posted June 01, 2013 06:29 PM            

This is a different chart I'm posting (with a different guy, I'm the outside wheel). Would anyone be able to give me their opinion on this one? All input is welcome and I can try reading an horary chart in exchange. I'd offer a regular chart reading, but I'm still learning. Thanks!

Birth time is accurate for me, and as close as he knows for his:

posted June 02, 2013 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Sven555:
I'll take a look at your synastry chart now, KayEvans.

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posted June 02, 2013 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Oh, my mistake.. I am on the inside wheel. He is on the outside.

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You're welcome! I'll do my best!

posted June 02, 2013 02:05 PM            

Just to say, it's a little hard judging whether 2 planets conjunct one another or not. So i might not be accurate on everything.

The Aspects:

Mercury conjunct Ascendant

Seeing as it's HIS Mercury and YOUR Ascendant, YOU may have a great influence on the way he thinks. There is likely to be great communication between you too. He is likely to influence your self image and perhaps your attitudes and actions.

Mercury conjunct Saturn, Sun & Mercury

Again it's HIS Mercury aspecting YOUR Saturn, Sun and Mercury.
Mercury-Sun indicates good mental understanding between the two of you along with the ability to agree with one another easily. You may influence his views.

Mercury-Mercury is a brilliant aspect to have between the two of you. (Obviously depending on the degrees of both). It indicates a similarity in the way you both think and your ideas. You both love to talk or even chat to each other because of this and you could even learn alot from each other! This aspect has the potential to enliven your friendship/relationship.

Mercury-Saturn is a rather restrictive aspect, that can have it's ups and downs. Because YOUR Saturn in this aspect, your effect on him is much stronger than vice versa. You may have knowledge or wisdom to offer him too. (Despite you're younger than him?!)
With this aspect, just be careful not to be too discouraging with his ideas or what he thinks. You may nag at him (from time to
time, depending on how well you know one another)

Do you find that you ask him a lot of questions?

Ascendant conjunct Neptune

HIS Ascendant to YOUR Neptune. You may have a strong psychic influence on him which can be either wonderful or disastrous. This obviously depends on your overall nature.
Neither of you appear to have any planets in each others 5th, 7th and 8th houses. But we can look at the rulers of each one.

Yours:
5th house - Pisces = Neptune
7th house - Taurus = Venus
8th house - Gemini = Mercury

His:
5th house - Taurus = Venus
7th house - Gemini = Mercury
8th house - Leo = Sun

If any of your planets make a major aspect towards his planets, then this can also have a significant affect on each other. (Same with him to you.)

Yours:
5th house ruler: Neptune
Moon sextile Neptune
Mars trine Neptune

7th house ruler: Venus
Venus square Neptune

8th house ruler: Mercury
Mercury conjunct Mercury

His:
5th house ruler: Venus
Venus conjunct Uranus

7th house ruler: Mercury
Mercury conjunct Mercury

8th house ruler: Sun
Sun conjunct Moon (maybe?)

Also, seem to have Venus sextile Venus which means similar attitudes in love, friendship, social life and affections.

That Part of Fortune conjunct 7th house cusp is something to look out for too.

posted June 02, 2013 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by Sven555:
From a glance, it looks as if you both have alot of planets between the 8th house and the 2nd house.

Just to say, it's a little hard judging whether 2 planets conjunct one another or not. So i might not be accurate on everything.

[b]The Aspects:

Mercury conjunct Ascendant

Seeing as it's HIS Mercury and YOUR Ascendant, YOU may have a great influence on the way he thinks. There is likely to be great communication between you too. He is likely to influence your self image and perhaps your attitudes and actions.

Mercury conjunct Saturn, Sun & Mercury

Again it's HIS Mercury aspecting YOUR Saturn, Sun and Mercury.
Mercury-Sun indicates good mental understanding between the two of you along with the ability to agree with one another easily. You may influence his views.

Mercury-Mercury is a brilliant aspect to have between the two of you. (Obviously depending on the degrees of both). It indicates a similarity in the way you both think and your ideas. You both love to talk or even chat to each other because of this and you could even learn alot from each other! This aspect has the potential to enliven your friendship/relationship.

Mercury-Saturn is a rather restrictive aspect, that can have it's ups and downs. Because YOUR Saturn in this aspect, your effect on him is much stronger than vice versa. You may have knowledge or wisdom to offer him too. (Despite you're younger than him?!)
With this aspect, just be careful not to be too discouraging with his ideas or what he thinks. You may nag at him (from time to
time, depending on how well you know one another)

Do you find that you ask him a lot of questions?

Ascendant conjunct Neptune

HIS Ascendant to YOUR Neptune. You may have a strong psychic influence on him which can be either wonderful or disastrous. This obviously depends on your overall nature.
Neither of you appear to have any planets in each others 5th, 7th and 8th houses. But we can look at the rulers of each one.

Yours:
5th house - Pisces = Neptune
7th house - Taurus = Venus
8th house - Gemini = Mercury

His:
5th house - Taurus = Venus
7th house - Gemini = Mercury
8th house - Leo = Sun

If any of your planets make a major aspect towards his planets, then this can also have a significant affect on each other. (Same with him to you.)

Yours:
5th house ruler: Neptune
Moon sextile Neptune
Mars trine Neptune

7th house ruler: Venus
Venus square Neptune

8th house ruler: Mercury
Mercury conjunct Mercury

His:
5th house ruler: Venus
Venus conjunct Uranus

7th house ruler: Mercury
Mercury conjunct Mercury

8th house ruler: Sun
Sun conjunct Moon (maybe?)

Also, seem to have Venus sextile Venus which means similar attitudes in love, friendship, social life and affections.

That Part of Fortune conjunct 7th house cusp is something to look out for too.

I hope all of this helps! [/B]

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Whoa, thank you Svenn! You were actually pretty accurate, surprisingly so for not having had an aspect chart or DOB etc. Yes, I am in fact two years younger than him, and I DO ask him a lot of questions! Sometimes I know he can get irritated with me asking him so many, but that depends on the subject of course.. he does answer me either way. We also do have Sun conjunct Moon, but it's my moon and his sun. I've heard this is a good aspect to have, but will need to read up more to see what it means exactly.

There has always been some push/pull between us, with us both taking turns in being the one to come and go. It's clear that we're unable to stay away from each other though, as we have had our ups and downs these past 10 months, yet always come back to each other (with him being the one to always initiate it). I've never experienced this dynamic with anyone in quite the same way I experience it with him.. it's like crazy glue -but not in a bad way. I'd say 99% of the time, when I'm done I'll move on and not let a guy back in, but he has this odd way of knocking down my defenses with ease. I'm still trying to figure "us" out, although we haven't officially been in a relationship. I would call it more of an "almost relationship", minus the physical stuff.. Anyway, thanks for your feedback!

posted June 02, 2013 06:02 PM            

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Whoa, thank you Svenn! You were actually pretty accurate, surprisingly so for not having had an aspect chart or DOB etc. Yes, I am in fact two years younger than him, and I DO ask him a lot of questions! Sometimes I know he can get irritated with me asking him so many, but that depends on the subject of course.. he does answer me either way. We also do have Sun conjunct Moon, but it's my moon and his sun. I've heard this is a good aspect to have, but will need to read up more to see what it means exactly.

There has always been some push/pull between us, with us both taking turns in being the one to come and go. It's clear that we're unable to stay away from each other though, as we have had our ups and downs these past 10 months, yet always come back to each other (with him being the one to always initiate it). I've never experienced this dynamic with anyone in quite the same way I experience it with him.. it's like crazy glue -but not in a bad way. I'd say 99% of the time, when I'm done I'll move on and not let a guy back in, but he has this odd way of knocking down my defenses with ease. I'm still trying to figure "us" out, although we haven't officially been in a relationship. I would call it more of an "almost relationship", minus the physical stuff.. Anyway, thanks for your feedback!

Another thing I'm interested in learning more about is his moon being conjunct my black moon lilith. If you've had any experience, or have any knowledge about how this could play out between two people, I'd be incredibly interested in hearing it! That goes for anyone on this board, really. I have found next to no information about it online..

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You're most welcome, Kay!

Haha, i'm always surprised to know that the aspects actually do take affect after i have declared them lol. (Mercury-Saturn for example)

The Sun conjunct Moon aspect is usually a very beneficial aspect to have between the 2 of you. Considering it's His Sun to Your Moon, it's even better.

The push/pull between to two of you can be related to either major planets in opposition, or to Uranus aspects.

Moon conjunct black lilith aspects? Sorry I haven't had any experience of these, although i don't think i have? That's a shame there's no alot of information out there.

posted June 02, 2013 06:46 PM            

The thing I see right off is that both of you have heavy placements in the houses of work/friendship/self and a lack of anything going on with those romantic/dating/family houses of 4-8. So, perhaps the relationship between you guys will end up being a very strong friendship as opposed to a deeply romantic one. The best thing you guys have is the sun-moon conjunction in Libra; it looks like a wide orb but that doesn’t matter (at least imo) – it’s a very basic energy between a man/woman, and the placement you guys have (you as moon/emotions and he as sun/expression) is the way it should be – very male/female in the energy pattern. That aspect is found very often in the chart of married couples because it brings together two halves of a whole. Plus, it’s romantic, given the placement in Libra :-)

The part of fortune isn’t that significant to me (usually) but because you have his sitting right on your DSC it brings it more significance; you’ll bring into very clear focus for this guy the areas that part of fortune ‘oversees', which I have come to understand is career/vocation/life calling. So, perhaps more evidence that you guys will have some effect on one another in career areas as opposed to romance. The part of fortune does appear often in the chart of married couples, so perhaps read up more on that aspect.

Some of the psychic energy is likely coming from his mercury/Jupiter/Pluto aspecting your 12th house. That 12th house is all about ‘hidden’ feelings/emotions/secrets, and yeah – some communication between you guys could be unsaid/psychic given that mercury is one of the planets there. He might be ‘speaking’ to you without knowing it. His mercury is also conjunct your ASC - that should make communication easier for you guys, and put you very much in tune with how he talks/communicates. A very favorable aspect.

He has a natal Venus conjunct Uranus … this is a pretty unstable aspect for him, especially in relationships. When you have it in synastry (as I do with my bf) two people come together, break apart, come back together, take a break, come back, etc. It’s an instant, exciting attraction aspect, but seems to fade in/out with time. He has it natally, so he’ll be used to operating that way in relationships, and you guys also have the venus-uranus conjunction in Sagittarius, so that up/down will occur quite a lot, and may not be something you’re used to.

I see this synastry as a great friendship, for sure. Not sure about romance though. Since he has nothing in 4-8, relationships won’t be at the forefront of his life/concerns, and with a venus-uranus conjunction, Venus in Sagittarius, and moon in aqua, you’re looking at someone who will enjoy career, freedom, perhaps travel/education over romantic pursuits and perhaps not settle down for a while. All of his placements are outgoing in nature – he strikes me as a very fun guy, but your planets strike me as more practical/grounded.

I'm still learning, so anything super off let me know.

Good luck.

posted June 02, 2013 06:47 PM            

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Originally posted by KayEvans:
Oh, Svenn.. I'm sorry, I actually have one more question. You mentioned POF conjunct 7th house cusp. What exactly does that indicate? I would assume something good?

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No no, it's completely fine Kay

I'll have a look now.

posted June 02, 2013 10:28 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
Kay you have all the placements I want for my future husband … I need a Libra moon man like crazy!! And coupled with a Virgo mars/Venus and Scorpio sun … those four placements would conjunct all my major planets and lead me straight to happyland!!

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Hahaha! Well dang, I hope you're able to find a guy to match something close to my placements one day! I know I ran into one myself a few years back..

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The thing I see right off is that both of you have heavy placements in the houses of work/friendship/self and a lack of anything going on with those romantic/dating/family houses of 4-8. So, perhaps the relationship between you guys will end up being a very strong friendship as opposed to a deeply romantic one. The best thing you guys have is the sun-moon conjunction in Libra; it looks like a wide orb but that doesn’t matter (at least imo) – it’s a very basic energy between a man/woman, and the placement you guys have (you as moon/emotions and he as sun/expression) is the way it should be – very male/female in the energy pattern. That aspect is found very often in the chart of married couples because it brings together two halves of a whole. Plus, it’s romantic, given the placement in Libra :-)

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I wholeheartedly agree with the last statement, as it does feel like two halves of a whole for me. I'd assume the same for him based on things he has said and the fact that he can't stay away from me either. I can also see how this could play out more as a close friendship than a romantic one, but can also see how it would help in a relationship since friendship is the basis of strong marriages/partnerships.

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The part of fortune isn’t that significant to me (usually) but because you have his sitting right on your DSC it brings it more significance; you’ll bring into very clear focus for this guy the areas that part of fortune ‘oversees', which I have come to understand is career/vocation/life calling. So, perhaps more evidence that you guys will have some effect on one another in career areas as opposed to romance. The part of fortune does appear often in the chart of married couples, so perhaps read up more on that aspect.

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Some of the psychic energy is likely coming from his mercury/Jupiter/Pluto aspecting your 12th house. That 12th house is all about ‘hidden’ feelings/emotions/secrets, and yeah – some communication between you guys could be unsaid/psychic given that mercury is one of the planets there. He might be ‘speaking’ to you without knowing it. His mercury is also conjunct your ASC - that should make communication easier for you guys, and put you very much in tune with how he talks/communicates. A very favorable aspect.

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He has a natal Venus conjunct Uranus … this is a pretty unstable aspect for him, especially in relationships. When you have it in synastry (as I do with my bf) two people come together, break apart, come back together, take a break, come back, etc. It’s an instant, exciting attraction aspect, but seems to fade in/out with time. He has it natally, so he’ll be used to operating that way in relationships, and you guys also have the venus-uranus conjunction in Sagittarius, so that up/down will occur quite a lot, and may not be something you’re used to.

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I think you did a great job at describing us, so your learning is going well! I also looked at the composite today and believe I saw some good aspects, such as Sun conjunct Venus. We also have Venus conjunct Saturn though, which I know can indicate an attraction that may be slow to consummate, if it ever happens at all. Either way, I can honestly say that I'm thankful to have met him because I truly do love and care for him an awful lot, and believe he feels the same.

Thank you both again for your input!