posted June 18, 2013 12:51 PM            

You may come across as a little bit reserved. Like you donīt want to reveal too much about yourself; maybe you are still battling with a disappointment or even a breakup of an old relationship.
Whatever the reason, you seem a bit withdrawn, and not wanting to present your cards too openly.

2. how he reveals himself
8 of swords

He seems to be a bit stuck; of course it is a gruesome image on this card. However, swords represent thoughts, so I think it might be his own thoughts, a neverending spiral of negative thoughts probably, that keep him stuck.
He might feel rather powerless and also fearful of rejection, so he chooses to not move at all.

3. How you see him
3 of wands

You see in him the potential of starting, creating something new with a firm foundation. This often also relates to communication, verbal or even electronic communication.
Are you speaking with him over phone more than in person?

4. How he sees you
10 of cups

Very positive, I`d say. Itīs a card of happiness and contentment, and maybe he even sees you as "family".

5. How you see the relationship
4 of wands

One that has the potential to blossom into something very worthwile with a strong basis, maybe even leading into a commitment such as marriage.
However for now I think you see it as having a very supportive foundation.

6. How he sees the relationship
Moon.

Honestly? He`s got no clue.
There is something about it that baffles him. He is probably very intrigued and emotionally touched by the relationship; however he has no idea what it really is about. There seems to be something that is just out of his grasp.
In the worst case scenario this can lead to him distrusting the relationship, or maybe even seeing it as a secret relationship.
Maybe either he has a secret, or he suspects you have (and yes, this could mean that either of you is in another relationship at the time).
But this is the worst case scenario, it doesn`t really have to be that bad.

But whenever the Moon appears, things are a bit hazy, dreamy and this can lead to feeling uncertain and insecure.

7. What you desire of your partner
Knight of Wands

You probably desire him to be a bit more forward, to let his feelings and passions show; show you his appreciation much more clearly.

8. What he desires of you
Justice

In contrast he probably wants you to be more balanced and levelheaded. He wants things to be more rational. But I also think this relates to things being brought into the open, clarify how you stand to each other.
(esp. in contrast to the Moon for the other position.

9. What is it about?
Chariot

This is about how you are going to proceed. Together or on separate ways? This is your decision of course.
But the Chariot shows that decisions have to be made and then you need to proceed forwards, move on, work on the relationship or on leaving the relationship in very practical ways.

posted June 18, 2013 02:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
1. How you reveal yourself:
4 of cups

You may come across as a little bit reserved. Like you donīt want to reveal too much about yourself; maybe you are still battling with a disappointment or even a breakup of an old relationship.
Whatever the reason, you seem a bit withdrawn, and not wanting to present your cards too openly.

Yep, absolutely. Tremendous amount of fear: rejection etc. and yes, still trying to move on from old relationship...dead on
2. how he reveals himself
8 of swords

He seems to be a bit stuck; of course it is a gruesome image on this card. However, swords represent thoughts, so I think it might be his own thoughts, a neverending spiral of negative thoughts probably, that keep him stuck.
He might feel rather powerless and also fearful of rejection, so he chooses to not move at all.

I can see this- interesting..
3. How you see him
3 of wands

You see in him the potential of starting, creating something new with a firm foundation. This often also relates to communication, verbal or even electronic communication.
Are you speaking with him over phone more than in person?
We haven't spoken in a long time...but he's still involved indirectly with my life. I want something very badly but I'm scared of how he feels and I wanted him to make the move.

4. How he sees you
10 of cups

Very positive, I`d say. Itīs a card of happiness and contentment, and maybe he even sees you as "family".

Thank God, at least it was a positive card- that makes me feel a little better

5. How you see the relationship
4 of wands

One that has the potential to blossom into something very worthwile with a strong basis, maybe even leading into a commitment such as marriage.
However for now I think you see it as having a very supportive foundation.

Yes, we were very close friends!!
6. How he sees the relationship
Moon.

Honestly? He`s got no clue.
There is something about it that baffles him. He is probably very intrigued and emotionally touched by the relationship; however he has no idea what it really is about. There seems to be something that is just out of his grasp.
In the worst case scenario this can lead to him distrusting the relationship, or maybe even seeing it as a secret relationship.
Maybe either he has a secret, or he suspects you have (and yes, this could mean that either of you is in another relationship at the time).
But this is the worst case scenario, it doesn`t really have to be that bad.

But whenever the Moon appears, things are a bit hazy, dreamy and this can lead to feeling uncertain and insecure.

We are both in other relationships, mine in the process of ending. Yes, our chemistry was kept on the down low. Part of me feels he might be staying in for the security.
7. What you desire of your partner
Knight of Wands

You probably desire him to be a bit more forward, to let his feelings and passions show; show you his appreciation much more clearly.

Yes, I wanted him to come forward and TELL me how he feels, but never did..only eluded to it
8. What he desires of you
Justice

In contrast he probably wants you to be more balanced and levelheaded. He wants things to be more rational. But I also think this relates to things being brought into the open, clarify how you stand to each other.
(esp. in contrast to the Moon for the other position.

Yes, I was scared to show him my true feelings and to tell them to him
9. What is it about?
Chariot

This is about how you are going to proceed. Together or on separate ways? This is your decision of course.
But the Chariot shows that decisions have to be made and then you need to proceed forwards, move on, work on the relationship or on leaving the relationship in very practical ways.

Interesting, why is this up to me? So what I decide will make this relationship move forward or not?

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