posted April 10, 2013 09:19 PM            

If you would like a reading in exchange, tell me.I can exchange with one or more people. Tell me if you would like a Natal chart reading, Solar return, Transit+natal+progressions or Playing card readings. I have time to do it since I don't have alot of classes tomorrow.

posted April 10, 2013 11:04 PM            

I'll exchange with you, no prob!

OK, Here it goes:

As far as what he feels for you--it is a lot! He feels that he has had to work for you--he has spent a lot of time possibly getting to know you and "working" on this relationship with you. Ultimately, there a feeling of triumph that he also has regarding you--is this a situation where you are attempting to be won over? If so, this person feels that this definately achievable--and may feel that he already has it in the bag. He feels that you ground him and make him feel like a real man--a successful one at that!

He also expects a great deal from this relationship with you---you are his ideal and is drawn in by your spirit and your femininity. He is very, very attracted to you in a physical sense as well. Ultimately, he wants to merge with you completely and let all of his feelings for you be explored. He wants to relationship to grow and become official.

As far as you are concerned, this relationship with him has not been a similar experience. THere is a feeling of being hemmed in by traditional expectations. Also, communication is a BIG factor in this. Words are tossed around frequently and they are POWERFUL! This is serious! And for you, do you feel like there is no way "out" of this relations ship? There is word play that is going on that keeps you in? Trusting your intuition and knowing that there IS a way away from this if you want there to be--is definately something you should know!

This sense of being unsure carries on--what he can present to you is very tangible and real--whether this be a material thing, a physical gift--whatever. It's very nice--BUT, it doesn't stop you from feeling like there are too many other issue at play for you. Too many choices and judgement is clouded. What he offers LOOKS nice, but what does it really mean? And what is he really offering?

This is a relationship that really has the chance to explore letting go of old ties. Again the idea of communication comes up! This person is very, very strong with words! And this has set the tone for your relationship. There is some word play again that is going on that taints the beauty of how the relationship could have been. For the earlier cards--he may feel that he is trying to claim you, but what he really may be doing is pushing you away completely.

From here, I would say there something positive! If you both can come to an understanding, there a great deal of friendship, happiness, and action that is related to whatever relationship you have. The idea is that there needs to be a decisive action--a clear declaration where both can have it out and set a plan into motion--get going! This situation definitely has a chance to improve as long as both know where the other stands. This can be a great learning experience! For you, you need to take this action and stand firm. I feel there will be an opportunity for you to this!

posted April 11, 2013 01:31 PM            

I am a student too! So, I know how it is! Have a class tonight!

Ok, so I suppose a natal chart reading?

Here it is:

posted April 11, 2013 02:27 PM            

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Originally posted by lotus_flower:
Hi!

I'll exchange with you, no prob!

OK, Here it goes:

As far as what he feels for you--it is a lot! He feels that he has had to work for you--he has spent a lot of time possibly getting to know you and "working" on this relationship with you. Ultimately, there a feeling of triumph that he also has regarding you--is this a situation where you are attempting to be won over? If so, this person feels that this definately achievable--and may feel that he already has it in the bag. He feels that you ground him and make him feel like a real man--a successful one at that!

He also expects a great deal from this relationship with you---you are his ideal and is drawn in by your spirit and your femininity. He is very, very attracted to you in a physical sense as well. Ultimately, he wants to merge with you completely and let all of his feelings for you be explored. He wants to relationship to grow and become official.

As far as you are concerned, this relationship with him has not been a similar experience. THere is a feeling of being hemmed in by traditional expectations. Also, communication is a BIG factor in this. Words are tossed around frequently and they are POWERFUL! This is serious! And for you, do you feel like there is no way "out" of this relations ship? There is word play that is going on that keeps you in? Trusting your intuition and knowing that there IS a way away from this if you want there to be--is definately something you should know!

This sense of being unsure carries on--what he can present to you is very tangible and real--whether this be a material thing, a physical gift--whatever. It's very nice--BUT, it doesn't stop you from feeling like there are too many other issue at play for you. Too many choices and judgement is clouded. What he offers LOOKS nice, but what does it really mean? And what is he really offering?

This is a relationship that really has the chance to explore letting go of old ties. Again the idea of communication comes up! This person is very, very strong with words! And this has set the tone for your relationship. There is some word play again that is going on that taints the beauty of how the relationship could have been. For the earlier cards--he may feel that he is trying to claim you, but what he really may be doing is pushing you away completely.

From here, I would say there something positive! If you both can come to an understanding, there a great deal of friendship, happiness, and action that is related to whatever relationship you have. The idea is that there needs to be a decisive action--a clear declaration where both can have it out and set a plan into motion--get going! This situation definitely has a chance to improve as long as both know where the other stands. This can be a great learning experience! For you, you need to take this action and stand firm. I feel there will be an opportunity for you to this!

I hope that this all resonates with you Milly. Let me know!

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Feedback:

Everything rings true. He did try to win me, I am not an easy chick, I am hard to get & I guess he really likes challenges. I am the total opposite of him, innocent & haven't done anything yet, while he is kind of a..wreck.
I know he wants something more with me but I don't. I just want to be friends. I rejected him last week & he didn't take it very well. We didn't speak for days...I was the one who asked for some space. I recontacted him because I missed him & things aren't the same anymore. We don't joke around like we used to. He has stopped talking to me ever since. I feel like he is bitter towards me.

I want to be friends with him because I never had a male friend before. I don't want romance with him. Most of my friends are superficial girly girls who read Cosmo & follow dumb advice (I still love them though haha) & it was nice for me to have someone different. You know have a male perspective on things. But the thing is, my friends tell me that he is a bad influence, a low life. I found out one of his secrets (& he has many more apparently). He has all of this money...when he stays at home & doesn't go to work or school.Where did he get all of that money from? He admits to me that he is a drug dealer (And I'm talking the hard stuff). He has many secrets. I like his dangerous side but in the end, I think it's best to avoid him & move on.

Can I ask another question if possible: What will happen to our friendship? Will he ever contact me again?

Thank you again, very accurate reading!

posted April 11, 2013 09:44 PM            

I'll do house rulers:
Your 1st house ruler in the 7th. It shows that relationships & partnerships are a very important thing for you. You probably care about other peoples opinions & acceptance of you. This might make you a very diplomatic person.

Ruler of 2nd house in the 12th: I have this too in my natal chart. One possible meaning of this, since the 2nd house rules self esteem, might be low self esteem. (In my case it is, but every chart & individual is different so it might not be the case for you). This house also rules value systems, so you might value spirituality & forgiveness.

R. of the 3rd in the 8th: Since the 3rd house rules communication & thinking & the 8th house rules 'intensity'. It might mean that your mind is probably tuned into the psychic plane, or there is a possibility of developing such abilities. Or maybe your writing, thinking style is dark & intense.

R.4 in the 7th: Might mean that your sense of security is tied with forming close partnerships.

R. of the 5th in the 6th: 5th house rules romance...Perhaps you might find romance in the workplace? Or you might feel creative in the work you do.

R. of the 6th in the 5th: Again, the type of work you do, must give you joy & pleasure. Your work might also involve children? (Might be wrong hehe).

R. of the 7th in the 7th: Again, an emphasis on relationships. You might be the type who is in love with love.Forming close partnerships might be an easy thing for you & you might feel like life is incomplete without a partner. You might attract partners easily.

R. of 8th in the 5th: House of death & transformations in the house of romance, children, creativity, etc. This might mean that having a child might 'change & transform your life'. It might also mean that you have intense feelings when it comes to love, having intimate bonding experience with another.

R. of 9th in the 6th: 'Your philosophies on life or your spiritual beliefs must have practical application in order to appeal to you. '

R. of the 10th in the 7th: Your professional career might have to deal with the public or other people. When it comes to partnerships, you might feel responsible.

R. of the 11th in the 5th house: Friends can turn into lovers?..

R. of the 12th in the 6th : (I didn't know what to write on this so here is something I found on the net) 'Past lives have a strong influence on your family karma. You could experience confusion and doubt about the work you do or your family karma. You will have to work on forgiveness regarding this in order to elevate yourself. You can tap the powers of your subconscious mind to influence your health and well-being. Visualizing a healthy body as you drop off to sleep will work wonders on your immune system as well as your body's ability to heal itself. Excessive worry and concern over small details can work against you. Inner peace comes by doing your best and letting go of ideas of absolute perfection.'

Other things: Moon in the 12th house gives a Pisces flavor to your moon. You might attract Jupiter/ Neptunian types since both planets are conjunct in your 7th house.

posted April 14, 2013 03:00 PM            

Thank you for the insightful house ruler reading! I don't think a lot people pay much attention to that!

I have worked with kids actually--for 4 years! I never noticed before how active my 5th house was--everything seems to point to that! I am really feeling this Jupiter transit--especially the last few weeks on this board. Before this, I never gave readings to people at all!

So you want to be friends with him? That is hard when you know that the other's objective is to capture you! I see what you mean about being friends though. How has it been this last few days?

The ironic thing about the ruler of the 7th in the 7th is that I am always alone! LOL. So I love love, but love doesn't love me! LOL.

Ok, so back to your question--the last cards I drew were for the "where do you guys go from here" was summarized in the last paragraph that I wrote--which were really optimistic! But specifically I just asked:

Will You both continue to be friends?
Ace of Swords, Temperance, The Fool

Overall I see with clear communication--someone need to to extend the olive branch and start communication back up--and draw clear lines about it. Temperance is patience! In time, things will get better and you'll be able to start again and experience new beginnings with this person--if you choose to and if that is something you both want. I'd go back to the Ace of Swords and really think about it and decided. The sword cuts right through to the heart of the matter! Once you do that, things will fall into place.

posted April 14, 2013 06:43 PM            

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Originally posted by lotus_flower:

Thank you for the insightful house ruler reading! I don't think a lot people pay much attention to that!

I have worked with kids actually--for 4 years! I never noticed before how active my 5th house was--everything seems to point to that! I am really feeling this Jupiter transit--especially the last few weeks on this board. Before this, I never gave readings to people at all!

So you want to be friends with him? That is hard when you know that the other's objective is to capture you! I see what you mean about being friends though. How has it been this last few days?

The ironic thing about the ruler of the 7th in the 7th is that I am always alone! LOL. So I love love, but love doesn't love me! LOL.

Ok, so back to your question--the last cards I drew were for the "where do you guys go from here" was summarized in the last paragraph that I wrote--which were really optimistic! But specifically I just asked:

Will You both continue to be friends?
Ace of Swords, Temperance, The Fool

Overall I see with clear communication--someone need to to extend the olive branch and start communication back up--and draw clear lines about it. Temperance is patience! In time, things will get better and you'll be able to start again and experience new beginnings with this person--if you choose to and if that is something you both want. I'd go back to the Ace of Swords and really think about it and decided. The sword cuts right through to the heart of the matter! Once you do that, things will fall into place.

The best course of action is: The Chariot--move forward, carry on! Reign in whatever was stifling the relationship and go on. Also, the King of Cups was a clarifier so this to me is saying if you want to, the opportunity to move forward with your caring/friendship feelings are there. You may not understand exactly what he does, but you can still care for each other right? Friendship is friendship! As long as you feel comfortable and you guys clear up the communication, I don't see anything hampering a friendship.

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