posted June 08, 2013 08:35 AM            

Bouquet + Ship + Sun = Snake

posted June 09, 2013 03:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Cathy1980:
Did you both have any misunderstanding of any sort? Had he ever told you that he needs some personal space kind of?

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posted June 09, 2013 03:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Selene:
I'm not sure what it means, but

Bouquet + Ship + Sun = Snake

My wild guess would be that there is another woman at stake. Maybe he got an invitation or he made an invitation and they are probably now somewhere out of the city... went somewhere and are having good time. I'm sorry, i hope i am wrong. That's the feeling cards gave me.

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posted June 09, 2013 09:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Sarahwood:
No he travelled to Paris to see me. We went out for 3 days. N now he is all distant n weird. He isn't replying to me n not opening his what's app to reply. He opened Facebook becuz I didn't write to him there. Am just confused n sad n want an explanation. :s he said this trip is for me.

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I drew
Page of swords+8 of swords+6 of wands

posted June 09, 2013 12:38 PM            

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Originally posted by Cathy1980:
I drew
Page of swords+8 of swords+6 of wands

I somehow got the feel that he found some aspect of your relationship a little suffocating or overly bonding and needed some space. He wants to be liberated and that is why he's giving some temporary gap I feel. Not giving a reasonable explanation to you is something really bad though!

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I wrote to him that his a jerk n evil n his a manipulator if he wanted sex after all not deep bond. I didn't sleep with him.i texted him saying I know ur with another women so at least u could've told me, yes I know I jump into conclusion. N his not replying. Anyways, I posted a status that I left the country so when he sees it be gets the idea I moved on n am living my life.
How bad are we talking ? please explain am new with this behavior :s .

posted June 10, 2013 01:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Sarahwood:
I wrote to him that his a jerk n evil n his a manipulator if he wanted sex after all not deep bond. I didn't sleep with him.i texted him saying I know ur with another women so at least u could've told me, yes I know I jump into conclusion. N his not replying. Anyways, I posted a status that I left the country so when he sees it be gets the idea I moved on n am living my life.
How bad are we talking ? please explain am new with this behavior :s .

Suffocating his the one who's all touchy n romantic ! Face palm . Am ignoring him now! Do t give a crap if this was one of his stupid test or games. Cuz he always does it. His leaving this Tuesday from Paris so yea!

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posted June 10, 2013 04:34 AM            

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Originally posted by Cathy1980:
I understand the stress you are undergoing. Some guys take advantage of your giving attitude. If the suffocating part is not true in your case, he's a guy who wants himself to be set free. He's not a person willing for commitment. So, anyway this person is not healthy for you. It is better you take the courage to move on. At any cost don't get back to him. Let him reach out to you in case he's willing to give any explanation for his bad manners.
Take the situation as a lesson to be learnt. Whichever situation/reason that gave you the pain is one which shouldn't be repeated in the future. For now, calm your mind and be cool, take care of your life. This situation will make you more stronger and be cautious with future encounters. All the best.

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Thank you Cathy . I will. It's just I warned him that I don't want to be taking advantage of. N am proud that I did not sleep with him even though it was date number 3. And I was already head over heels. It's just am sick and tired of lairs and telling me things. And I trusted him, I opened up to him that I got raped n etc. n I was being cautious with him. Sadly, I always get hurt. I won't date anyone for a while even though if there drop dead gorgeous. Because he was hot and yea.

posted June 11, 2013 02:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Sarahwood:
I won't date anyone for a while even though if there drop dead gorgeous. Because he was hot and yea.

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This is a good decision if you are strongly going to follow. Take time for yourself to analyze your own needs. Concentrate on your studies, career, develop or create hobbies of your own, socialize with your friends and you will get away with these unpleasant emotions.

I also like to add that some personal things and sensitive issues are left to be personal to you, unless the relationship has grown and survived for some time to be wholly trusted. I feel that 3 dates are too early to open up to a person about the abuse you underwent in the past. I'm not sure how long you have known the person before started dating him. The listener needs to be matured enough to handle sensitive issues in their partner's lives. It is not wrong that you wanted to be honest to open up to him, but, it would be a better choice to talk on these sensitive issues when you both decide to commit to each other formally.

posted June 11, 2013 05:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Cathy1980:
This is a good decision if you are strongly going to follow. Take time for yourself to analyze your own needs. Concentrate on your studies, career, develop or create hobbies of your own, socialize with your friends and you will get away with these unpleasant emotions.

I also like to add that some personal things and sensitive issues are left to be personal to you, unless the relationship has grown and survived for some time to be wholly trusted. I feel that 3 dates are too early to open up to a person about the abuse you underwent in the past. I'm not sure how long you have known the person before started dating him. The listener needs to be matured enough to handle sensitive issues in their partner's lives. It is not wrong that you wanted to be honest to open up to him, but, it would be a better choice to talk on these sensitive issues when you both decide to commit to each other formally.

All the best, have trust in God. Everything will be alright.

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Yea I will stick with that decision .
He actually replied Cathy :/ I felt hurt but knew he is one indesicive man, look.
Hey. I am sorry I haven't spoken for a few days. I was waiting for u to message me but no you didn't?!? Then I thought hmmm what's going on. So I went home early. And no I'm not travelled here to see someone else. I came here to visit you... I did get on well with u but I dunno. I don't wanna mess u around and I don't wanna give u false hopes by spending so much time with u over this wk in Paris. Not sure we kicked of well... Maybe I bailed too early. I dunno ... Sorry huh

His thinking out loud n is all weird like I like u but I didn't I don't know -.- face palm! His insecure I can tell.