posted July 09, 2013 12:33 PM            

I asked a relationship question about an ex.
Do these cards indicate I'm being too defensive?

posted July 10, 2013 12:07 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:

The Emperor
Two Of Swords
Four Of Pentacles

What will happen between him and I?

I have difficulty trusting him.

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So for me the middle card is always the anchor, with the influence fading away on the left and the one coming more into prominence on the right. So it seems like there was a/o is a real dedication to the rules. Like, things have to be this way. A real sort of ultimatum type relationship. Someone had the power and used it over the other. The 2 of Swords shows stress and pain, the inability to make a decision, but here, I think the decision is one that doesn't WANT to be made. The 4 of Pentacles is about clinging to security and the familiar.

posted July 10, 2013 02:40 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
So for me the middle card is always the anchor, with the influence fading away on the left and the one coming more into prominence on the right. So it seems like there was a/o is a real dedication to the rules. Like, things have to be this way. A real sort of ultimatum type relationship. Someone had the power and used it over the other. The 2 of Swords shows stress and pain, the inability to make a decision, but here, I think the decision is one that doesn't WANT to be made. The 4 of Pentacles is about clinging to security and the familiar.

Seems to me that your trust issues are the sign you should move on, because you'll only hold tighter and tighter in the coming months, and he'll only squirm more and more to avoid it. Sorry

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posted July 10, 2013 02:41 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
So for me the middle card is always the anchor, with the influence fading away on the left and the one coming more into prominence on the right. So it seems like there was a/o is a real dedication to the rules. Like, things have to be this way. A real sort of ultimatum type relationship. Someone had the power and used it over the other. The 2 of Swords shows stress and pain, the inability to make a decision, but here, I think the decision is one that doesn't WANT to be made. The 4 of Pentacles is about clinging to security and the familiar.

Seems to me that your trust issues are the sign you should move on, because you'll only hold tighter and tighter in the coming months, and he'll only squirm more and more to avoid it. Sorry

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posted July 10, 2013 03:02 AM            

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Originally posted by beccathelion:
Oh, I know. But sometimes, the answers aren't even worth it, and if he was being drama, you need to kick him hard like whoa. If you want, tomorrow I can do a reading for you? On steps to take or whatever you'd like?

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I know,all the signs were there.But I have been holding on.He's the only guy I've ever had feelings for,and I'm in my mid 20's already.

posted July 10, 2013 03:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I know,all the signs were there.But I have been holding on.He's the only guy I've ever had feelings for,and I'm in my mid 20's already.

Thanks for helping me and offering to give me a reading,but I don't have anymore questions.

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