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From: Wayne, NJ
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posted April 10, 2013 10:47 PM            

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Hey Everyone, a lot people on the forum are pretty familiar with my situation. The whole me being in love with my best friend/ ex co-worker and him suddenly disconnecting all contact without reason or explanation. And how I thought he was "the one".
Now that I have you all up to speed.
I met this guy a little over a two and half months ago.
I have been so hesitant and unsure about putting myself in any situation where it involves emotions and feelings, but this new guy is so persistent and he's a really nice guy, thoughtful, caring guy. I decided to let go of previous situation and focus on myself for a while. I really don't know if getting to know this guy is the right move. He wants something long-term from me and honestly i'm not sure if I can deal with that right now. Someone, anyone could you please take a look at our Synastry and tell me what you see.
I'm open to all feedback and opinions.
I want to know is this connection good for me?

Synastry Chart

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posted April 11, 2013 04:31 PM            

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so the first thing i see is a pretty close venus-pluto conjunction in virgo, and venus-pluto conjunctions are hyped for good reason - they make for some incredible passion between partners and are almost impossible to ignore; relationships with that aspect just seem to take over your life to the point of obsession. i see his venus in aries falling into your 5th house, and his sun, mercury, and saturn all in aries aspecting your own aries moon - not bad, and likely the reason he is so drawn to you and interested in something long-term - he'd feel more (likely) as it's mostly his aries planets drawing from your moon. you also have some angles conjunct, which would lend itself to feeling comfortable w/the other person, and bringing a sense of long-term into the relationship. your saturn falls into his 5th house, so you might bring some maturity/stability to the relationship, or at least give him that vibe. his moon is falling into your 12th house, close to your ASC. so i'd assume you'd feel relatively close/connected to one another mentally, especially since they are both in the sign of scorpio. i think you're in the drivers seat for this relationship - if you want to give him a chance i think he'd want that - his placements and aspects to your planets show he'd be the more interested partner overall (which could be nice if you want that). i'd worry that for you - with so much virgo in your chart, that he might not 'get' you all the time or meet your needs as well as you'd meet his :-)

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posted April 11, 2013 07:30 PM            

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@ Starmoon Thank-You so much for your feedback. I feel like I'm in control this time.

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