posted June 11, 2013 03:28 PM            

Me (female):
Sun - Pisces
Moon - Gemini
Mercury - Aquarius
Mars - Libra
Venus - Capricorn
Jupiter - Scorpio
Saturn - Libra
Uranus - Sagittarius
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
Ascendant - Capricorn

Him:
Sun - Pisces
Moon - Aquarius
Mercury - Pisces
Venus - Pisces
Mars - Cancer
Jupiter - Gemini
Saturn - Leo
Uranus - Scorpio
Neptune - Sagittarius
Pluto - Libra
Ascendant - Aries

posted June 11, 2013 04:02 PM            

HOW TO GET YOUR CHART

1. Go to www.astro.com . You can create a free account or enter your birth data as a guest; however, creating an account will allow you to save your information – great for trying the different charts both for yourself and for others in your life. If you don’t know the exact time of your birth, do your best to find out – it *is* important.

2. Go to “Free Horoscopes” and then to “Extended Chart Selection.”

3. “Natal Chart Wheel” is the default, but you will need to go to “House System” (under “Options” use the drop-down to change to “equal”).

4. Click on “Click here to show the Chart,” then click on the chart which will appear.

5. Right-click and save the chart to your desktop.

HOW TO UPLOAD YOUR CHART

1. Create a free account at www.photobucket.com .

2. Select “Upload Now” which will bring up “Select Photos and Videos.”

3. Navigate to your desktop and select.

4. On right, click “Save and continue to my album.”

5. When you hover the mouse pointer over the chart, you will see that a box appears with a few options. If you need to edit out your name or anything else you don’t feel comfortable sharing on the boards, “edit” is in the top band of options. Select “edit” which opens your chart and provides editing options. Go to the tab “Decorate,” and you will see a number of icons, one of which is an eraser. Erase what you need to, and click “Replace original.”

6. Saving should take you to a new screen where you can see your chart and to the right, a bank of options to “Share this photo.” Click on the IMG code, which will flash and let you know that you’ve copied the link.

7. Go to your thread, open a new post and paste your link.

posted June 11, 2013 10:09 PM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
I hope you’ll just take my opinions for what they are – I’m still learning and studying as I go. I’m going to guess that you’re quite beautiful – you have your natal venus almost exact conjunct your ASC., which usually indicates a beautiful face. So, your guy is likely very drawn to your physical appearance and that pisces/feminine sun you have, since it does conjunct his own sun (by about 5 or 6 degrees). However, the rest of his planets in Pisces are not close enough to your sun for close conjunctions. He has several important natal planets housed in the 12th, which is rather challenging for synastry and relationships – unless the other partner has a few planets there too, or similar elements to the partner. So, lets say you had a water moon or venus… it’d work a bit better for understanding him and his emotions. And a 12th house venus appears in the composite with several oppositions. 12th house stuff is ‘hidden’- the emotions and energies that are housed there can be expressed ‘wrong’ or not at all, depending upon the mood of the person. And since Pisces is a water element your guy is going to be moody and distant often, and swimming in emotional stuff that you won’t ‘get.’ He even has his mars in a water sign – you have your mars in air, so fighting/disagreements, planning/taking initiative – these are going to be challenging, as you both approach things very differently. Differences can be overcome and you said you were aware of the differences, but you have to hope that your partner will keep making an effort when those difficulties remain. You do have some nice synastry house overlays – his moon in your 1st and your mars and Saturn in his 7th. But your venus, mercury and asc. are in his 11th house of friendship – so perhaps (eventually) you’ll be viewed as a close friend rather than his great love? Natally, you have moon opposite Uranus and he has moon opposite Saturn; these are very challenging natal placements. These placements generally indicate that someone is not emotionally connected to their inner core; they often vacillate between wanting a close connection to someone and then wanting independence and to be free of the partner and commitment. You both have this energy. The composite is filled with oppositions, including to the venus (which is in the 12th). I can see why you guys were drawn together and it might be a good relationship for a while, but imho I don’t see this as forever. The composite chart is meant to represent how the couple may end up being viewed by others, and how they might eventually come to feel about one another/act as a couple. It’s based on the natal charts, which form the syanstry chart, so, just my opinion, but if the synastry is unfavorable I don’t know how a couple would even get to the composite aspect. To me, it’s hypothetical and doesn’t hold much weight, but for others I know it does. just how i see it :-)

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Thanks for your reply. I do appreciate any insight even if it isn't what I would want to hear. I have an extremely independent chart and nature - I know that I have a constant inner struggle between wanting my independence and being close with someone. I can't stand a clingy man but I go nuts when I can't pin someone down. It's definitely something I have been dealing with for as long as I can remember!

Yes, the 12th house stuff does worry me. But I hope that perhaps my Mercury can activate his Moon (both in Aqua) to make him feel comfortable about opening up to me more. We had a brief conversation today about something very personal to him and he went into it and then changed the subject. I know he has had a lot of loss in his life (mother and sister) so he carries that around.

He does something to me where I can actually picture a future and children with him. I am not the kind of woman that dreams of babies, it really has to be because I can picture a life with someone. My last serious relationship was 3 years ago and we dated for 3 years. He was a Cancer Sun with a Capricorn Moon and Scorpio Moon.. talk about secretive.. that was like pulling teeth. I think I am just attracted to a more elusive kind of man (no matter how different they are, because these two are quite different when it comes to outward personality).

posted June 13, 2013 09:21 AM            

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Originally posted by starmoon:
I took a look at everything again after reading your entry. you might want to research this more (or hope for more responses here) but I did see that his Uranus sign falls into your 9th house in synastry, and that Uranus appears again in the 9th house composite. that would definitely explain your interest in going abroad to be with him. 9th house placements generally inspire travel/love with a foreigner/interest in other cultures/etc. so it's something that is indicated in the synastry and composite

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Now that you mention it I see it too. I am going to look into that. Do you think that could change the entire dynamic of the composite chart? We actually talked about it last night and I was really happy that he was open minded enough to listen to my astrology stuff and why I think it's an interesting tool to understand yourself, others and how you affect each other.