posted May 27, 2013 09:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Chiemi:
I'd like one please !

Can I have a reading on the relationship between me and D? Are we a good fit for each other and is he attracted to me?

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You: Page of Swords, King of Wands
You see him as fun and full of energy, someone who can help expand your boundaries, the attraction is probably high between you.. With page of swords you might love having conversations with him and you're curious to know everything about him.. you see him as a smart and witty person even if it's in a youthful/immature way at times

Him: the hanged man rx, 9 of cups rx
My first thought is he might have recently been disappointed in romance or gone through a nasty break-up and is refusing to let go internally or hasn't fully moved on.. So honestly I would take that as a warning if he's on the rebound.. Otherwise I guess I'd see this as he'll want to hold on to his own wishes in the relsationship and might be inflexible to listening to your point of view, even if that causes problems

What brings you together: The Chariot, 3 of Cups
Ok so basically I pulled cards for you twice because I literally can't seem to do a spread for anyone without the Chariot or Justice showing up (so I'm starting to think you should just disregard them-they're about my own life feeling off course and me wanting to make things "right" again lol) but still they showed up in both spreads.. so for these positions I'm including the cards from both. So anyway, what brings you together basically is having fun.. you enjoy being around each other and it always seems to be a good time. But the chariot is more serious and even though your connection can be light hearted you also feel like you have similar goals and can actually go somewhere together as a couple

Obstacles: Justice rx, page of cups rx
With page of cups rx I'm thinking once you get deeper into things some of his own emotional issues will start to surface (and I say him because of the cards I pulled for each of you, but it could be negative emotions or immaturity in the relationship in general) and this will be used against the other person in a manipulative way.

Overall potential: The Sun rx, Death, The World rx
Seems like this could be an extremely significant relationship for both of you, you'll feel like together you can conquer the world, and it will be deeply transforming in some way.. But unfortunately using reversals it seems like the hopes you guys had for each other and the relationship may go where you're hoping and things might not last or end well . You might start to feel trapped with each other and like the relationship is just bringing you down instead of taking you to new levels of exploration/happiness. But still you will help impact each other on a deep level and you could really feel like this is a very important person in your life.

Anyway again, I hope I'm wrong about the outcome, and please take this with a grain of salt.. Death is another card that keeps coming up repeatedly in my spreads so with all of the weird re-occurring themes I haven't been feeling very confident with these readings right now so I hope at least some of this makes sense.. Let me know what you think

posted May 27, 2013 09:48 PM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:
Hi Firemoon,

Thank you so much. Your reading is very insightful - spot on in many respects, given I provided no background. To explain - our relationship began as an online long distance relationship, but we've become very close and communication is great, easy and frank. Meetings are still infrequent, the next very soon. His work is internationally important and a current project is taking up all his attention. Yes, there is an imbalance between his work and personal life. We've made a resolve to either take our relationship further (in terms of commitment) at our next meeting or go our separate ways. Does this make sense and relate to the cards?

Re Ace of pentacles and the possibility of a work opportunity for us - we could work together, both budding film makers and we've lots of ideas. Or this could relate to his work stuff.

I'm not sure what 7 of swords might imply in this context but do not suspect any cheating. Would you be able to say how our meeting will turn out - what decisions are likely to be made? As you said, I would probably be willing to make allowances and continue to hope for the best. On the other hand, I am also intent on keeping to the time limits that we've set oursleves. Thank you again.

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Thank you for your feedback Astro keen, I really appreciate it!! Interesting about the work stuff and the possibility of you guys working together.. As far as the outcome of your meeting relating to the cards, I have to be honest it doesn't look promising... I really hope I'm wrong about that, but I think the 7 of Swords here maybe just means that right now as you said there's some uncertainty as far as where things are headed and how much he'd be willing to make allowances for, but at this meeting his intentions will be made clear, and they might not be what you're hoping for . With his cards as the hermit and chariot rx, you might find out that internally he's been thinking he doesn't want things to continue as they are either in the relationship or in terms of whatever other joint pursuits you guys have.. But if this ends up happening it doesn't mean that's automatically the final say for everything, maybe the timing just isn't right at the moment, and once you guys go through a sobering re-assessment of things you'll be able to come back with a different perspective once there's more energy to invest in the relationship..

posted May 27, 2013 11:06 PM            

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Originally posted by FireMoon:
You: Page of Swords, King of Wands
You see him as fun and full of energy, someone who can help expand your boundaries, the attraction is probably high between you.. With page of swords you might love having conversations with him and you're curious to know everything about him.. you see him as a smart and witty person even if it's in a youthful/immature way at times

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Hmm well so far I think I'm the one who comes off as more fun and full of energy lol. Still in the early stages between us and he's pretty shy so I haven't seen that side of him yet. I have always found him mysterious though

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Him: the hanged man rx, 9 of cups rx
My first thought is he might have recently been disappointed in romance or gone through a nasty break-up and is refusing to let go internally or hasn't fully moved on.. So honestly I would take that as a warning if he's on the rebound.. Otherwise I guess I'd see this as he'll want to hold on to his own wishes in the relsationship and might be inflexible to listening to your point of view, even if that causes problems

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Ehh that sucks could this have anything to do with his best friend? My recent ex had a best friend who was a little too friendly and turned out to like my bf at the time wayyy more than what was normal friend "feelings". After a while of me trying to point out her behavior and my ex acting oblivious until the last minute when her feelings were revealed, the relationship was pretty much over due to too much drama. I am kind of cautious because I get worried if D might actually like his friend more than just friends. Even in looking at your reading I kind of wonder if that might be his disappointment in feelings in relation to her. I could be wrong though :l

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What brings you together: The Chariot, 3 of Cups
Ok so basically I pulled cards for you twice because I literally can't seem to do a spread for anyone without the Chariot or Justice showing up (so I'm starting to think you should just disregard them-they're about my own life feeling off course and me wanting to make things "right" again lol) but still they showed up in both spreads.. so for these positions I'm including the cards from both. So anyway, what brings you together basically is having fun.. you enjoy being around each other and it always seems to be a good time. But the chariot is more serious and even though your connection can be light hearted you also feel like you have similar goals and can actually go somewhere together as a couple

Obstacles: Justice rx, page of cups rx
With page of cups rx I'm thinking once you get deeper into things some of his own emotional issues will start to surface (and I say him because of the cards I pulled for each of you, but it could be negative emotions or immaturity in the relationship in general) and this will be used against the other person in a manipulative way.

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This was what I was worried about , I have transiting pluto square my venus and conjunct my descendant and I'm trying to avoid manipulation (whether from my actions or others) :l.

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Overall potential: The Sun rx, Death, The World rx
Seems like this could be an extremely significant relationship for both of you, you'll feel like together you can conquer the world, and it will be deeply transforming in some way.. But unfortunately using reversals it seems like the hopes you guys had for each other and the relationship may go where you're hoping and things might not last or end well . You might start to feel trapped with each other and like the relationship is just bringing you down instead of taking you to new levels of exploration/happiness. But still you will help impact each other on a deep level and you could really feel like this is a very important person in your life.

Anyway again, I hope I'm wrong about the outcome, and please take this with a grain of salt.. Death is another card that keeps coming up repeatedly in my spreads so with all of the weird re-occurring themes I haven't been feeling very confident with these readings right now so I hope at least some of this makes sense.. Let me know what you think

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I can see this too his saturn makes a bunch of contacts to my personal planets and my saturn opposes his moon so I can see how things can get "heavy".

Ehh lol a part of me is wanting to stay single since I'm going to college for the first time soon and I don't think I want something so heavy BUT at the same time I know I need to grow and learn in relationships (in order to do better than the relationships I grew up seeing) and I know that takes actually being in and experiencing relationships (which sometimes aren't great but they all teach you something).