posted July 01, 2013 06:34 AM            

I rephrased the question for you. Asking: “What are the chances of this couple to reconcile?”
Unfortunately I do not see this happening. I received the 4 of swords and the Chariot for you, which showed me the relationship has been put to rest for quite some time and you both moved on into very different life directions. Therefore I do not see a coming together. I’m sorry.

Can I ask who broke up with who? Was it him or you? And was there something about ‘feeling guilty’? Is that you? I’m not sure about this one. Just a question to see how I can look at it.

I also looked at why you have difficulties letting go of this man. It seems like change and letting go of situations in general, is very hard for you. Is that correct? So there is some sort of ‘disbelieve’ that he is really out of your life for good. Possibly because you thought this was fated/the one for you. As a side note: It also seems 'convenient' in a way, because you then don't have to think of your own goals in life and take those actions.

I also have the feeling that the main problem is to be found in the thought patterns you are having in regards to this situation with this man. Sounding something like this: “if I will hang in there and just keep believing in it, things will eventually turn out the way I want them to be. This is destiny and it would just be fair if he came back to me, thus he will”. This is however not the case and it’s blocking you to really move forward and make room for a new lover and life you actually wish for yourself.
Now for what you can do to let this go for good: I think you already have great chances to create the life you foresee for yourself and you seem to be rather much in touch with yourself (so I’m doubting I’m telling you something new here), but you still need to decide what ‘shape’ you would like you life to be in. Recognise the (natural) talents you have and what is here already (be grateful for that). Are you very caring towards others for example? Do believe you will have that family house & home (I’m getting that is one of your wishes? Is that correct?)
Focussing on those aspects (including recognising the talents you have/what you are worth) and using them, will help you to really let go of this man and builds towards you own future. I’m under the impression you are a caring individual. Is that correct?

This you also need to verify: If yes. Can you tune in that aspect more outwardly? Putting that more into the world? Perhaps through extra education (nursing/something to with healing/child care for example). It wouldn’t feel as a loss so much anymore and you would really move forward and connect you to the excitement felt of new life paths (with room for new partners).
To sum it up: spend more time caring for your own world, surroundings & what is there. The effort you will put in it, will pay of.

I did this reading from my new deck, so please let me know how well it resonates with you.

posted July 02, 2013 05:02 AM            

Thanks ever so much for the great feedback!

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Something like that. Except I'm not going to "hang in there" and wait it out... I'm going to pursue this man. Especially after finding out that he was asking about me earlier this year. He's now living again in my city. unfortunately I'm not there. but when i get back soon,I'm going to seek him. I cannot let it go without giving "us" a real shot. The thought of me not doing anything about this, and having to wonder "what if?" Or "what would it had been like?", makes me mental.

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This: We weren't in a relationship you can still read the same. Because I assumed you had been together and you can still read it as ‘relations’/ ‘connections’, etc. It’s still about you two and what you shared.

For your home: Yes. You can take this anyway you like (so not necessarily the 2.1 kids/family), but what is 'a home and place of safety' for you. If your wish is you and your future partner living together, with a couple of pets: yes. The empathises in this card is what is a home for you. So something with a stable and enduring factor that suits you personally. But the enduring factor should be in there. If that makes sense for you.

Last but not least. This: Do You mean like humanitarian work? I have planned to work with animals. I desperately want to help animals. I also want to help with people in need.food/clothes. Though I'm already doing the latter, I want to take it up a notch.
Would fit perfectly! Especially the animals would do you great. I’m feeling it would even fit you better than just the people in need. Take it up a notch, yes. Perhaps you can also get some (extra) diploma/qualifications on this/or a learning experience in regards to animals. I have the feeling it will make you very satisfied.

posted July 02, 2013 11:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Twirl:
@jess: next time I'm offering I'll put you on the list, okay?

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