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Topic: Relationship with a aqua guy
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Lostinmyheaf Newflake Posts: 15 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 04, 2013 07:48 PM
Hello All, I'm new here Don't know where to start I'm involved with a Aquarius guy, and would like to know if he feels as much for me as I do? We have known each other for more then 2 years, it started with love and then with him disappearing (aqua trait) and coming back some love again and then him backing off again and he's back again, over a month ago, he went and said I luv u after so long I didn't want to scare him and I just said thanks.IP: Logged |
beenylove Knowflake Posts: 245 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 04, 2013 08:06 PM
Welcome lostinmyheaf! I pulled page of pentacles - five of pentacles - five of cups. So I think his feelings are true and steady towards you. The problem is that it really takes him some time to express them. I think he himself is now starting to accept how he feels towards you. I think with this guy, you are going to need some patience and tactic. The next card refers to him feeling distance from you, or just feels like you may not really be into him. He feels a lack of support, and I am assuming that this may be referring to you not saying I love you back. Five of cups is a card of regert. It seems that he is upset with himself for hurting you in the past. Overall, I think he feels positively for you. I think a good balance between warmth and aloofness is the way to maintain his interest. IP: Logged |
Lostinmyheaf Newflake Posts: 15 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 04, 2013 08:10 PM
Thank you! He is an aqua male, I'm scared of saying I love you back, I don't want him to disappear on me again. Like he did last time. I'm glad his feelings are positive towards me, I thought he was just there and didn't really know what he felt or if he felt anything at all for me. His aloofness takes along time .....
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beenylove Knowflake Posts: 245 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 04, 2013 08:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lostinmyheaf: Thank you! He is an aqua male, I'm scared of saying I love you back, I don't want him to disappear on me again. Like he did last time. I'm glad his feelings are positive towards me, I thought he was just there and didn't really know what he felt or if he felt anything at all for me. His aloofness takes along time .....
If you give me his birth info or post his natal chart I can give you more insight...
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Lostinmyheaf Newflake Posts: 15 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 04, 2013 08:19 PM
His birth date I only know - Febuary 16 , 1975 Birth place - Canada I didn't ask for more, I didn't want him to think I'm being too nosy IP: Logged |
beenylove Knowflake Posts: 245 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 04, 2013 08:53 PM
Yeah this guy is not one to express himself. The best advice I can give you is keep your cool. Be loving when he is around, but when he disappears you will just have to be as grounded as a rock and not show much anxiety. I think if this kind of behavior causes distress in you, youu will be happier with another option. As for saying I love you back, when he shows more commitment, I would say that you can go ahead and open up. If he disappears even then, I would say you are better off without him.IP: Logged |
Lostinmyheaf Newflake Posts: 15 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 04, 2013 08:58 PM
Hi, when he's aloof, busy I've learned to go along with it, as I'm busy with my life too For him saying all the sweet stuff, I can say it back, I'm just kind of scared.....I'll scare him off I really wanted to know if he felt the same for me as I do for him. Thank you! IP: Logged |
Lostinmyheaf Newflake Posts: 15 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 06, 2013 02:21 PM
So an update .....I bit the bullet and just told him the 3 words as u were saying he felt bad and feels the same for me. I was surprised he replied positivly Is this ok, to leave him alone for now, he didn't contact me today .....see how it goes. (Don't want to scare him) IP: Logged |
beenylove Knowflake Posts: 245 From: Registered: Jan 2012
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posted August 06, 2013 02:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lostinmyheaf: So an update .....I bit the bullet and just told him the 3 words as u were saying he felt bad and feels the same for me. I was surprised he replied positivly Is this ok, to leave him alone for now, he didn't contact me today .....see how it goes. (Don't want to scare him)
YAY!!! I would say yes, let him come to you. He knows how you feel now and he responded positively. I am so glad to hear this btw! IP: Logged |
Lostinmyheaf Newflake Posts: 15 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 07, 2013 10:28 PM
So I have a question, I found out that his aunt passed away almost 3days ago, after debating a few times in my head, I sent him a simple text, he replied with his aunt passing away. I tried to be very sympathetic about it. (He was very close to her) anyways are aquas like this all the time? Wasn't this something he should have told me? Can u also please tell me .....if his feelings for me are genuine? IP: Logged |
starmoon Knowflake Posts: 720 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted August 07, 2013 10:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Lostinmyheaf: So I have a question, I found out that his aunt passed away almost 3days ago, after debating a few times in my head, I sent him a simple text, he replied with his aunt passing away. I tried to be very sympathetic about it. (He was very close to her) anyways are aquas like this all the time? Wasn't this something he should have told me? Can u also please tell me .....if his feelings for me are genuine?
my dad died last month. I didn't even text my (aqua) bf to tell him. when someone dies you could care less about texting and talking with anyone but closest family. he's not obligated to tell you about what happened. just wanted to shared thoughts on that subject :-) IP: Logged |
Lostinmyheaf Newflake Posts: 15 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 07, 2013 10:56 PM
Yes now that u put it that way, u are absolutely right! It makes sense I guess I'm just scared if his feelings are truly there for meIP: Logged |
Lostinmyheaf Newflake Posts: 15 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 11, 2013 10:58 PM
Hi, I'm just kinda feeling down today. I'm not feeling well and didn't get to talk with my aqua guy Anyhow curious to know if .......me and my aqua guy will be together in the future? (Considering he's an aqua)IP: Logged |
Lostinmyheaf Newflake Posts: 15 From: Canada Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 13, 2013 11:04 PM
Why is my aqua guy distant but he says love you to me? Why does it take him time to express his feelings to me? I know he has things to do is busy, I just want to know why is my aqua guy like that? Just want to understand him more ......thanks IP: Logged |