Somehow we had a role reversal and my gut tells me he's gone sideways on me. Oh well, it was a new thing anyway, so it's not a big loss.IP: Logged |
JoJo
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posted April 04, 2013 08:00 PM
By the way, his natal chart is the one I asked about in this thread http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/006616.html I posted it below as well  IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted April 05, 2013 10:53 AM
unsolicited unasked video contribution http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceFIUhNyJH8&playnext=1&list=PLF12BD4AB78DAD8DC&feature=results_video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8NIun9SZMU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rv_APCcVKXk IP: Logged |
JoJo
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posted April 05, 2013 11:19 AM
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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
unsolicited unasked video contribution http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ceFIUhNyJH8&playnext=1&list=PLF12BD4AB78DAD8 DC&feature=results_video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j8NIun9SZMU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rv_APCcVKXk
Haha! These are amazing! Thank you! IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted April 05, 2013 11:23 AM
I discovered him by coincidence and to be honest at first I just listened to him, because of the accent and the enthusiasm of his voice. Gets me everytime about anyone. lol
however as to your problem, if you know the date of your first meeting (physical meeting!), you can make a composite of that time and your respective natal charts. That shows how each of you relates to that moment.
As weird as that sounds, composite between natals and transits/ first meeting charts are just SOOOO telling, I have found. IP: Logged |
JoJo
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posted April 07, 2013 06:35 PM
So I heard from him last night. Guess he didn't disappear after all. He was out of town and contacted me when he had service. Looking forward to seeing him soon. :-)IP: Logged |
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