posted July 24, 2013 11:50 PM            

So I've been lurking this uber-fascinating astrology forum since I found it on Google the other day when I was searching for information on my Mars conjunct Venus in Aquarius.

I am a romantic. Like, I'm REALLY romantic. Everywhere I go, I'm always looking for happy stories, happily ever afters, etc. I'm in college, and when I take history classes, I read my textbooks, and suddenly realize I'm looking for personal tidbits like who was in love with whom, who had a happy marriage, and so on so forth. I'm always WAY more interested in that than who did this political intrigue or that.

Now, ALL I've read about having Venus in Aquarius and Mars in Aquarius people says that they have trouble having close, intimate relationships. That they'd rather love the whole world than just one person.

Say it ain't so! I'm 21, and I've never been in love. I get close to people easily, though. This may have to do with the large amount of water in my chart.

I have no fire in it, though. None.

I also read on another thread on this site (I've lost the url, though, couldn't find it again), that people with Mars conjunct Venus tend to have trouble with relationships, that they usually end badly.
As well as that people with this conjunct tend to be more attracted to androgyny.

I'm not. I'm a girlie girl and I've always been attracted to guy-guys.
My chart is ruled by Venus, so that may have something to do with this.

Both my Mars and Venus in Aquarius are in my fourth house. I read in a magazine that people with Venus in their fourth house tend to marry people like one of their parents.

I would never, ever want to end up with a person like my mother or father, or stepfather.
Ever. For one, both my father and stepfather were domestically violent.

So, about my Venus and Mars in Aquarius in the fourth house...am I doomed? What is the likelihood of me NOT ending up with someone like my dad?

About my Mars conjunct Venus in Aquarius, are there any happy stories? I mean, what is the positive side of that?

About my Mars and Venus in Aquarius overall...since I've never been in love, does that mean I never will truly, passionately fall in love with someone? Have I just not accepted it yet? Am I an astrological freak of nature?

I want my happily ever after, damnit!!

posted July 25, 2013 01:34 AM            

Venus & mars in aquarius means, you break the rules/tradition. What you dig and who you like is totally dependent on you- that's the motto; so probably not attracted to someone like your dad-- which, I'm very sorry to hear about: mars in 4th house indicates domestic violence/angry father-- BUT yes, you can avoid a situation like your dad's, and you probably will with aquarius the rebel as your mars, which is what you're attracted to/ what you're motivated by ...

Actually, aquarius reps 11th house which equals friends/groups, but also dreams and hopes, so it'd make sense that you would be a die-hard romantic... plus, venus and mars in 4th house: you want a nice family, a pleasant home, and will probably go gung-ho on someone if he or she ever hurts your loved ones or your home.

As a fellow mars conj. venus, I can say that there are a lot of benefits to this conjunction; a lot of energy, romantic! (but that's covered), dynamic, and often sexually attractive (just as an ego boost )
may have a little too much energy & can be aggressive, but with a venus-ruled chart, there's more inclination to be passive.

Btw, check out the aspects that your mars & venus make, and your 5th, 7th, and 8th house, as those are the "relationship" houses.

posted July 25, 2013 05:41 AM            

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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
Bonjour,

Venus & mars in aquarius means, you break the rules/tradition. What you dig and who you like is totally dependent on you- that's the motto; so probably not attracted to someone like your dad-- which, I'm very sorry to hear about: mars in 4th house indicates domestic violence/angry father-- BUT yes, you can avoid a situation like your dad's, and you probably will with aquarius the rebel as your mars, which is what you're attracted to/ what you're motivated by ...

Actually, aquarius reps 11th house which equals friends/groups, but also dreams and hopes, so it'd make sense that you would be a die-hard romantic... plus, venus and mars in 4th house: you want a nice family, a pleasant home, and will probably go gung-ho on someone if he or she ever hurts your loved ones or your home.

As a fellow mars conj. venus, I can say that there are a lot of benefits to this conjunction; a lot of energy, romantic! (but that's covered), dynamic, and often sexually attractive (just as an ego boost )
may have a little too much energy & can be aggressive, but with a venus-ruled chart, there's more inclination to be passive.

Btw, check out the aspects that your mars & venus make, and your 5th, 7th, and 8th house, as those are the "relationship" houses.

No you're not a freak of astrological nature, or plain nature. Relax. You're young, and there are always transits to look forward too, if that isn't enough.

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Thank you! You totally answered my question and have given me hope!

One question, though...about your comment about transits...A transit is temporary, right? Would that mean the relationship or at least the spark of the relationship also be temporary?

You're right, I do defend home and family I also have Saturn in the 4th (also in Aquarius) (I forget if I said that in my other post), so that's good, I think. :P

posted July 28, 2013 02:03 AM            

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Originally posted by Stardancer:

Thank you! You totally answered my question and have given me hope!

One question, though...about your comment about transits...A transit is temporary, right? Would that mean the relationship or at least the spark of the relationship also be temporary?

You're right, I do defend home and family I also have Saturn in the 4th (also in Aquarius) (I forget if I said that in my other post), so that's good, I think. :P

Again, thanks for answering my questions so well!

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hope I helped

posted July 28, 2013 06:32 AM            

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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Stardancer:
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Thank you! You totally answered my question and have given me hope!

One question, though...about your comment about transits...A transit is temporary, right? Would that mean the relationship or at least the spark of the relationship also be temporary?

You're right, I do defend home and family I also have Saturn in the 4th (also in Aquarius) (I forget if I said that in my other post), so that's good, I think. :P

Again, thanks for answering my questions so well!

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hope I helped

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posted July 28, 2013 08:00 AM            

Where is your is Sun and Moon?

I have Venus conjunct Mars too(but in Leo)

posted July 28, 2013 08:41 AM            

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Originally posted by King1:
Hi, Stardancer

Where is your is Sun and Moon?

I have Venus conjunct Mars too(but in Leo)

This Aspect is very intense.... emotional, passionate, "aggressive", gentle & loving, high libido and so on

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Hi King1,
Thanks for the response!
I have my Sun in Pisces in the 5th house, and my Moon in Virgo in the 12th house.

posted July 28, 2013 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Stardancer:
Hi King1,
Thanks for the response!
I have my Sun in Pisces in the 5th house, and my Moon in Virgo in the 12th house.

With Mars conjunct Venus in Leo, the aspect must be very warm. I'm glad you said some good things about it. What I read about it before asking on this forum was kinda scary :P

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Sorry for my english, i live in a country who people dont speak English
Yes its give me a warm aura.

Cool a Sun in Pisces... (i have Cancer-Sun).
Sun in 5th House give you a leo character, you actully maybe appear like a leo

This conjunction might give us more reckless & daring "touch" to our character, many sites wrote that people with this aspect are attractive to the opposite sex - whats your experiences?

posted July 28, 2013 12:14 PM            

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Originally posted by King1:
Sorry for my english, i live in a country who people dont speak English
Yes its give me a warm aura.

Cool a Sun in Pisces... (i have Cancer-Sun).
Sun in 5th House give you a leo character, you actully maybe appear like a leo

This conjunction might give us more reckless & daring "touch" to our character, many sites wrote that people with this aspect are attractive to the opposite sex - whats your experiences?

Maybe why people attraced to us is our "vibe" that we exude... men with this aspect seems very manly and women very "womanly" haha, or vice versa - it seems that this mix between famale and male character in us - what attracts others.

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posted July 28, 2013 12:43 PM            

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Originally posted by King1:
Sorry for my english, i live in a country who people dont speak English
Yes its give me a warm aura.

Cool a Sun in Pisces... (i have Cancer-Sun).
Sun in 5th House give you a leo character, you actully maybe appear like a leo

This conjunction might give us more reckless & daring "touch" to our character, many sites wrote that people with this aspect are attractive to the opposite sex - whats your experiences?

Maybe why people attraced to us is our "vibe" that we exude... men with this aspect seems very manly and women very "womanly" haha, or vice versa - it seems that this mix between famale and male character in us - what attracts others.

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You have excellent English! I can't tell you're from another country.

Cool! I know a Cancer-Sun. Y'all are wonderful people

My sister is Leo Sun, I don't appear quite as, well, queenly as she does. That said, a while back, someone tried to guess my sign and guessed that I was a Leo.

One trend that I recently noticed about Mars conjunct Venus in the various signs is that it seems to take the dominant element from that sign and magnify it.

Like, Aries for example. I was reading on another forum posting that someone had met a woman with Mars conjunct Venus in Aries, and she was a go-getter, very masculine, etc.

So it stands to reason your conjunct would make you a warm person, while my conjunct would make me...well, that's what I'm worried about.
Aquarians are known for wanting distance, and the sign is ruled by Uranus, the planet of snap decisions and reversals--which isn't that conducive to this uber-romantic ideal I have of meeting "the one" and living happily (realistically, though) ever after with him.

I've never been in love with one, but I have loads of respect for men. I think I have more male friends than I do female ones.
Men appear to like to chase me, a lot. Sometimes literally. Some guy recently followed me around the library for 30 minutes just to give me sidelong glances then finally ask me out.

Um, no.

I think that's the aspect working, the chasing part.
I don't think the aspect has made me more reckless and daring. Perhaps the opposite. I'm a total wimp. I never got into trouble as a child (as opposed to my leonine sister who was in trouble a lot )

Perhaps it's that my chart lacks fire, and is ruled by Venus, thus it brings out the more girly, read-a-romance-novel-instead-of-climb-a-tree part of the conjunction. What do you think?

posted July 28, 2013 01:36 PM            

Just post your Chart!!

I know an Aries-Sun girl who has Venus conjunct Mars in Aquarius, she looks cute and very feminine.
Another girl who has Libra-Sun, Moon-Aries, and Venus conjunct Mars in virgo looks feminine too but she reacts aggressively.

posted July 28, 2013 02:38 PM            

Yes! Libra rising. How did you know?

Well if she looks cute and very feminine, lol, then maybe it is a quirk of Aquarius. \o/

Who knows then about how Mars conjunct Venus interacts with the signs :P

Yeah, but I've got to say, pretending to be a Leo can be fun It's a nice break from the Piscean depth of...kinda being spaced out all the time.

posted July 28, 2013 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by Stardancer:

I don't yet know how to get my chart to show up on here, but you should be able to follow this link:
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/c3o4filePChW0M-u1290739524/astro_w2at_01_starlina_hp.6 6418.27723.gif

Yes! Libra rising. How did you know?

Well if she looks cute and very feminine, lol, then maybe it is a quirk of Aquarius. \o/

Who knows then about how Mars conjunct Venus interacts with the signs :P

Yeah, but I've got to say, pretending to be a Leo can be fun It's a nice break from the Piscean depth of...kinda being spaced out all the time.

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Cool Chart...
Libra Rising - you say it in this thread, and your nice, and friendly responses

Sun conjunct Mercury makes you very intelligent, maybe even high IQ?
Plus this Aspect makes you probably eloquent.

posted August 02, 2013 10:03 AM            

How does it affect your relationships? In Synastry Aspecting, Every time a person's planet, no matter the planet, makes a conjunction to your VE it will also conjunct your MR. There are very few MR conjunctions that can be regarded as favorable positions. A person's VE conj your VE & MR is super good. So is a person's JP conj your VE & MR ( the best of the aspect positions for your aspect.) The ideal position, is for the other person's MR be conj your VE, but the MR conj MR is where the battle has potential. Your best opportunities come in the form of sextiles and trines to your VE conjunct MR. The relationships can run full throttle without danger of the influences suggested my MR getting in your way.

The best way for you to see this, is to view your 2014 Transits. See if you can follow the daily aspects made to your VE & MR.

Synastry aspects equal Transit Aspects. So romantic people that you meet will have similar aspects as the transit aspect you see here.

http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting#!in-the-closet-astro-tools/c1s43

posted August 02, 2013 04:32 PM            

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Originally posted by slowpoke:
Your natal VE is conj. your natal MR. You have sex appeal! Many people will be drawn to you.

How does it affect your relationships? In Synastry Aspecting, Every time a person's planet, no matter the planet, makes a conjunction to your VE it will also conjunct your MR. There are very few MR conjunctions that can be regarded as favorable positions. A person's VE conj your VE & MR is super good. So is a person's JP conj your VE & MR ( the best of the aspect positions for your aspect.) The ideal position, is for the other person's MR be conj your VE, but the MR conj MR is where the battle has potential. Your best opportunities come in the form of sextiles and trines to your VE conjunct MR. The relationships can run full throttle without danger of the influences suggested my MR getting in your way.

The best way for you to see this, is to view your 2014 Transits. See if you can follow the daily aspects made to your VE & MR.

Synastry aspects equal Transit Aspects. So romantic people that you meet will have similar aspects as the transit aspect you see here.

http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting#!in-the-closet-astro-tools/c1s43

slowpoke

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Gosh, wow, thanks! Reading this has totally made my day.
I do have appeal. Last summer, I was sitting on a bench in front of a store downtown one morning, and this guy crossed the street to tell me I had beautiful skin.

Kinda strange, but very flattering.