posted May 23, 2013 09:55 AM            

My question is what do I need to know about my current relationship?

I'll be able to read for you this evening (UK time) if that's ok?

posted May 23, 2013 11:35 AM            

The relationship began in a nice, sweet way. Lots of mutual adoration and attraction, and it has remained that way since.

Right now, the cards urge you not to cling too tightly, or he will back away. The more centered you can stay, the smoother it will go. This person you are involved with will back away at the slightest signs of clinginess. Keep active in your life, and stay fiery and like you are in control, even if that is not the way that you feel.

Your partner holds a LOT of physical desire & passion for you, which is a good thing but you need to sleep sometimes as well! LOL

Again, the cards are saying to go with the flow and do not allow your own insecurities to cloud your judgement and your mind. Always follow your intuition. You are on track. There is a need for you to step back and go with the flow.

I do feel that if this other person has not already declared their feelings for you yet, you will hear it soon and be quite reassured. It will come as a surprise to you as well.

Keep the faith. It looks pretty nice.

posted May 23, 2013 05:41 PM            

Now your reading! I should explain I'm typing this on my phone which is restrictive to say the least so what I'm planning to do is list out the cards and give a brief first glimpse and then I'll go into more depth tomorrow when I'm able to get to my PC. So sorry to keep you waiting. Anyway your cards are as follows...

How does he feel about you/will be make his move?

Queen of Wands
Ace Pentacles
Ace Cups
Base card = 2 Pentacles

Well in short I feel he sees you as a source of joy. He admires you for your capacity to love, to be loyal and because you're honourable. He feels a huge amount of promise and potential around you and yes, I feel he's on love with you and will make his move. He's hesitating however - weighing things up and trying to find the best moment/method. Also feels there's lots of change happening in his life so it's causing him to delay whilst he sees where everything lands. But I feel he'll get there. Can't argue with two aces!

What should you do if he makes a move?

Magician
Chariot
5 Swords
Base card = Ace wands

Simple. Hold your nerve. I think this is telling you you hold the power in this situation and you need to use it wisely. The chariot says victory's yours but the 3rd card is the real message i think. The 5 of Swords suggests to me that you're being advised to guard against behaving dishonourably towards yourself or him: what I mean by that is make absolutely sure it's what you want before responding. The Ace of Wands tells me that you need to tap into your inner wisdom to decide the best course but it also suggests this is the beginning of something quite powerful, passionate, creative and quite wonderf! I'd say go for it but that's your decision. Hope that helps and as I say, if you'd like me to I'll answer questions or look further tomorrow.

posted May 24, 2013 06:30 AM            

I've not got my cards on me right now so I'll happily pull some for your other question and yeah if you wouldn't mind having a look at how he feels towards our relationship/me right now please that'd be great!

posted May 24, 2013 06:55 AM            

Here's lefty...

And let me introduce you to righty

posted May 24, 2013 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:
Hi
Offering a Tarot reading in exchange for any kind of reading you'd be prepared to give me.

My question is what do I need to know about my current relationship?

I'll be able to read for you this evening (UK time) if that's ok?

Many thanks to anyone able to help in advance.

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Hello,

I will take the opportunity to test my new deck about romance to see if I am in tune with it.

Do not hesitate to tell me if I am off the track.

I got the soulmate card for you
We have a lot of soulmates to meet in our life. Clearly you have think to learn from your current relationship. It's an important one
Here I think it mean that the quality that you want in your partner, you have to developpe them in you before.
Do you have high expectations ? Would you change things in your partner ?

posted May 24, 2013 10:43 AM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:
I'm so glad that made sense Enlightened! The power is indicated by The Magician in this case - it's a sign that you're the one who's ultimately in control of the situation for better or worse. You get the casting vote over whether this relationship begins or not.

I've not got my cards on me right now so I'll happily pull some for your other question and yeah if you wouldn't mind having a look at how he feels towards our relationship/me right now please that'd be great!

Oh yes please whitewitch111! I'd love a palm reading - I'll just take some pics and post them in a moment. Let me know your questions in return and I'll do your reading either later today or tomorrow if time runs away with me! Thanks again!

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Hi seeker...Sure thing.

From these cards, i see that this "change" to the current relationship was a long time coming, and needed to happen. Only positive things will follow from this point. Both of you will feel very satisfied with the results as the next month goes by. I also see that you both need to give up some control and meet each other halfway. There are still some things he would like to discuss, and you will disciss them soon. All in all, expect a positive shift, but you must BOTH be willing to do your part. :0 it looks good though!

Death/Nine of cups/Magician/page of Swords

posted May 25, 2013 07:16 AM            

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Originally posted by isabelle_lila:
Hello,

I will take the opportunity to test my new deck about romance to see if I am in tune with it.

Do not hesitate to tell me if I am off the track.

I got the soulmate card for you
We have a lot of soulmates to meet in our life. Clearly you have think to learn from your current relationship. It's an important one
Here I think it mean that the quality that you want in your partner, you have to developpe them in you before.
Do you have high expectations ? Would you change things in your partner ?

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posted May 25, 2013 07:40 AM            

Well before I even looked at the cards for your question "why is he afraid of me?" I sense it's because he feels you might break his heart if you decide not to pursue a relationship with him. I get the feeling he's terrified of a broken heart and that's why he's afraid of placing himself in a position with you that could get him rejected. The cards seem to support that:

Queen of Swords - he sees you as someone with a great deal of strength and independence and whilst that's exciting and attractive, it can also be frightening because you might not 'need' him.

The Hermit - he's doing a lot of soul searching and work on himself. I think he's also a little shy.

The hanged man - he's waiting (almost resigned to not taking action,) and weighing everything up I think.

Base card was The Tower so it feels like this has hit him out of the blue. Have there been any other dramatic changes in his life recently? If not I'd say he's feeling knocked sideways by his feelings for you and although it's a positive thing it's also a daunting one in some ways.

Does he know what's going on with you at the moment?

That's a tough one to answer but based on the cards I think he suspects you're going through a difficult time (possibly following a break up or loss of some kind?) and that's another reason he's afraid to approach you because he might feel it'd be wrong of him to chuck anything else at you right now. I think he sees conflict and even heartache surrounding you in some ways. I also think he sees you coming through that positively and it's inspiring to him. Makes him admire you. Might be completely off with all this so feel free to tell me if I am!

posted May 25, 2013 09:36 AM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:
Wow Enlightened!! You really hit the nail on the head there!! As I replied to isabelle, he lies or rather doesn't tell the whole truth sometimes and that's been a recent issue that's caused the 'transformaton' because he finally old the truth and it was nearly make or break for us. As your reading suggests, I think there's more to come but from the cards it looks like we might be able to overcome this if we work together. We'll see. Thanks so much for all your help on this!!

Well before I even looked at the cards for your question "why is he afraid of me?" I sense it's because he feels you might break his heart if you decide not to pursue a relationship with him. I get the feeling he's terrified of a broken heart and that's why he's afraid of placing himself in a position with you that could get him rejected. The cards seem to support that:

Queen of Swords - he sees you as someone with a great deal of strength and independence and whilst that's exciting and attractive, it can also be frightening because you might not 'need' him.

The Hermit - he's doing a lot of soul searching and work on himself. I think he's also a little shy.

The hanged man - he's waiting (almost resigned to not taking action,) and weighing everything up I think.

Base card was The Tower so it feels like this has hit him out of the blue. Have there been any other dramatic changes in his life recently? If not I'd say he's feeling knocked sideways by his feelings for you and although it's a positive thing it's also a daunting one in some ways.

Does he know what's going on with you at the moment?

That's a tough one to answer but based on the cards I think he suspects you're going through a difficult time (possibly following a break up or loss of some kind?) and that's another reason he's afraid to approach you because he might feel it'd be wrong of him to chuck anything else at you right now. I think he sees conflict and even heartache surrounding you in some ways. I also think he sees you coming through that positively and it's inspiring to him. Makes him admire you. Might be completely off with all this so feel free to tell me if I am!

Page of Swords
2 of Wands
10 of Swords
base card = 7 of Wands

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Does he want us to get closer or is he that set on not getting hurt? ( I have no intentions of hurting him I'd just like to get to know him better)

I wonder what the tower is all about? I got this regarding his feelings towards last time. You think he just heard something about my situation or is that referring to his life?

posted May 28, 2013 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:
Sorry Enlightened! Only just saw this - busy weekend! Will try and get that done for you tonight. Hope you're ok x

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posted May 29, 2013 10:09 AM            

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Originally posted by seeker3030:
Huge apologies Enlightened, I got completely snowed under last night but I promise I'll take a look at the cards for you tonight.

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posted May 29, 2013 05:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Enlightened:
I'm glad that made sense for you! Yours made perfect sense as well.... So based on these, should I just leave him be? It's such shame I feel like we would "heal" each other. There a nice connection between us. The firsrt reading you h"gave looked hopeful though no?

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Hi Enlightened
Apologies for the delay and here's what I think based on cards and intuition...

I'd say the answer to the first question is yes: leave him alone for a little. Or rather don't make any moves just yet. This is a period of transition for you and I suspect for him also. Wait and see if you both feel compelled to begin a relationship because of true affection, attraction and spark. By all means help or try to heal each other but from what I can see, I think at the moment there are maybe too many other elements involved (the situation you're going through being a very important one,) and I don't get the impression the time is quite right just now to take anything else on. Lots of movement/shifting emotions and physical movement in the form of travel perhaps. Give yourself a little longer and see what happens/how you feel about everything. I think if you do that you'll find things turn out for the best.

6 Swords
5 Pentacles
6 Wands
Base = 8 Cups.

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Does he want us to get closer or is he that set on not getting hurt? ( I have no intentions of hurting him I'd just like to get to know him better)

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Page of Swords
4 Wands
Page of Cups
Base card = Knight of Swords

In a word yes. But it seems it might be more of a romantic curiosity than a cast iron plan to do anything about it just yet. However he's sorely tempted given the base card/outcome card and I wouldn't be surprised if at some point he'll pounce! He feels that it'd be a lovely relationship by the looks of it. However I think he senses that you're going through stuff - I can't honestly say whether he knows about your situation or not (as you know, Tarot's not 100% accurate on yes/no answers,) but my best gut feeling is that he's maybe asked about you from friends etc and knows you've had a bad time recently. I think that's giving him caution: mainly out of respect for your feelings (he doesn't want to pile anything else on top of you right now,) and partly because I imagine he's reluctant to get involved if he thinks it might just be a healing exercise. Don't get me wrong, two people healing each other is a wonderful thing... but speaking as someone who's ended up being no more than a plaster on a sore place for a few exes in the past, I'd rather have done it as a friend than had my heart disappointed thinking it was going to amount to more than that. That's just me though so take that with a pinch of salt! I just think he might sense you're still a little hung up with unfinished business (naff phrase but all I could think of) from the recent events in your life and that's given him cause to pause and maybe wait until you're free of whatever has happened.

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[B}I wonder what the tower is all about? I got this regarding his feelings towards last time. You think he just heard something about my situation or is that referring to his life?[/B]

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This I'm going to answer without the cards if that's ok - I think this attraction/curiosity about each other has hit you both like a lightening bolt. You certainly didn't expect it because of what you've been going through I think and he's the same. Your life seems to be still going through the after shocks of whatever's happened and you're trying to make sense of and get used to the results of the upheaval of The Tower. The Tower rips things down so you can rebuild anew. Maximum impact is caused but it comes with a warning: make the same mistakes (or new ones,) and I'll do it again and again until the message gets through. Very often it's extremely kind; a kind of Saturnine slap round the face to jolt you awake at the wheel of your life. (Hark at me getting all poetic! ) So I think this is what's happened to you. You've been rescued from a wrong path (albeit chaotically and hurtfully,) and placed very kindly on a new one. It's entirely up to you what you do with that new path and I think that The Tower shows you that upheaval but also warns against making rash decisions and building rickety foundations because it'll only come thundering back to knock them down again. Therefore (very long windedly!) I have a feeling that you're being asked to look before you leap into this relationship so quickly after whatever went before. It might seem shiny and new and potentially wonderful but it might also be the fire you leap into out of the frying pan if you go too quick. For him I'd say the Tower shows the speed at which you've arrived on the scene and the huge change you'd make in his life. All in all it seems like there's huge potential to this relationship - a great deal of positivity possible. But!! The Tower and that 5 of Swords from the first reading are cautioning you to put the building blocks in place and make absolutely certain before you begin anything. I think you both deserve to be more to each other than a plaster on a sore place Hope that helps and hope I haven't said anything out of turn. xx

posted May 30, 2013 10:36 AM            

What you need to know about trusting him from now on:
First thing, is follow your intuition. When you feel something is not right, go with it as you are usually correct! You may need to go to a quiet place to conetemplate & meditate, but you will find your answers within.

High Priestess/Empress/Hermit
(All majors!)

Will K contact him again: Yes, I believe so, but I feel it is completed, does thar make sense? (World/Six of cups)

posted May 30, 2013 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Enlightened:
Seeker,
Thank you so much! Away from my cards at the moment but will get to your questions this evening!!
So from the looks of it, do you think we will connect?
He has positive feelings towards me?

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Knight of rods
7 of swords
Empress
Base = Knight of Pentacles

I'd say yes you will connect but it'll be kept secret from everyone at first - maybe because of your present situation? Others might cause you problems if it came out too soon perhaps? But the Empress and the Knight of Pents make me feel that it'll grow because you'll both work hard at making it happen. Looks like he'll be particularly keen to make it happen.

His feelings towards you are very positive!!
9 of cups, Judgement, Empress and base card was 2 of wands so he feels you're a wish come true and you have the potential to breathe new life into him. He just feels a bit unsure of how/when/if to approach you I think because of the sense that you're going through a tough time. Don't think he wants to get in the way or seem callous by interrupting that situation. But I do think you two will connect and it's all good!!