posted May 15, 2013 01:44 AM            

If anyone who is so kind to give me a reading here I would be very grateful!

My question is how is he feeling about us at the moment and what can I do to get us moving forward?

posted May 16, 2013 05:19 AM            

Heart of matter - ace of pents
Obstacle - hermit
below - 2 cups
above - 5 cups
left - star
right - Knight of wands
3 of pents - king of swords - 2 pents - emperor

The initiative of union is blocked by one party withdrawing without expressing. Star represent foundation for good friendship and that you both are capable of making good friends in the long-term. You both love each other. The person is a sexually attractive and a charming guy, but immature and this might come to light in the near future that he's not right now available for commitment - due to lack of maturity. The querent is co-operative and suitable for a good relationship. The environment may show dominance of one person over the other with more of practicality rater than emotions. Or there might be a third person who is influencing the relationship with over-thinking. If there are financial dealings between the people in the relationship, it is likely to cause trouble. Outcome would be that one partner might be dominant and there is not much of give-and-take in the relationship which might not make the querent happy ( 5 of cups).

It would be nice if an experienced person gives an affirmation or alternatives. I could learn too.

Going on a vacation and I'll will be back in a week.

posted May 16, 2013 01:26 PM            

I appreciate you for the reading, thanks!
Although I am no expert at tarot interpretation/reading, I will give you my feedback dear.

You mentioned that someone in this relationship expressions are being blocked- he is the one who does not express himself at all. We have gotten into a rather small argument and since then he has not spoken a word. It feels like he is running away from me There is certainly a strong attraction and attachment between, but it does not come across as love. I am the one who is basically giving me all to try to mend issues & hopelessly wishing that we can reconcile. He is definitely has the upper hand in this situation.

posted May 20, 2013 12:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Watercolordaydream:
Cathy1980,

I appreciate you for the reading, thanks!
Although I am no expert at tarot interpretation/reading, I will give you my feedback dear.

You mentioned that someone in this relationship expressions are being blocked- he is the one who does not express himself at all. We have gotten into a rather small argument and since then he has not spoken a word. It feels like he is running away from me There is certainly a strong attraction and attachment between, but it does not come across as love. I am the one who is basically giving me all to try to mend issues & hopelessly wishing that we can reconcile. He is definitely has the upper hand in this situation.

You have surely answered my first question but I am still wondering what can I do to keep things moving. Good job for being a beginner reader! Have a good vacay <3

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Hi Watercolordaydream
I'm back. Yes I did sense that one person is dominating the relationship and he's shutting you off emotionally. Yes there is definitely an attraction, but there is more for a relationship to work. What I thought was - you are cooperative in the relationship and there could be much work on his side for the relationship to work. I did a 3 card reading for both of you separately to see what you both independantly can contribute at the maximum to the relationship. Here it is

Your side contribution
Present - 7 of cups
Course of action - 9 of pentacles
Outcome - 9 of wands

His side contribution
Present - 9 of cups
Course of action - Star
Outcome - 4 of swords

You are confused at this point unable to see any clear decision (7 of cups). You will need to work on yourself to become more self-loving and self-content and make yourself available for love, rather than seeking for love ( 9 of pentacles). In that case, you will have chances to get the love you really deserve. 3 of pentacles in the prior reading points to a situation 'looking for approval of someone', so that should change and you will have to transform to self-loving. As for this relationship, you might need to 'move on' (9 of wands) as you alone cannot change a few things that your partner is also responsible of on his own issues. He's at present happy alone (9 of cups). But he must extend more cooperation on his end for the joint relationship to work (Star). He will need to cleanse himself and work on his own issues and needs a period of rest or contemplation - 4 of swords. As for outcome for this relationship - it is most probably a 'no'.