posted July 12, 2013 05:07 PM            

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Originally posted by ccpisces37:
Hello i'm new here but I was wondering if anyone could do a quick tarot/interpretation telling me about the man i'll marry or future romances. I've been stuck in a little bit of a rut and any help would be appreciated! thank you

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hi ccpisces! i can do a reading for you when i get home, but i'm not all that comfortable with doing a "future" reading, given that the future changes so much based on the day to day, and if we were supposed to know it, i think in some ways, we already would. however, i am super happy to read about your love life in general and ways that you can help bolster that up?

posted July 16, 2013 01:30 PM            

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Originally posted by ccpisces37:
Yes thank you very much! There's three men interested right now and I was wondering if anything might come out of any of them. I'd just like an outside view. I'll use their sun signs, there's the Aries who keeps coming back into my life as a friend, the Scorpio that I don't really know what to think of, and a Virgo who seems like a nice guy. If you need any more info let me know!

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Hey! Sorry, I got really sidetracked with my job hunt and life. Didn't mean to let this get away from me. I asked about for an outside overview of your love life, and I think what came through is very much a blueprint for you... in order to get you to where you can make a decision.

Current Situation: 10 of Wands (r)
Compliment/conflicting factor: Queen of Pentacles
Root Cause: King of Swords

Relevant past: 5 of Pentacles (r)
How you feel about situation: Knight of Wands
Immediate present: Temperance

How you feel about yourself: 3 of Swords
Environment: Queen of Wands
Advice: 5 of Cups (r)
Outcome: 9 of Swords (clarifier: 7 of Wands)

I definitely get the sense that you are more frustrated with your current situation then you are letting on, but only because I think you are someone who prefers to have love situations in the black and white. You're either with me or not. We're on or we're not. I also get the sense, fairly profoundly, that a lot of this indecision is coming from an old heartache (that might not be too, too old, but like a year?) The 10 reversed tells me you feel like you still have a mountain to climb, but the Queen suggests you are trying to be positive and secure with yourself and others. You are doing what you can to keep yourself safe, but also still appear as doting and desirable. For me, this Queen is the providential earth mother, and the most desirable of all. A very balanced woman. You are trying to display this, though I think you are a bit more tumultuous on the inside. All of this, because of the King of Swords. This is almost always a man, and this is almost always an Air sign. At his best, he can be extremely in control and rational. At his worst, he is controlling, emotionless, and cruel. I feel like this person hurt you, or played a strong role in your emotional development... and this is having an effect on you now more than ever, given your choices. (Father figure maybe?)

The 5 reversed in the past just keeps adding to this for me. An extreme feeling of being left out in the cold, of having to beg, borrow, or steal to get what you need. However, you feel like you are finally getting your mojo back: the Knight of Wands. His swagger is immaculate, and his sense of confidence is high. He rides straight into the battle looking for glory and adventure without so much as a second thought. You feel this way now I think; I get a very "caution be damned" feeling. However, the immediate present is Temperance, which I think is helping keep your restrained and balanced. Again, I get this sense of "appearing strong," which isn't to say you aren't strong. Rather, I feel like there's a pressure on you to look your best, to seem like a better match. Temperance is about inner and outer balance, which I think you are working on, and I commend you for it.

How you feel about yourself, though, is the 3 of Hearts... which again, lets me think a lot of this indecision is built on old hurt. Lots of sadness and frustration. Angst. Which is a shame, because the environment is ripe for you to be the Queen of Wands. I get her a lot in reference to myself, so believe me when I say EMBRACE YOUR INNER BEAUTY AND TELL ANGST TO BE DAMNED. I got her a lot when I was going through the excavation of some deeply buried pain and anger... and it took awhile, but I broke through it, and it was worth it. I see you are a Pisces, but do you have a lot of fire in your chart? She's a feisty one, this Queen (I have 4 Leo placements and 2 Sag in my chart...) and she is great fun, but her cross to bear is she feels everything deeply, as a result of great passion. I think given your Pisces handle, you understand this all too well. Just keep going. Heal yourself. That's going to be the theme here for your relationships: heal yourself.

The advice is 5 of Cups reversed. To me this says DO NOT jump into a relationship with any of these men just yet. It would be detrimental to your growth and healing. The outcome as the 9 says it is going to be hard, but you are a fighter (the 7) and you can get it done. Again, this spread just feels like a blueprint on how to get yourself up to the level you want to be at, in order to find real, lasting love, that doesn't manipulate, take, or abuse. I feel like this is the Universe asking to love yourself a lot more first, before you go throwing your lot in with someone else. I feel like there is someone around the bend who has been planned for you. Someone you will meet rather accidentally... very "oops I spilled my coffee on you" way, but you can't get to him if you aren't ready. I really think the Universe wants to prime you, for you to prime yourself. In fact, the song that came on when I started typing this section is "Something Good Can Work" by Two Door Cinema Club, and I cannot think of a more appropriate message for you than that.

Sorry it isn't more on the guys, but I just ask, and the cards just tell. Hope ANY of this rings true. If it doesn't, I'm really sorry for wasting your time, and I hope somebody can give you a more true-to-life reading. I just can't tell you enough how I feel you are RIGHT THERE, on the edge, of something amazing... you just have to get to "fighting" weight, so to speak.

Lots of love.

posted July 16, 2013 04:24 PM            

I too feel that i'm on the edge of something, and it's funny because i've been trying to do a lot of evaluating and soul searching lately on my own. Especially because i've had a rough past few years with my personal life and family. That's why I figured it'd be good to hear outside insight.

My past relationship which ended at the end of March, was completely in the gray area where I put up with things I normally wouldn't (he was a Cap). so i'm trying to not make the same mistakes I made with that relationship and my two year relationship I ended last March with a Libra. So perhaps thats the air sign you picked up. He was a nice guy just a bit boring for me.

You definitely picked up on my inner battle though trying to stay balanced but also bring myself and confidence back. I'm a pisces my moons in Sag, so that's the fire but I actually have quite a bit of Air Aquarius influence in my chart.