posted June 15, 2013 04:05 AM            

Anyways, theres this guy D, had the biggest crush on him for 2 years but never spoke to him recently. Asked him to prom he said he had other plans but when I got to prom he was with his bestfriend and her date the whole time. Didn't think much of it because 1. He's really really shy and 2. He doesn't dance much so it wasn't a big deal. So we text alot for days at a time and we hang out and then things stop. No texts or just really dry conversation. He asks to hang out one weekend and I agree and although he had a whole week to cancel he waits till the day of and right when it's near our meetup time to cancel saying he's busy and stuff came up etc. So we reschedule that day for yesterday - a whole week in advance. Between that period and yesterday I still barely got any text or he'd just not reply. So yesterday comes I'm already ready, out the door, drive all the way there to the area we planned on meeting and he calls me 30mins before meeting time with the same "my schedule just got really busy can we reschedule?". Then just recently ( I just woke up at like 2 a.m. lol) I look at his page and see that his friend posted something about being the cutest overprotective befriend ever because he's her baby and it was literally in the same time frame he called and they're both each others backgrounds - even though she's taken. (I probably sound like a creeper now).

Anyways I'm starting to feel really suspicious/dumb because I think I just walked into a repeat scenario that I previously went through with my ex (his "best friend" being just a friend even though I had a gut feeling about their real feelings and after feeling like I was the delusional one the whole relationship, It turned out that I was right and that she was in fact in love with him and he had feelings for her too). Now I feel the SAME EXACT THING over again and I'm starting to wonder if I'm just letting the past taint my thoughts or if I'm right and I need to steer extra clear before I end up in deja vu.

If you need initials I'm K, he's D, and she's S.

posted June 15, 2013 05:19 AM            

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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
I did a Lenormand reading and I do see another woman (an ex, or just another woman) being a negative influence on him. I believe this woman has been, or was in his life for a very long time. There are some problems with their relationship, and I don't think you should give this guy the time or day. I did a 2 month reading for you (Forecast) & see the same issues cropping up over & over again. It looks like a lot of worry regarding this 'long term' relationship with an ex, or a woman from his past. He's just confused and she's still in his life, in a very negative way. Things between you two will be very unstable, and it will just add stress to you.

Simply by reading your post, I can feel that he will continue doing this. He did it to you twice, all the red flags are there . Please pay attention, and don't allow him to continue treating you this way. You deserve much better. Hope this helps! Best of luck.

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Thank you so much for this reading

Glad I know now rather than later and I will definitely not even be bothered with him or her "coincidental" acts. They've known each other for a long long time and from what I gather from the various people who've mentioned her, she's never really been called nice or friendly.

Well I'm going to college this fall anyways, you live, you learn.

Thanks again

posted June 15, 2013 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
**** that loser.

Do u have venus square pluto as a natal aspect?

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Already moved on lol

& No but ironically enough I have transiting pluto square my natal venus and transiting pluto conjunct my DESC (from the 6th house currently) and both aspects are a little over 5 degrees lol

Nataly I have pluto in 5th (ruled by scorpio) and venus in 4th (ruled by libra) so they don't make an aspect. The only aspects pluto makes in my chart is sun sextile pluto, moon trine pluto, and MC trine pluto.

posted June 15, 2013 10:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Love&Light:
Chiemi, you already got your reply. Nevertheless, i feel like chiming in just to say that an interested guy wouldn't let his girlfriend wait around for him specially twice and that too when he could have called you up the second time and told you about it well in time. A sensible guy doesn't wait for his girlfriend to get dressed, leave the house, reach a far off place and wait for him and then tell her he is not coming unless it is an emergency. So.....you can guess his worth for you.

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Thank you Love&Light

Thankfully we didn't get to the girlfriend/boyfriend stage and I'm glad we didn't lol. I'm not even going to bother texting him and I'll probably delete his number too. I'm not too hurt about it though, I still have a lot to learn and experience in relationships and I'll be starting a new chapter of my life as a college freshman soon so no harm no foul.