posted May 11, 2013 02:51 PM            

This guy has me sick with obsession and I know there are 100 reasons I should stay away but cant. i find myself stopping everything for him, waiting for his calls, acting like i am a teenager. Actually never acted this way before. His birth certificate does not nave a time so we've determined his birth time as close as possible based on his sister remembering it was near dinner time and reviewing natal reports for every 15 minutes and this seams most accurate. Should I post the charts in whole signs instead because of this?

We met March 11 in a home improvement store when I was asking advice about something and he overheard and his brother does some work I was needing done. There was no attraction on my part, at first and I really don't know how it got to this. We hung out and ended up cuddling and its been whirlwind since. I thought it was purely sexual, or was hoping it would be, since its the first person I've been with in 3 years but I am infatuated with him now. He had me meet his family, who lives with him right away, and it was super fast but casual and heavy at the same time. Now we keep pushing and pulling each other. He is very possesive and that should normally turn me off but in this sense it makes me feel safe.

I never waste time with Mr wrong (venus in scorpio) but I can't keep away from him. Our bodies fit together so well, sexually and when sleeping we get so entangled. I've never had better sleep or sex in my life. I'm highly anxious and never presenting the moment except when I am with him. I feel this relationship is meant to happen, even though it will end up hurting me. I keep thinking if I can figure out why it's happening for then I can move on. Lol.

I'm a mess. Thank you for any guidance on why/ what is going on or how to handle this and does he feel anything like I do? I keep trying to bring it up with him but haven't and don't know if I even should.

posted May 17, 2013 08:29 AM            

I did a reading for you several days ago and then got swamped with things, so I apologize and hope you are still monitoring this forum. So it looks like you and your man have challenging saturn-mercury aspects in synastry and composite, making communication difficult. Your moon conjuncts his venus, giving you two a deep connection, but it is opposed by your pluto, which can add steaminess to the mix but also jealousy and possessiveness! Also, your neptune conjuncts his uranus, and sometimes uranus has an on and off energy and wants its space and freedom. Grupovenus.com can give you an in-depth analysis of all the significant aspects of your relationship.

Here is a celtic cross reading:

The card not shown but at the center of the cross, represents the atmosphere surrounding the central issue. Knight of Cups: The essence of water behaving as fire, such as a rushing river: A passionate romantic, full of charm and beauty, but prone to extremes. Forceful idealism blended with gentle kindness. An eager and intense person, forward with their emotions and tender in their support of others.

Sounds like your Pisces Moon man...

The card visible at the center of the cross represents the obstacle that stands in your way - it may even be something that sounds good but is not actually to your benefit. Eight of Swords (Interference): Chagrin at the unforeseen consequences of prior decisions. Criticism, censure, and the imposition of external restrictions. Confusion leading to powerlessness. Inability to focus on the crux of a problem and free oneself from a difficult situation. Being hamstrung by a past failure or humiliation.

Confusion leading to powerlessness....what you are feeling right now

The card at the top of the cross represents your goal, or the best you can achieve without a dramatic change of priorities. Ace of Pentacles: The seed of prosperity and material gain - perhaps as yet unseen. A new foundation from which to turn your dreams into reality. The need to focus on the practical and understand the dynamics of the natural world. May represent a gift, document, inheritance, or an unexpected opportunity for physical achievement.

The start of your relationship with him, which is hopeful but will require a lot of work on your part and his if it is going to flourish.

The card at the bottom of the cross represents the foundation on which the situation is based. King of Pentacles: The essence of earth behaving as air, such as a diamond: A true businessman, with a gift for identifying opportunities and taking advantage of them. A person well informed about the world, skilled in all things physical, and eager to encourage others. A pillar of practicality and dependability, embracing tried and tested methods, and possessing an innate understanding of the material reality. A philanthropist and devotee of both luxury and hard work, whose word is as good as gold.

Could this represent his father?

The card at the left of the cross represents a passing influence or something to be released. Three of Wands (Virtue): Personal fortitude and strength of character. Accumulated power set in motion towards a distant goal. The initiation of an enduring partnership based on absolute trust. Honor maintained in a time of desperate struggle. Taking full responsibility for a decision, and bearing the solitude of leadership.

Gathering yourself together emotionally for the start of the relationship...

The card at the right of the cross represents an approaching influence or something to be embraced. Four of Pentacles (Power): Cleaving to earthly power in the desperate fear that it will be lost. Making yourself an obstacle to progress due to lack of originality and a desperate fear of change. Believing that security and identity are based primarily on the possession of material things. Coveting things and people. Living in a cloud of suspicion and prejudice.

The card at the base of the staff represents your role or attitude. Queen of Wands, when reversed: The dark essence of fire behaving as water, such as steam: The natural embodiment of passion and sensuality, who will do anything to the be the center of attention. A seducer who calculatingly dons the guise of what others desire. A cocky and domineering person, who pushes anyone or anything aside to get what she wants. One who is vengeful and quick to take offense without good cause. May indicate infidelity and contempt for a relationship.

These two cards suggest that you are clinging too tightly to him in the fear that he might disappear, and that you may consequently wind up acting too pushy and domineering

The card second from the bottom of the staff represents your environment and the people you are interacting with. Judgement: A swift and conclusive decision. The resolution of a matter long unanswered. A change in point of view, most frequently towards greater enlightenment. Final balancing of karma.

Hmm, he might be considering a "final decision" on your relationship, possibly based on his father's influence...

The card second from the top of the staff represents your hopes, fears, or an unexpected element that will come into play. The Chariot, when reversed: Ineffective use of force. Might turned against the weak or the righteous. Senseless violence and warmongering. Lack of discipline and poor direction fan the flames of a situation already out of control. Advance without consideration of the consequences for others.

Fearing that you may lose him, would you act out in a way that causes further damage?

The card at the top of the staff represents the ultimate outcome should you continue on this course. Page of Wands: The essence of fire behaving as earth, such as wood or coal: The surprising appearance of a new passion. An adventurer who blazes through life, acting as a catalyst that others may harness. The intense enthusiasm and childlike imagination that fuels any new venture, needing only the application of mind and material to make it a success. Inner fire that can drive away fear and replace it with fury. Can represent a person of some timidity, but whose innate passion can be easily ignited. May indicate the birth of a child

This could be a message relayed about the above situation, or maybe the ability to express your passion openly. The card is upright, so this would be a good thing. maybe The letter you spoke of? Or maybe something he will tell you? Sorry so vague.

It's possible that his father might think you are a little too much for him, and might be trying to convince him of that.