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Twitterbird05
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posted June 25, 2013 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

How would you interpret this synastry? Would it indicate one sided attraction? Male's birth time is a guess.

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Lunae
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posted June 26, 2013 06:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From what I see, there is attraction but it seems that you are the one who feels it more. Though you might appear always amicable and friendly to others, you have a detached side when it comes to romance. But with this guy, he may have activated your 'caring side', that you are willing to go an extra mile for this guy, which I think you don't usually do. You feel that you both 'click'. You may have similar interests and can go about talking to each other non-stop, which might be one of the reasons why you were drawn to him. There might also be a fair amount of physical attraction as both your personal planets aspect Pluto. However, I think you are having a hard time figuring out how your guy really feels about this whole situation and this may lead to you overthink about it.

Just go with the flow and let things unfold as they will. I think you both enjoy each other's company so don't overthink about it.

Does that resonate to you?

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Doux Rêve
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posted June 26, 2013 06:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There seems to be an emphasis on Mercury there, which can point to a friendship and good communication but his Venus and Mars aren't very aspected, which, I'm afraid, isn't good news.
It could mean that his romantic and sexual drives aren't "ignited" by your planets.

But basic compatibility is definitely there - Sun/Sun sextile and Sun/Moon trine, very good.
Mercury in aspect to Venus and Mars surely creates a liking of each other.

His Mars in your 8th creates a sexual attraction, especially for you, but I'm not sure he can feel it.

His Saturn square your Mars - now this one actually can create lots of sexual tension between people, but also dislike.
Saturn person can see Mars person as childish or immature, and at the same time be attracted to them.

So it's hard to tell if it's one sided or not, but I think there's potential for at least being good friends, definitely.

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Doux Rêve
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posted June 26, 2013 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lunae!!
We were typing at the same time, how cool is that, almost astro-twin?

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posted June 26, 2013 11:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lunae, that is very spot on. I definitely am a bit detached when it comes to romance. I also have always felt that we "click" really well.

Doux, this is what I feared about him not feeling the attraction, but I thought that the tight Pluto aspects might indicate interest or obsession on his part.

I told him how I feel last week and he said he wants to keep things as a friendship. I wasn't sure if it was because he doesn't feel the attraction or because he isn't ready for a relationship. I feel like he is always checking me out/noticing me but I had Ceridwen do a relationship spread for me and the Heirophant came up for how he sees the relationship. She suggested that sometimes that means a platonic relationship, so I started to question the attraction on his side.

I guess it's all a moot point, since he doesn't want to date me. I don't see him very often (a few times a year) and it would be nice to think that something could still happen in the future. It would really suck if he felt no attraction, considering that I feel it strongly.

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posted June 27, 2013 03:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lunae     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Lunae!!
We were typing at the same time, how cool is that, almost astro-twin?

Hahahaha yeah, ikr? great minds think alike!

@twitterbird, don' think too much about it. You'll never know, in the middle of all those laughs and jokes, he'll fall. But then, don't expect anything to avoid heartaches. Go with the floww

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Doux Rêve
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posted June 27, 2013 07:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lunae - exactly


((( twitterbird ))) Sorry hun.

Don't get stuck on him.

Try to open yourself up to other possiblities and people.

Good luck!

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posted August 02, 2013 02:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting


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posted September 07, 2013 04:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Twitterbird05


This is how your colorvision Synastry Aspecting Chart might look. Only the major aspects are shown. 5 deg. orbs.


Planet and color code, in both directions:

S = ego energy
MR = raw energy
P = passionate energy
Asc = showmanship energy

Yellow boxes = high priority position for favorable major aspects.

Green column and row = emotions

Black column and row = North Node = groups of people that you know and do not know.

Gray column and row = communication channels

Black Aspects Not In NN columns = strong influences that could lead to physical fighting and separation.

Inner Box (VE on VE to JP on JP) = the core of the unit, favorable aspects in this area are very good indicators of success.


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What Draws You Together?

S 120 M - This is a mild natural attraction, suitable for any kind of union.

P 0 VE - This is a Wo-Nelly attraction, full of passion. It does have the potential for jealousy and passiveness but favorable aspect could reduce the mishaps.



What Is Holding You Together?

S 120 M - a natural ability to blend

S 119 Asc - a natural ability to be friends

M 0 MY - a natural ability to relate to each other and as a unit, to relate to others.

MY 2VE - you tune in to the sound of the voice. A natural ability to relate to each other and as a unit, to relate to others

VE 5 MY - you tune in to the sound of the voice. A natural ability to relate to each other and as a unit, to relate to others


What Are Your Problems?

Void MR row - a sense of not feeling whole.

JP 91 S - a potential to be wasteful with resources. you have a dissatisfaction on the direction of the union. Capable of having fun together.

JP 90 Asc - spiritual mismatch

SA 90 MR - other people and circumstances get in the way of progress.

UR 5 S - this is a "now what!" kind of influence. Think of it as a flash in the pan experience. Here today and gone today.

UR 86 JP - the tendency is to think, the heck with the union, I gotta be me.

UR 176 Asc - this influence suggest that you could divorce. But, not necessarily, think out of the box, allow for individuality in your thinking processes and lean towards the unorthodox solutions. And you may set a new type of superglue to the union. This is supported by UR 86 JP.



What Might Happen If You Stay Together?

SA 90 MR - other people and circumstances get in the way of progress. This sets into motion quite frustrations within you both, until it finally spills out into the open, where then, other problems are forced to the surface.

JP 91 S - you have a dissatisfaction on the direction of the union. There is a difference of opinion on the options of how to grow and expand your horizons.

JP 90 Asc - JP wants to find fault with something or somebody, so it is the Asc who is within ear shot. But, JP is in for a rude awakening if Asc decides to dig in and fire back. Homey don't play dat!

UR 5 S - Expect the unexpected and learn to roll with it, as long as it is legal, it'll probably be gone in a day or two. It might help to set some ground rules.


North Node: both directions

NN represents small groups of people, from family members and friends, work associates + boss, the social environments you frequent, teams and clubs you are part of and, all of your neighbors.

The aspects to the NN, represent your natal planets action towards the NN, and the NN's potential response toward the Synastry unit from the actions.


MC of just the SD (Subject Date Person):

If the SD is active in public commerce as a business person or the Synastry unit wants to do business activities, then the aspects made to the MC suggest how the second person might help the SD and what the quality of that support might be like. If the SD is not an active business person or unit, then the MC is of little importance.

If the second person wants to do business activities, the MC for the second person is not taken into account on this chart. However, if there are aspects that pertain to the SD's MC, then it is safe to say that the SD may have valuable input, if the aspects imply it.


Bottom Line:

You are drawn to each other, this is supported by S 120 M and P 0 VE influences.
But, the underlying problem to this union is that you seem unable to get things to happen they way you would like. Blocking situations outside your control just pop up from time to time. This is supported by UR 5 S and SA 90 MR.

The void MR row suggest, that there is not enough energy within the unit to address raw energy issues. But, S 60 MR, P 0 VE and, P 120 MR can work as suitable workarounds.

This union, also, shows a strong lean towards individual freedoms and a tendency to think on different plans. This is supported by JP 91 S, JP 92 Sa, JP 90 Asc, UR 86 JP and, UR 176 Asc. If, within the union, you are willing to agree to disagree, then the bond may solidify from the wonderful communication influences found with: S 60 S, S 60 SA, S 119 Asc, MY 2 VE, VE 5 MY, VE 56 JP, JP 61 M, JP 0 JP and, P 120 MR.


This is a statistical report, the Synastry Aspect analysis does not suggest the results to be an absolute given.

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posted September 07, 2013 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know from personal experience that....
being the venus in the pluto-venus synastry that I was more lovey dovey in the end. That is not who I was in the beginning.

Also I had my sun in his 11th house.....generally they sense a connection but the confusion lifts ....after a lot of emotional drama and he sees you as a nice friend. : /

Sorry, but better early than knowing late.

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posted September 07, 2013 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know from personal experience that....
being the venus in the pluto-venus synastry that I was more lovey dovey in the end. That is not who I was in the beginning.

Also I had my sun in his 11th house.....generally they sense a connection but the confusion lifts ....after a lot of emotional drama and he sees you as a nice friend. : /

Sorry, but better early than knowing late.

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posted September 07, 2013 07:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know from personal experience that....
being the venus in the pluto-venus synastry that I was more lovey dovey in the end. That is not who I was in the beginning.

Also I had my sun in his 11th house.....generally they sense a connection but the confusion lifts ....after a lot of emotional drama and he sees you as a nice friend. : /

Sorry, but better early than knowing late.

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Dreaming111
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posted September 07, 2013 07:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know from personal experience that....
being the venus in the pluto-venus synastry that I was more lovey dovey in the end. That is not who I was in the beginning.

Also I had my sun in his 11th house.....generally they sense a connection but the confusion lifts ....after a lot of emotional drama and he sees you as a nice friend. : /

Sorry, but better early than knowing late.

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