posted April 07, 2013 09:38 AM            

I responded to your post about your daughter in law and son and you mentioned that you wanted someone to look at your son's chart.

posted April 07, 2013 11:46 AM            

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Originally posted by Cherri:
Hi, Barbee,

I responded to your post about your daughter in law and son and you mentioned that you wanted someone to look at your son's chart.

I'd be very interested in doing that, especially since I have a Pisces Moon like he does and can relate to how he is with his wife. Would you mind posting his info?

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Thank you. For some reason Astrology 2.0 is the only place I get responses.

posted April 15, 2013 10:06 AM            

The Moon and Mercury in Pisces means to me that his thinking and his emotions are very sensitive, they are linked. Mercury in Pisces does not like confrontations and it is very hard to express feelings. My husband has this and when something bothers him, he will not come right out and say it. He gets quiet and it's up to me to read his mood and just ask him what's up.

Also, your son's Neptune is in the 7th house of partnerships. This fogginess in the area of relationships means that he is in danger of idealizing any close relationship - his marriage may be the perfect example. Maybe he has rose colored glasses with his wife and is not able to see the negative aspects that are coming out in her, therefore, since he would prefer to think that all is good, he most likely won't say anything.

That combined with his Mercury in Pisces could make him just very quiet about everything. His emotions, being a Pisces Moon, might not be able to handle any kind of discord. This might be difficult for him and hopefully he will be able to see the truth (if the marriage might not work, that is) and stay and confront come issues instead of trying to escape them.

It is difficult, especially when his nature seems to be very different from his wife's. I am sure there are other placements in his chart that explains more. But I zoned in on those things because they just stuck out at me.

posted April 15, 2013 11:03 AM            

She has found an apartment and is moving out with his daughter on May 1. I hope he can cope to being alone in a house that was once full of life and laughter.

posted April 17, 2013 08:06 AM            

I have Moon in Pisces and also Neptune conjunct Ascendant as well as close aspects from Neptune to personal planets. It is ridiculous how sensitive I am. And I will tell you that I definitely drink to escape.

But I'm different, I don't have any problems, really, except that I just like a different mindset, I like having wine and enjoying some music or being outside watching the kids with my husband, regular family stuff. But I lean towards not being able to say no when I should!

However sometimes I do drink when I'm bored or a bit down, definitely. If I had major relationship problems, I'd definitely drink but that's the worst time to do it.

I am worried that your son, being on his own, will drink too much. But that might be something he needs to go through. But being alone might also help him sort out his feelings and gain strength without anyone else's thoughts to impress on him and influence him.

I gain strength when I'm alone and I find my identity and how I feel. I need regular downtime. So I hope things are OK. Maybe I'll recognize you on another forum, if you aren't on here often!!

posted April 17, 2013 12:53 PM            

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Originally posted by Cherri:
Well you know, I am glad to help. I am very sorry that your son is going through this, and that you, being worried for your son, have to go through it as well.

I have Moon in Pisces and also Neptune conjunct Ascendant as well as close aspects from Neptune to personal planets. It is ridiculous how sensitive I am. And I will tell you that I definitely drink to escape.

But I'm different, I don't have any problems, really, except that I just like a different mindset, I like having wine and enjoying some music or being outside watching the kids with my husband, regular family stuff. But I lean towards not being able to say no when I should!

However sometimes I do drink when I'm bored or a bit down, definitely. If I had major relationship problems, I'd definitely drink but that's the worst time to do it.

I am worried that your son, being on his own, will drink too much. But that might be something he needs to go through. But being alone might also help him sort out his feelings and gain strength without anyone else's thoughts to impress on him and influence him.

I gain strength when I'm alone and I find my identity and how I feel. I need regular downtime. So I hope things are OK. Maybe I'll recognize you on another forum, if you aren't on here often!!

Take care,
Cherri

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