posted June 11, 2013 02:17 PM            

He's Red, I'm blue...

Synastry

And Comp

posted June 11, 2013 03:04 PM            

Well, I will have a look, but I can`t promise when, as I am quite exhausted right now.
And also covered with work.

posted June 11, 2013 04:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Havenīt I already seen this synastry?
Is his birthtime unknown?

Well, I will have a look, but I can`t promise when, as I am quite exhausted right now.
And also covered with work.

But of course I love that tight Sun-Moon-conjun ction.

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posted June 14, 2013 05:33 PM            

I still like it. Well I would prefer if you knew his birthtime (can`t you ask him? This really makes a difference!).

However, since the Moon-Sun conjunction is so tight here, I suppose it will still be in orb no matter when he was being born.

With your Sun on his Moon, he shows a strong emotional response to you. It is like he cannot "not respond / react" to you. Whatever the Sun touches, gets illuminated. So here your core personality becomes a burning focus or his emotions.
I donīt know how much in tune he is with his emotional side, but there would be an emotional reaction to you, some sort of identification even, and you might even embody - effortlessly just by being yourself- a part of his anima or ideal woman.
This here is not so much about lustful attraction, but about emotional compatibility, or attraction, even some sort of emotional attachment, bonding or need for him. You on the other hand can shine and be yourself. Actually it will be impossible to hide away. As he responds so strongly and deeply to you, you might feel a bit on "display" for him. But that can be very positive, too.

I see that this falls into your 12th house and your Sun rules your 4th house. This indicates that there is a really deep undercurrent running between the two of you. Maybe you`ve even met in a past life, but more importantly, your own spirituality and emotional depth is being triggered.
I am not sure how much you relate to your 12th house, as for some people it seems to be very hidden, and others identify strongly with it. But however it is, ther eis a real soulconnection going on.
I find it positive that this conjunction trines your Saturn, as this gives some sort of stability.

Now you`ve got Venus opposite Neptune in 7th house in your own chart - so I suppose a man should have a bit of a Neptunian vibe, preferably a mature Neptunian vibe, to really peak your interest.
(even more so since your Moon is in Pisces)

What better than a man with Sun conjunct Neptune? REceptive and imaginiative enough, but luckily also quite grounded with that Cappy-Sun.

His Saturn in your 7th house on your Neptune opposite your Venus on the one hand may pose a bit of a challenge, but on the other hand it is also providing a strong hook. Actually this fits exactly into the Saturn-Neptune-theme that is being outlined on this site here
http://www.throughnightsfire.com/SaturnNeptuneconnections.html

I actually have the book, and found it very interesting.
I bet you can easily get under his skin.
In my experience Neptune is the only one who can really flow through Saturn`s shields.

But there is also an electric sexual, erotic and romantic attraction there with that Mars/Uranus-conjunction and Uranus opposite Venus.
Magnetic attraction.

Though with Mars-Uranus, it can sometimes be a bit erratic, and it depends on how you can eal with the surges of electricity.
Each of you stirs the other one`s genderplanet. I bet it is more than thrilling and exciting.
But I am not sure how much this translates into a day to day relationship.
It could get a bit much, and you will need an outlet for this kind of energy.

The ruler of your 5th house is opposing his Pluto. Whoa, talk about really passionate intense sexual attraction there.

As or the composite the Moon-Venus-conjunction opposing Mars definitely speaks of some more emotional-sexual-sparks and attractions. I actually love it. You have the sweet affection of Moon-and Venus, but also the spark and zing and energy of Mars. Might be quite a bit of passion and intensity there.

The nice understanding Sun-MErcury-conjunction is squared by Uranus - excitement, electricity, but how stable and committed is it?
if this is a committed relationship, then it will need a lot of stimulation and excitement throughout the course of it. Uranus doesnīt do routines very well.

posted June 14, 2013 06:17 PM            

I am very open & in touch with my 12th house energy... And yes, spirutual experiences galore. I would love to tell you about it, but I can;t write it here! Too personal..

posted June 15, 2013 08:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Enlightened:
Wow Ceri- This is great! Thank you..so basically, do you feel it is felt mutually, or is one feeling more than the other physically/emotionally?

I am very open & in touch with my 12th house energy... And yes, spirutual experiences galore. I would love to tell you about it, but I can;t write it here! Too personal..

Would you gather that eventually we will "connect"? (We've never been in a situation where we have been alone, and that's probably for the best!) LOL

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It`s difficult saying something really definite without knowing his birthtime. However, since his Moon is involved so closely with your Sun, I think it is a rather safe bet to say that he will definitely emotionally be affected.

As for the timing of a relationship, well I haven`t yet found a 100% rule, but the most likelihood really is indicated in the progressions.
Actually even if it occurs in the progressions, it does not always mean a relationship will happen.
But if there is nothing coming up in the progressions, it is very unlikely that anything might happenm between you.

Relationship-progressions often have to do with Venus or pr Venus in strong aspect to Sun, Venus, Mars (according to Westrans research).
In my own research the ASC-dESC and rulers of these are important, too, as is the pr Moon, but this one really only acts as a trigger, as it is so fast moving.

posted June 15, 2013 08:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Enlightened:
Oh, and why do you think I can easily get under his skin?

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1. Your Sun conjuncts his Moon.

2. Your Venus-Neptune "targets" his Saturn
Now the second one is a bit complicated, for Saturn is not known for his receptivity, and usually has some high defenses.
However, if you look behind these Saturnian defenses you see that they are just there to protect a very vulnerable core, a lot of fear (of rejection, abandonment, loss of control - depends on where Saturn is and what he aspects natally) is there. And the external carefulness or blockedness or taking control or even rejection Saturn can exhibit, is usually just a sign that you indeed got under his shields, and poor Saturn now is in a state of emotional panic, afraid someone could see all his (perceived) shortcomings and judge him for that (and thus he usally judges or withdraws first to prevent the dreaded scenario from happening).

Especially Neptune (and to a part Venus) can very easily slip under his defences. Neptune is just pure osmoses and simply flows through the tiny cracks in his shields, and Saturn is pretty defenseless.

But of course it depends on the Saturn person how he reacts to that. It is not always being accepted with open arms.

posted June 16, 2013 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by Enlightened:
Right, but as far as the physical attraction goes, how does he feel it?

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Since I donīt know what his 5th house ruler (and 8th house ruler) is doing, it`s hard to say.

However, he will definitely feel the Mars-Uranus-conjunction, and that is usually a strong sextual attraction. However, it tends to be swinging back and forth. One day the attraction is fully on, then it seems to fizzle, but comes back with force, especially after a certain time of separation/ distance.

But honestly, without knowing his birthtime, it`s all just very generalized, as this would fit to every person born on this very day. It`s his birthtime that pinpoints the very individual moment of birth (and his personality and needs and so on).

Planets can still say a lot, especially Mars, Venus and Pluto in terms of sexual attraction.
As I said Mars is conjunct Uranus - so that is a major thing for sexual attraction.
His Venus is not doing much in terms of sexual attraction, though the square to Mercury is interesting, and gives a flirtative vibe.
Mercury rules your 5th house, so there is some kind of erotic vibe accompanied with that Mercury.
I wouldnīt be surprised if his Venus ruled or was placed in his 8th house, as I have found that a strong aspect between 5th and 8th house in synastry seems to bring a very intense "can`t-help-it" sexual attraction.

Actually his Pluto is part of this T-square, so probably through interaction with you, especially when you are communicating in any way, or when you are expressing your creative, even sexual side, his own Venus-Pluto-square is triggered natally, and that can indeed point to a very strong sexual attraction. Though probably the vehemence of it might be almost scary to him.

If I see it right, then composite Venus is opposite his natal Pluto, too, yes?
I guess that would intensify this even more.