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posted June 02, 2013 02:34 PM            

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I guess you could say that I'm somewhat confused as to the type of person I should date/be with. I've had a lot of disappointing relationships where the guy I was dating was just not my fit.

So I would like some insight on where I should start...

Here is my chart. Much insight will be appreciated. Thanks X
http://i1296.photobucket.com/albums/ag5/Layla2953/LaylaChart_zps4025e68d.jpg

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posted June 02, 2013 05:43 PM            

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Hi. Just my opinions, ok.
You have two of your more important planets – Venus and Moon- both in Leo, and both hovering on the cusp of the 10th/11th. Leo moon and Venus = extremely romantic, so right off you’d better find yourself a guy who knows how to romance you and treat you well and show you a good time. You’ll want to be pursued, wooed, etc. and a guy who is too passive or slow won’t work. A guy with fire planets in his chart (perhaps a Leo sun or mars) would make for a very nice match. You do have those planets in the house of friendship/career, so I would guess that some important dating relationships would stem from your work environment or through a friendship. You have an absence of planets in the 4th-9th, so romance (although you want it), may not be something you actively pursue as much as others things in your life. It may be an area that is slower to develop for you. Your sun and mercury, both in Libra, are housed in the 12th. This is a ‘hidden’ house because a lot of times the person with these placements struggles with fully expressing the energy of the planets that are contained within the house. Their partners are often left wondering how they feel because emotions can be inhibited. Since you have sun and mercury there it’s really important, when you do find someone, to make a real effort to communicate and be yourself. Those could be trouble spots in relationships. A man with an air sign as a mercury might help to draw you out, so perhaps look for that. And I would suggest finding someone (if you can) who does not have planets in their 12th – too much of that is a challenge. Libra, like Leo, is an outgoing placement, so a shy, retiring type of person (as many water signs can be) would likely begin to bother you after a while… I would definitely stick with finding someone with some fire placements, particularly Leo, so you will feel some immediate affinity to them. A Libra moon or even a Virgo moon could work as well. I would stay away from men with water signs, since you have a lack of water in your chart; they may be some of the most romantic, but it’ll come across in emotional displays you may not identify with. An Aquarius mars or sun could work as well – it’s a fellow air sign as your Libra is, and opposes Leo, so there would be some immediate interest. Try to look for a guy who can take charge and be a bit bossy - as a Libra mars/sun and Leo venus you'll admire that in a guy and come to appreciate it, and you won't find yourself the 'in charge' one all the time :-)

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posted June 02, 2013 05:49 PM            

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Thanks so much for your detailed opinion. I have saved this to my Favorites! I actually never thought of it that way, that I should look for a fire sign or someone outgoing, bc at times i cab be shy (So true). You are absolutely right about wanting to be pursued and wooed, etc. I for sure hate it when guys are too shy to approach me, and then I later find out through the grapevine that they have liked me all along-frustrating!

Thanks!

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