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littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1787 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 05, 2013 07:29 PM
So my love life kinda sucks right now and has for a long time. I've been feeling really lonely in general and decided to see what my love life would have in store for the next 2 months. I asked if I would meet anyone new or if my current situation would progress (there is kinda someone..)me/situation- King of Cups crossing- Hanged Man below- 9 of wands left- 3 of discs top- knight of cups right- 6 of discs Judgment- magician- temperance- 10 of cups My thoughts were that there won't be someone new because of the lack of aces and the Judgement card speaks to me as a do-over or second chance. 4 out of 6 cards are major arcana so this is out of my control? I forget what the ratio is. Some interps I found and not sure how they apply: " Judgment and Magician (Elemental Fire & Mercury) --- Very strong will. A good time to read a difficult book or undertake a hard task." " Magician and Temperance (Mercury & Sagittarius) --- A very adaptable person. One who changes quickly and learns swiftly. Skill with the hands." Maybe my current situation will be balanced out? 6 of discs and Temperance. Any objective eyes out there?
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beccathelion Knowflake Posts: 411 From: CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 05, 2013 10:04 PM
lc -- i am so sorry. i owe you a reading x 1000. do you need me to read on the same thing? can i read something else for you? please don't hate me IP: Logged |
scorpionwoman68 Newflake Posts: 16 From: atlanta georgia usa Registered: May 2013
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posted May 05, 2013 10:10 PM
hi little cloud, i did a love reading for you that covers a 1 year period. THE HIGH PRIESTESS AND COMMUNICATION: The time has come for you to create your own “language” and to use it. Try to uncover your inner self. You need to SHOW what you feel. Some yoga classes will help you understand and take care of your body and soul, go for it! You'll meet people like you and make new friendships. JUSTICE AND THE PARTNER: You'll live sweet moments with your partner. This will make you feel in heaven. You've entered INTO a new period in which you'll have the opportunity of becoming one with your partner. This will guide you towards a deep transformation that will strengthen your love.
STRENGTH AND LOVE: You can't really love someone if you don't love yourself first. Devote some time to get to know you. Love is within you; you just have to learn to transmit it. Venture to see yourself FROM an external perspective. FROM this time on you'll have many experiences, enjoy them intensely. Learn FROM them, they will help you deal with the people that you know in a balanced and prudent way. TEMPERANCE: Your creative imagination will wander along the paths of spirituality; you’ll be ready to uncover the real meaning of things and of love. Be tolerant, calmed and sympathetic with your partner and your friends. This is a period to think FROM a more spiritual point of view about what has happened in your love life so far and to get ready to change those things that you don't like. You should try to evolve; you are ready for it. WHEEL OF FORTUNE AND DREAMS: You'll have enough energy to accomplish your goals; luck is with you: your future depends only on you. Use your perception and your extraordinary creativity to get ready to live what you've always dreamed of. THE HANGED MAN AND FRIENDSHIP: Stop for a moment and think. Your set of values is changing; don't let yourself be influenced by those who say they're your friends but they only guide you to trouble and sectarianism. Focus on those people who are always there for you, in the good and bad times, demanding nothing but your friendship. You'll enjoy the fruits of your efforts. THE HERMIT AND SEX: Don’t try to find peace and pleasure in your bed. You'll probably prefer solitude and distance. Try to subdue any impulse towards break-up; this is not a good period to take firm decisions. Don't make your life more difficult with affairs; even though this is a favorable time for excess, they will bring confusion.
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littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1787 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 05, 2013 10:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by beccathelion: lc -- i am so sorry. i owe you a reading x 1000. do you need me to read on the same thing? can i read something else for you? please don't hate me
I didn't even know you owed me a reading lol which means I can't hate you If you do want to do a reading sure go ahead. I wanted to know what was in store in the near future at about 2 months, if there will be someone new or if my current 'situation' will progress. Is there anything else you want me to explain? If you don't feel up to it, you can just let me know your views on this one. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1787 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 05, 2013 10:25 PM
scorpiowoman68- thank you for the reading although I'm not sure how to relate a 1 year reading to my current situation. I'm not in a relationship so I'm not even sure all that you said applies or how it applies. I did consider doing volunteer work over the summer in some things I'm interested in, like the environment and animals, which is a way to show how I feel... The knowing myself I think I've done well with, the loving part...maybe not so much but I'm working on it. The last bit on the hermit and sex...I don't know how that applies at all...I'm very sexual, with a high drive and I need someone that can equate or excell that with me so if they can't then I can't be in a relationship with them. I've learned from past experience, it just doesn't work out for me. IP: Logged |
beccathelion Knowflake Posts: 411 From: CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 05, 2013 10:26 PM
me/situation- King of Cups crossing- Hanged Man below- 9 of wands left- 3 of discs top- knight of cups right- 6 of discsJudgment- magician- temperance- 10 of cups To me it says that's there a hang-up with a man, emotional. Probably a bit of a waffler. Hard to pin down, but maybe manipulative? I get the sense that he's a magnetic person, but also sort of a wet blanket. Regardless, there's a major stagnation as a result of you feeling a bit battle-worn and exhausted. There's a lot of animosity that's swirling and growing stronger and stronger. Something unsaid maybe? An ultimatum given?
The three makes me think there was more a "teamwork" aspect to the relationship before. The knight makes me think you are rip-roaring and ready to love... The three majors tell me there's a major lesson here. With Temperance as the advice, I think you'd be better off taking a deep breath and slowing down. Balancing the parts in your life that are a little wonky and refocusing. Listen to your intuition, be gracious and kind. Let the gifts you give come back to you tenfold. That's how you'll get the 10. This spread feels more like an instructional guide on how to get to love, versus who's coming/going/etc. You can get what you want -- the Magician says that pretty clearly. However, I feel like you want a wrong righted. Some kind of vindication. Maybe that's where Temperance is needed. Let old slights slink off sort of thing. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1787 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 05, 2013 10:46 PM
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beccathelion Knowflake Posts: 411 From: CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 05, 2013 10:58 PM
I'm gonna read you in like ten minutes. My roommate has a date in our living room, where my cards are... and I'm anxiously waiting for them to go to Cinco de Mayo crap so I can roam free again. The things we do to stay in our undies, amirite???? ps: i have been so freaking stressed lately. my energy is bananas, so i apologize in advance if the reading is awful
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littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1787 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 05, 2013 11:11 PM
I have faith in you edit IP: Logged |
beccathelion Knowflake Posts: 411 From: CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 05, 2013 11:20 PM
For what it's worth, I totally believe in you. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1787 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 05, 2013 11:56 PM
edit Thanks, it's nice to hear someone believes in me
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beccathelion Knowflake Posts: 411 From: CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 06, 2013 05:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by littlecloud: I wanted to know what was in store in the near future at about 2 months, if there will be someone new or if my current 'situation' will progress.
Current situation: Page of Pentacles Conflicting/complimenting factor: Knight of Pentacles Root cause of situation: the Chariot Relevant past: Queen of Swords How querent feels about situation: 10 of Pentacles (r) Immediate present: Knight of Swords How querent feels/wants to about self: Strength Environment around situation: 9 of Wands Advice: Temperance (lolz) Outcome: 5 of Pentacles (with clarifying card: the Tower) So I framed the question as your future (in the two month time frame), and again, I just apologize if things are wonky. I've been pretty scattered in the worst of ways, so my energy has definitely been off, but... Can I ask if you recently entered a program for self-help or started going to therapy? I realize that's crass and intrusive, I just get a sense of the Knight and Page as working on "you," instead of a business endeavor. There's a real sense of renewal with the Page, though it isn't totally realized, but the Knight is sweeping in... Recently too. This is all underscored by the Chariot which really grounds this whole spread for me in the will and ego. Not in a negative sense, but in a "This is my life, and I'm going to live it how I want" way. Lots of determination. I mean LOTS. Like, I kinda feel like a lardass sitting here typing this, because I should be making things happen in my life instead. The Queen of Swords tells me you've been hurt, and you definitely have trouble connecting. You think with your head, take Solomon approach to everything you do. Fair, but also cautious. A great deal of reservedness. This can make the way you feel about your life (as I am taking it) particularly hard. The 10 reversed here seems like a free fall. There's no security. There's no future being envisioned, or at least, not envisioned like the Chariot wants (i.e., being implemented.) The good news is, the Queen's hypersensitivity and self-protection has faded to the Knight... you're opening up more, I think. You're resolving issues, planning. The status quo is NOT for you anymore. Lots of movement, planning. You want to feel strong, in control. Safe and nurtured. I think it's interesting that the card depicts a woman reaching into a lion's mouth -- in some ways, it's a perfect metaphor for modern relationships (if you look at it through a feminist lens). I get a real desire to trust the self again. To be in tune with nature and the universe and the self. The environment also supports this, and I think it's what I want to point out this card the most... You've survived. You've done it. You've weather the worst of the storm, and God damn it, you're still on your feet. That in and of itself should speak to the Strength you hope to find (or feel a bit more than you do now.) You are strong. The things you've got in your past have and will continue to crush others who go through the thing. You may not feel like you're out of the woods, or even a success story, but you are. The Universe wants you to know that. Temperance as the advice... you pulled that before, and I sort of explained what I thought it meant. You've got to take a deep breath and work towards balance. Let the negative things go. Let other, more positive things come in. Will this fix everything? No. The 5 says you still got a bit of a trial ahead of you... my guess is your current situation? There's some insecurity coming down the pike... but the Tower is there as well. Where lots of people see this as a scary card, I see it as a God-given gift. I think something is going to happen, abruptly, unexpectedly -- but it's going to be the PERFECT opportunity to exercise Temperance. To show that you are in control, flexible, strong... secure enough to do what you want which is live your life again. I feel like it's going to function as hard stop to most of your problems. A reset. Four majors in the spread -- this is an important time in your life. There's a karmic lesson here to be learned to grow more. To become the person you want to be. Again, I know you can. It's frightening to let go of old hurt, because... what can you fill the empty spot with? What if you make the same mistakes? Again, I just really feel like the Universe is asking you to slow down and breathe. It's hard, but it's crucial. Oh sweet bananas... I hope that made any sense :S
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littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1787 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 06, 2013 07:47 PM
First, one favor, can you edit the stuff you quoted? (since, I edited what I wrote..too personal) Secondly, it's pretty fudging amazing that you can pick up all that from your reading, I feel like I wouldn't have been able to read it the same way. So WOW, because actually yes I've recently started going to therapy. Your interp of the Chariot is fairly correct, but it's determination to fix something that's not right. I still feel like a lardass myself but I'm trying to figure out ways to change my behavior so that I can accomplish my goals. You're absolutely right, I don't feel like a success story at all but it makes me smile that the Universe is trying to tell me this. I'm conflicted as to what the something that may happen is...I don't want to go through anymore difficult situations. Most people think of the 5 of pents as a negative card but for some reason I never have. Perhaps it's just the deck in my cards, but I have always seen it as a beacon of hope. That yes there is a difficult road ahead of you but there is someone at your side going through thick and thin with you. You may have left behind material riches but you are rich in non-material things, trust, love, perseverance etc. I'm trying to breathe and to find that balance. Some days it's easier than others. In short what I take from this reading and your interp is that this a period of growth for me that will allow me to love and accept love in a healthier way? Maybe I'm reaching, but from the 5, that my current 'situation' will endure? IP: Logged |
beccathelion Knowflake Posts: 411 From: CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 06, 2013 08:24 PM
No prob! I edited it all And yeah, I thought the 5 was more positive. Sort of like letting go of the insecurity. I think it's gonna be goodfor you in the future. It'll take work, but you are on a good path! IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1787 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 06, 2013 09:58 PM
To make sure, this reading doesn't reference a developing relationship?IP: Logged |
beccathelion Knowflake Posts: 411 From: CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 06, 2013 10:03 PM
Not that I saw. IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1787 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted May 06, 2013 10:36 PM
:-/that kinda sucks but also makes sense.. IP: Logged |