posted June 21, 2013 10:55 PM            

okay so my questions are

1) Why is he playing mind games with me?

2) Who is he? Is he hiding his identity?

3) Is he a bad person

4) How do I feel about him?

5) Should I stay away from this situation?

posted June 23, 2013 07:08 AM            

Do you want to give me your names and hair colour and maybe your location as well? I could give a try, just a general spread about this situation... Also let me know of you want me to use rider waite or deviant moon, the latter being a bit more subversive and hidden motifs centered

posted June 23, 2013 11:52 AM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Heya

Do you want to give me your names and hair colour and maybe your location as well? I could give a try, just a general spread about this situation... Also let me know of you want me to use rider waite or deviant moon, the latter being a bit more subversive and hidden motifs centered

My best
L

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I use something closer to Rider Waite so I'm use to it more.

well my name is "J" and I think his first name is "H"

my hair is dark brown and his is as well

me: us him: united states as well

posted June 23, 2013 02:06 PM            

I have done a CC

4 pents crossed by the moon
King of swords above
2 swords below knight of wands on the left
Queen of pents on the right
2 cups - queen of cups - the hierophant - page of swords

Clarification cards: king of cups, page of wands

The Q was: is there a hidden side to H as far as whatever is going on between him and J is concerned?

Ok so i am getting insecurity on your part. You wish to hold onto whatever good things he represents for you, while being driven into madness by fear. You wish to have your integrity back, in doing so you might be misreading the information you receive. Yes your heart is ready to leap towards him, he comes across as quite dazzling but a bit too cool/independent. Do you fantasise about him committing? Also is there a friend wishing you well who might be overly concerned about your hearts adventures? I dare say you will feel reassured soonish.

As for him, I believe he comes across as not very much in touch with his emotional side. I often get this page of swords for boyish boys who just don't understand their souls. At his best he should be able to take stock of these tendencies (king of swords).

Funnily enough I drew the king of cups + page of wands for what he's like on the inside. I think he just looks for emotional thrills. Quite a mess in fact, he over simplifies his emotions when he rationalises about them. But he's also yearning for this intense side of him, and he's nowhere near good at that. I'm getting this "boys can't be men vibe". He is not probably playing games he just doesn't understand what's going on with him.

Is this the one with a Pisces moon? Do you remember that thread about them locking themselves up to the irrational side and trying really hard to be down to earth and materialistic? Sounds like this to me. With all these court cards co existing inside him it might be bordering on schizophrenia, metaphorically speaking, his soul might be feeling schizophrenic. Probably needs melting and tenderness. But I can't see any ulterior self or bad intentions. The way he treats you most prob stems from him not being in touch with his soul and his emotional needs.

I took the liberty of pulling 3 from my deviant moon as well and got 7 swords - the fool - the devil

So: selfish-thoughtless-might fall into destructive patterns. The fool literally runs towards the devil while looking the other way, basically he will end up needing help if he goes on like this. No clue if anyone can help him or support him enough.

7 swords in this deck represents a clown trying to swallow a sword but risking to accidentally murder himself. Greed for emotional gratification is guiding him, he is not ready to invest emotionally in others. But somehow I keep hoping he may evolve over time.

posted June 23, 2013 02:17 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Ok let's go

I have done a CC

4 pents crossed by the moon
King of swords above
2 swords below knight of wands on the left
Queen of pents on the right
2 cups - queen of cups - the hierophant - page of swords

Clarification cards: king of cups, page of wands

The Q was: is there a hidden side to H as far as whatever is going on between him and J is concerned?

Ok so i am getting insecurity on your part. You wish to hold onto whatever good things he represents for you, while being driven into madness by fear. You wish to have your integrity back, in doing so you might be misreading the information you receive. Yes your heart is ready to leap towards him, he comes across as quite dazzling but a bit too cool/independent. Do you fantasise about him committing? Also is there a friend wishing you well who might be overly concerned about your hearts adventures? I dare say you will feel reassured soonish.

As for him, I believe he comes across as not very much in touch with his emotional side. I often get this page of swords for boyish boys who just don't understand their souls. At his best he should be able to take stock of these tendencies (king of swords).

Funnily enough I drew the king of cups + page of wands for what he's like on the inside. I think he just looks for emotional thrills. Quite a mess in fact, he over simplifies his emotions when he rationalises about them. But he's also yearning for this intense side of him, and he's nowhere near good at that. I'm getting this "boys can't be men vibe". He is not probably playing games he just doesn't understand what's going on with him.

Is this the one with a Pisces moon? Do you remember that thread about them locking themselves up to the irrational side and trying really hard to be down to earth and materialistic? Sounds like this to me. With all these court cards co existing inside him it might be bordering on schizophrenia, metaphorically speaking, his soul might be feeling schizophrenic. Probably needs melting and tenderness. But I can't see any ulterior self or bad intentions. The way he treats you most prob stems from him not being in touch with his soul and his emotional needs.

I took the liberty of pulling 3 from my deviant moon as well and got 7 swords - the fool - the devil

So: selfish-thoughtless-might fall into destructive patterns. The fool literally runs towards the devil while looking the other way, basically he will end up needing help if he goes on like this. No clue if anyone can help him or support him enough.

7 swords in this deck represents a clown trying to swallow a sword but risking to accidentally murder himself. Greed for emotional gratification is guiding him, he is not ready to invest emotionally in others. But somehow I keep hoping he may evolve over time.

Please let me know what you think?

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Interesting. I like it! No we are only friends and I already have a boyfriend. He has a Leo Moon but a stellium in the 12th house w/ Moon sq Pluto

posted June 23, 2013 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Oh then I'm having a problem interpreting the hierophant. Are you concerned about him being a non-conformist of some sort? Do you want me to ask another question? Such as if you should get involved? I'm not really engaged tonight so could do

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that;s good. yeah i am. *shrug* kind of.

posted June 23, 2013 03:56 PM            

The sun - the wheel - queen of swords - page of pents - 3 pents

He feels good around you
Just this notion of all consuming chaos has been getting the better of him lately
Whatever it is you're vexed and resentful on his account, concerned too perhaps
He might recover from whatever has been gnawing at him, starting to build things little by little. I used deviant moon again and this page is holding a wrench,a symbol of construction not chaos as in the wheel in which the character is literally terrified of what the spin of the wheel will bring him
3 pents is a clear indication that you have a lot to give each other and ways of transforming each other. So overall yes, you should try to be friends. Also this layout actually says that your friendship might be the bridge from the wheel to the page of pents

the spread is like this
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452
_3_

posted June 23, 2013 04:13 PM            

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Originally posted by andstuff:
Ok a 5 card wheel it was

The sun - the wheel - queen of swords - page of pents - 3 pents

He feels good around you
Just this notion of all consuming chaos has been getting the better of him lately
Whatever it is you're vexed and resentful on his account, concerned too perhaps
He might recover from whatever has been gnawing at him, starting to build things little by little. I used deviant moon again and this page is holding a wrench,a symbol of construction not chaos as in the wheel in which the character is literally terrified of what the spin of the wheel will bring him
3 pents is a clear indication that you have a lot to give each other and ways of transforming each other. So overall yes, you should try to be friends. Also this layout actually says that your friendship might be the bridge from the wheel to the page of pents

the spread is like this
_1_
452
_3_

If you want a pic of it I'll only be able to post it tomorrow, only have Internet on my phone at present

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wow! sure! thanks!

posted June 24, 2013 09:01 AM            

Here are the cards. IF you don't understand something, feel free to ask