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Topic: Enemies at work, bullies and people talking behind my back
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moonpie
Knowflake Posts: 188
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Registered: Oct 2011
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posted June 28, 2013 10:00 PM
  
Im not feeling great. Im feeling so hurt angry and betrayed from someone at work. I trusted her, I confided in her. She twisted my words and spoke to other co-workers that Ive been talking about them behind their back when it was actually her and not in the same context. I confronted her, she twisted everything again, saying sorry it was all a misunderstanding. I hate her so much. I feel so hurt. Will things get better?[IMG]http://i1099.photobucket.com/albums/g389/jamiel234/astro_24gw_01_555555_2 013628698229917.gif[/IMG] IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
Moderator Posts: 3994
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted June 29, 2013 07:55 AM
((( moonpie )))  Maybe it was tVenus in your 12th (hidden female enemies) opposite your natal Saturn in the 6th (work). Don't feel too concerned about it..
Some people just get a kick out of creating troubles. Keep your head up and don't let them get you down! That Moon of yours is in your 1st house - you're very sensitive, especially when it comes to close relationships (Moon opposite Sun and Mercury in the 7th) and co-workers (Moon quincunx Saturn in the 6th). It's okay to be hurt but keep in mind that you're not the one in fault here.
So you have no reason to feel bad. Stay true to yourself.  IP: Logged |
britterfly
Knowflake Posts: 661
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted June 29, 2013 10:59 AM
Do not get upset. Keep your cool. Keep your head. Just be honest! If someone gets upset about what she is saying, do not get upset along with them. Just calmly explain what happened, but DO NOT resort to trash talking yourself. That will only add fuel to the fire. Let honesty be your guide post. IP: Logged |
britterfly
Knowflake Posts: 661
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Registered: Jul 2010
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posted June 29, 2013 11:02 AM
Also, keep in mind, she's not doing this because of you. She is doing this because of herself. It is just about guaranteed she just goes through life pulling crap like this. Just you wait and see, she will be pulling the rug out from under other people at work soon enough and her intentions will be known to everyone. Be at ease, sister.IP: Logged |
Randall
Webmaster Posts: 29344
From: Saturn next to Charmainec
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 29, 2013 12:10 PM
It is a chance to learn to value yourself and not let others' opinions of you sway your own. Be strong. It will pass. The truth will reveal itself in time.IP: Logged |
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