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Topic: Why do I always get the irking feeling that I will NEVER marry ?
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SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 359
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 18, 2013 08:08 AM
  
Before getting into astrology, I always had this irking feeling that I will never marry/ or find the ONE. I always feel that I will remain single most of my life which is something I'm kinda sure of.I don't know why, call it woman intuition but the feeling never goes away ! It's always there in my heart, in the back of my mind. I honestly believe that love and marriage are not meant to happen for me in this lifetime. I'm like the unluckiest person in earth when it comes to love !! Now looking back at my birth chart, all the pieces fall into place. I have : **Moon Square Uranus = singlehood Aspect ( commitment phobia  )
** Moon Square Neptune = Negative image of marriage passed through my Mom.
**Pisces on the cusp of the 7th House = Another common singlehood placement.
**Venus Conjunct Sun (combust) = Divorce Aspect
** Saturn ruling 5th House
**Neptune ruling 7th House = Haziness/confusion/withdrawal when it come to love/romance.
**All planets below the horizon = the Lone Wolf placement.
**Stellium around the IC = Too private of a person to open up.
** Virgo ASC = Too picky, too shy when it comes to love.
** All personal planets in Sagittarius = Super independent individual ( no need for partners to tie the native down)
** Heavy emphasis on 3rd House = Too much of an intellectual/cerebral to fall in love.
** Fire and air dominated + heavy presence of mutable energy = Not marriage/relationship material, more of an individualist.  So there you have it !! Honestly, I'm not angry or sad or any of that sort. I kinda of always knew it so there no feeling of disappointment or whatever from my part. though I always had this dream of adopting a child and showering him/her with affection/care. I think I could be a good mother  IP: Logged |
starmoon
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 18, 2013 11:50 AM
I think it's all your sag coupled with the moon square Uranus that would do it. I have no sag but moon opposite Uranus and knew from childhood that I would never be a wife/mother. people used to say 'you're too young to know' but now they realize I knew all along (i'm 38 now and probably said i'll never marry about age 10). my chart has an overwhelming amount of libra, so i do like having a steady boyfriend, but i don't desire marriage. i have a ton of saturn as well, which is well-aspected, so i heed saturn a lot. you have a lot of different things you might attribute it to I would bet it's foremost the moon square aspect which makes merging your life with another seem just ... unappealing because it'll take away that independence. i feel similarIP: Logged |
bethbabe
Knowflake Posts: 45
From: CA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted July 18, 2013 12:54 PM
hello my dear,I am also a moon square uranus; however, i do like the concept of marriage though i have been more attracted to the ideal of a partnership lately. I think a lot of that has to do with my mother's two divorces. Are you a generally picky person when it comes to selecting a mate? IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 359
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 18, 2013 02:34 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
I think it's all your sag coupled with the moon square Uranus that would do it. I have no sag but moon opposite Uranus and knew from childhood that I would never be a wife/mother. people used to say 'you're too young to know' but now they realize I knew all along (i'm 38 now and probably said i'll never marry about age 10). my chart has an overwhelming amount of libra, so i do like having a steady boyfriend, but i don't desire marriage. i have a ton of saturn as well, which is well-aspected, so i heed saturn a lot. you have a lot of different things you might attribute it to I would bet it's foremost the moon square aspect which makes merging your life with another seem just ... unappealing because it'll take away that independence. i feel similar
My Saturn is well-aspected as well so there you have it Saturn-Moon-Uranus-Neptune plus a the grand Stellium in Sagittarius.
Lucky you ! You are able to have a steady partner ! I can't even find a man who can get me let alone date !!
Merging my life with another IS unappealing and HARD to imagine! I'm always doing my own thing in my own space so I think it will very difficult for me to adjust.
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SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 359
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 18, 2013 02:44 PM
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Originally posted by bethbabe:
hello my dear,I am also a moon square uranus; however, i do like the concept of marriage though i have been more attracted to the ideal of a partnership lately. I think a lot of that has to do with my mother's two divorces. Are you a generally picky person when it comes to selecting a mate?
You no idea ! People tell me that I should lower my standards and all and I tried, it didn't work !
No man I dated seemed " right". I didn't feel anything remotely romantic/emotional towards any of them. They just seem "wrong" and none of them moved me.
Friends joke around calling me the Ice Queen whose heart will never be melted... it's funny how accurate they are  People on LL suggested that I look for someone with Aquarius, Sagittarius and Libra in their chart but I haven't tried it yet. I'm just fed up !! IP: Logged |
beccathelion
Knowflake Posts: 493
From: CA
Registered: Jun 2009
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posted July 18, 2013 03:02 PM
I have a Sag Moon, and so do 3 of my good friends, and all of us have had EXTENSIVE conversations about how we just don't think we'll ever get married or have children... simply because the thought just doesn't appeal/rarely occurs. It's been like this since I was 5 years old. My Moon Conjunction Uranus is the culprit, I do believe. And I have more Leo in my chart than I can shake a stick at... we're supposed to clamor for a family. IP: Logged |
HannieBananie
Knowflake Posts: 715
From: Canada, the land of Maple Syrup.
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 18, 2013 05:01 PM
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
You no idea ! People tell me that I should lower my standards and all and I tried, it didn't work !
No man I dated seemed " right". I didn't feel anything remotely romantic/emotional towards any of them. They just seem "wrong" and none of them moved me.
Friends joke around calling me the Ice Queen whose heart will never be melted... it's funny how accurate they are People on LL suggested that I look for someone with Aquarius, Sagittarius and Libra in their chart but I haven't tried it yet. I'm just fed up !!
OH... ------------------
Pisces sun
Leo moon ♥
Aint nobody realer. :) IP: Logged |
Gemmy
Knowflake Posts: 467
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Registered: Oct 2012
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posted July 18, 2013 05:25 PM
I feel the same.But I didn't know until astrology that marriage and kids will probably never happen for me.My Sun,Moon,Venus,Mercury stellium receives squares from Mars/NN and opposes Saturn/Uranus.And I have 6 retrograde planets,including Venus. I've never been in a relationship. The funny thing is,my stellium falls in the 5th house.Honesly,It's like a sick joke.  IP: Logged |
starmoon
Knowflake Posts: 645
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Registered: Sep 2011
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posted July 18, 2013 06:45 PM
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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
You no idea ! People tell me that I should lower my standards and all and I tried, it didn't work !
No man I dated seemed " right". I didn't feel anything remotely romantic/emotional towards any of them. They just seem "wrong" and none of them moved me.
Friends joke around calling me the Ice Queen whose heart will never be melted... it's funny how accurate they are People on LL suggested that I look for someone with Aquarius, Sagittarius and Libra in their chart but I haven't tried it yet. I'm just fed up !!
I ditto the 'find an aquarius' thoughts. I've been dating an aqua sun/venus/mercury man for quite some time now and he is already 48 and never married with no desire to be. aquarians are very cool with having a non-traditional partnership and will happily stay with you unmarried but faithful if you want that. I've had a lot of success with aqua men since their difficulty in settling down matches my own issues. the aqua sun/venus is best imo because they re the true ice kings and queens - nothing 'normal' seems to touch their hearts IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 359
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 18, 2013 06:54 PM
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Originally posted by Gemmy:
I feel the same.But I didn't know until astrology that marriage and kids will probably never happen for me.My Sun,Moon,Venus,Mercury stellium receives squares from Mars/NN and opposes Saturn/Uranus.And I have 6 retrograde planets,including Venus. I've never been in a relationship. The funny thing is,my stellium falls in the 5th house.Honesly,It's like a sick joke.
I feel ya Gemmy !! 5th house Stellium ? what a twisted joke of fate XD
Don't worry though I'm sure your brilliancy and creativity will make great compensations ! IP: Logged |
SilverFeather
Knowflake Posts: 359
From: Mercury sometimes...Jupiter some other times
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted July 18, 2013 06:57 PM
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Originally posted by starmoon:
I ditto the 'find an aquarius' thoughts. I've been dating an aqua sun/venus/mercury man for quite some time now and he is already 48 and never married with no desire to be. aquarians are very cool with having a non-traditional partnership and will happily stay with you unmarried but faithful if you want that. I've had a lot of success with aqua men since their difficulty in settling down matches my own issues. the aqua sun/venus is best imo because they re the true ice kings and queens - nothing 'normal' seems to touch their hearts
Aquarius seems to be a great match for me but I've been thinking maybe I should date another Sagittarius like myself ! Never tried it before so why not ?
After all, some astrologers believe that a Sagittarius Venus gets along best with another Saggy Mars/Sun fellow. IP: Logged |
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