posted May 19, 2013 12:28 AM            

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
Yes, I would like more cards pulled with these questions yes, evil man is what I'm thinking

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posted May 19, 2013 12:31 AM            

It is hard to tell honestly because the King of Cups seems like an amorous type of man that may not be as committed as he looks. He may be just putting on a show that shows him as being on his best behavior but in reality he could be doing something behind the scenes. Maybe it is feelings of love that he felt for her?

It is hard to tell. Sorry but this is the best I can do

posted May 20, 2013 02:20 AM              

How he used to feel/what really happened: Page of Cups, 5 of Wands rx, The Tower rx
How he feels now: 5 of Pentacles reversed

Ok first of all, really weird that 5 of wands and 5 of Pents also came up in my reading. asclibrasagsun described it well so I won't really elaborate.. the only thing I'll add is that since 5 of Pents is rx in mine, maybe he felt isolated by the relationship itself, and now feels like he's moving on from that and things are less "cold" in general for him now

But with Page of Cups I'd say he probably really did have genuine feelings for you initially, but may have just been looking for something more adventurous and light hearted, not wanting to really be tied down. As for what happened, the Tower is about unpredictable upheavals or changes that need to take place, and reversed it can mean one or both of you was trying desperately to avoid or ignore them. (If there was cheating he probably tried to cover it up which might've been all too convenient if you didn't want to acknowledge what was going on.. This doesn't automatically mean cheating though)

How he felt about M: The Magician rx

He might've seen her as a flashy person who likes to put on a show, but even if he was attracted (or even intimidated) he thought she over-does it and doesn't have much of genuine value to offer.. OR it could've been him that was un-successfully trying to feel powerful by putting on a show and getting her to admire him for surface qualities. Either way I don't see a very deep or meaningful bond there

Did he cheat with her: 7 of swords rx

7 of swords can indicate sneaky behavior or attempting to "get away with something" so in this context yeah that could possibly mean cheating, but since it's reversed I'd say maybe it just means there were questionable intentions, but things didn't go as smoothly as planned. Someone either saw through the b.s. or just wasn't comfortable sneaking around
edit: or sorry I guess I'm kind of confused, do you already know for sure that he cheated with her and he was basically caught? Cause that would make sense with this card too. But yeah regardless it seems like things are pretty much totally over between them at this point

How he feels about C/does he love her: King of Wands rx, the Heirophant

I'm thinking the King of Wands could represent him here? like he knows pursuing things with her is bold and insensitive, but he doesn't really care because he feels entitled? With the Hierophant I'd say yes he's looking for something serious with her-probably something traditional and long term, like he sees her as someone to "take home to the parents". As awful as I'm sure that would make you feel, if that's the case it really isn't your loss.. Someone who is pushy and overly controlling, or wants a subservient partner in a conservative/traditional relationship?? Sounds more like you dodged a bullet lol

Did he cheat on you with C: 3 of Swords rx, 8 of Cups rx

Well 3 of Swords even reversed could indicate arguments, frustration, heartache, etc. 8 of Cups rx can indicate being indecisive or feeling like the grass is always greener.. maybe he felt like looking outside the relationship was the only way to escape the problems (which of course would only escalate them in reality)

I actually pulled cards for the questions about C twice because I was confused by the meanings at first, and I don't want to cloud the original reading by sharing these but they seemed pretty straight forward... So for how he feels about her/does he love her I got 2 of Cups- a strong romantic union, and Queen of Cups- she embodies some sort of ideal, and yes he probably feels pretty strongly.. And for did he cheat I got Queen of Swords rx- he (or maybe even her) could've been manipulative, cold, clouded by feelings but still demanding to have the final say, and then 10 of Cups rx- can literally mean broken home, family, a relationship falling apart for one reason or another.. Sorry those seem so negative

posted May 21, 2013 01:35 AM              

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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
7 of Swords reversed means that the cheater/liar got discovered or caught.
Seeing that you do suspect the fact that he was cheating and the fact that the 7 of Swords came up be it reversed or upright, I would say it is probable that he cheated.
This is the typical meaning for this card.

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Honestly, from the cards I agree that he probably cheated (most likely with C), but cheating can be more than just physical, the fact that venuscorpio was uncomfortable with his connection/friendship with M and he basically dismissed her concerns is already crossing a line imo

So I really can't say exactly what happened, but for whatever reason I just got the impression that with M specifically, the intentions of cheating were probably there but something didn't go quite right. Like maybe because she was so suspicious he thought better of actually physically doing anything. Or if anything happened it was short lived due to guilt or regret.. Cheating is the typical meaning but there are multiple ways to interpret the cards depending on the context

http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=122601

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Originally posted by venuscorpio86:
WOW, Firemoon excellent reading! In regards to if he did cheat..I don't know! He says no and used to say he was not the type to cheat, everyone thinks highly of him. I just didn't understand why he felt the need to reply to her texts,phone calls, if there weren't bad intentions there? He shared some of the texts with me and said they meant nothing. I always think he cheated but not positive. He met C while we were going through a rough time...a week after a huge blowout we had. As to whether he intended to start a relationship with her and dump me basically I don't know. I'm so sad and just searching for clues

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I'm sorry you're going through this I guess really regardless of the cards you should trust your intuition... And remember the most f***** up people can also be some of the most charming and well liked! lol. Anyway as for whether he intended to basically break up with you for her, I don't think the cards necessarily suggest that, just that now he is focused on his own agenda and feelings.. Which I think you more than deserve to do the same (much easier said than done I know) but I also think you can actually be a lot happier without him.. Wish I could offer more insight but I hope you find the answers and peace you're looking for!