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Topic: For Littlecloud, Orange, Starmoon & Empressmendez
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tgem Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 02, 2013 09:23 AM
Could really use some interpretations of this synastry. We were very good friends, feelings were incredibly strong but our communication was more telepathic so we never voiced our feelings and thoughts (mercurys don't aspect.) It caused a lot of hurt and many misunderstandings. We haven't spoken in almost a year but still see eachother on a regular basis and are connected indirectly in eachothers lives. I just cant seem to let go as I feel this relationship was meant to be. Would love some thoughts on this? Thanks so much. p.s. I'm blue, he's red. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez Knowflake Posts: 2601 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted April 02, 2013 11:20 AM
Sadly I don't know much about synastries His Jupiter conjunct your Sun looks very good though :]. It might be one of the main aspects that is making you feel this way (I may be wrong, don't take my word for it). Bumping so that others good @ this can assit you IP: Logged |
tgem Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 02, 2013 12:09 PM
Thank you IP: Logged |
tgem Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 02, 2013 05:22 PM
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starmoon Knowflake Posts: 496 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted April 02, 2013 06:28 PM
you both have your ASC signs conjunct to the others' vertex, so i'm going to guess that the relationship, from both sides, felt equally karmic, something along the lines of 'gee, it feels like i've known this person forever.' the vertex, while not a planet with any 'energy' is a point in the chart that, when activated, leads to a feeling of 'i've found my soulmate!' - it's like you've known the person in some other life. and you have this vertex-ASC conjunction both ways from the 1st houses to the 5th/8th respectively. so, it lends iteself even more to a romantic feel/pull. the other good aspect is his mars/sun falling into your 7th house; he'd be attracted to you as a partner and definitely see you as someone he'd want to be with (at least initially). you also have planets in his 7th house, but they are coming from your 12th. the person with the 12th house planets often has to work extra hard to get those energies out and focused - this might be where your continued interest in him is coming from - unresolved issues with the moon/venus in your 12th. your 12th house venus is also sitting opposite his neptune. while some people don't like neptune in synastry because it can lead to illusions, i happen to like it because it also adds to romance/fantasy. but that is if they are conjunct/trine/sextile. with the opposition you'll have more of the dynamic where people see each other too clearly and can become easily disenchanted with the other, neptune especially, and he is neptune here. the other trouble spots i see are the two pluto signs exactly conjunct in libra - that equals a lot of power struggles between a couple. you also, a you mentioned i think, have your mercury sign unaspected and your ASC opposite his mercury - not good positions for easy communcations. both uranus signs are close to the his ASC, so it'd be an unstable relationship, or at least one with many ups/downs. you also have both venus signs sitting all alone, unaspected except for the opposition to neptune. i'm a big fan of seeing a man's moon and venus well-aspected by the female in synastry - you cannot hold a man's interest if he isn't emotionally and physically interested for the long-term. i don't see enough conjunctions between you guys for it to go the distance, and just in general, your energies are quite different. your gemini planets would fare much better with a person similarly minded and although his sag moon is ok for a gemini, his other placements really aren't. you also don't have any conjunctions that are considered (classically) good for romance/sexual pull -venus-pluto or venus-uranus or venus-mars. just opinions ok :-) we've all been through heartbreak and it sucks until you realize someone better is actually out there :-)IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1670 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 02, 2013 11:48 PM
You guys have venus square venus, his venus squaring your neptune and your venus opposite his neptune. Some aspects like these are generational when you have them in your chart, when you have a venus/neptune opposition nataly you're likely to have it with everyone born within 2-3 years of you (my math is probably a bit off but you get my point). So normally this dynamic isn't too big of a deal to me but because it heavily conflicted it points to an inability to properly express love for each other. Venus in Pisces needs to always feel in love and keep that romance and mysticism alive, especially squaring neptune, it's very dreamy. Venus in gemini is very flirtatious and is attracted to stimulating conversation and someone who can mentally spar with them, witty comebacks and the like. The issue here is you're likely to hurt him without realizing it because your methods of love are different. The hard aspects to Neptune help you to ignore this problem rather than acknowledging it and loving them anyway, which leads to the disillusionment starmoon mentioned. For a venus in pisces that is the most heartbreaking thing of all. Once the feeling of falling in love is gone, so are they. His mercury mars conjunction with mars square your pluto probably makes him feel like talking/arguing with you is a constant power play. Who's right or wrong... Your moon is unascpected and so is his sun which indicates a lack of feeling emotionally supported, may lead to feeling of loneliness like he really doesn't understand you and your moon is your chart ruler! Which is sorta double bad bc it's like he can't see what drives your point of view and how you think, or that he understands it but can't connect to it and can't give you the support you need. Since his sun is in his 3rd house it's important that you hit this spot for communication. Mars square Uranus is a personally terrible experience for me. Kinda great at the beginning because of all this energy that's exciting sexually but I see this as an 'abuse aspect'. When someone has this nataly it points to a very bad temper where the individual may get so angry they black out and don't remember what they did, or where they search for fights/arguments. It needs a constant 'violent' outlet, like mma fighting or being a cut throat lawyer. In synastry it points to an explosive amount of energy that can lead to arguements where people throw things at each other if there isn't some positive release for it. His Saturn on your mars may limit your 'action' and this energy will have difficulty being expressed. I know I'm pointing out a lot of 'bad' things, but I do see where the attraction is. For one your cancer asc and his scorpio asc is compatible in that it allows you to connect with a similar outlook on life. His Sun in the 3rd gives it a "gemini" feel which is echoed a bit by your moon and venus in gem. So there is some understanding, but not quite a full one. Your venus in the 12h is echoed by his venus in pisces. Sun conjunct Jupiter is really positive, makes you both feel excited and energetic around each other. There is a lot of good stuff here, but I get a very friendshippy feel...I could be wrong but it feels like things would need to be kept light and airy because if you go really deep, as relationships often do, there feels to be a lack of true understanding that will keep it long lasting. Like after a while you will wonder why you're together since you can't seem to understand each other in a way that will allow you two to work well together. I don't like giving verdicts like this, there are a lot of positive things in your charts but to me it doesn't feel like a full 'click' you know? maybe I'm wrong, maybe talk to him and see what he feels? IP: Logged |
tgem Knowflake Posts: 137 From: Registered: Jan 2013
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posted April 03, 2013 07:07 AM
Thank you so much Starmoon and Littlecloud, I really appreciate your insights..fresh eyes always help!IP: Logged |
shylioness07 Newflake Posts: 8 From: pursuitk@gmail.com Registered: Mar 2013
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posted April 03, 2013 08:03 PM
@ starmoon and little could I would definitely appreciate if you guys could take a look at my synastry chart. I love the deep and thorough analysis offered by you both. IP: Logged | |