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Goatiegirl
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posted August 05, 2013 12:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Goatiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello All-
I have been having a hard time for about a year now. I don't know what is going on I am sure that it will get better sooner than later. However some days it is so overwhelming and sadly I think as though I have gotten used to this dark cloud always raining on my parade of positivity no matter what. Are there any suggestions or advice on how I can handle my current situation? If anyone would like to practice I would love a reading. I think I have a great attitude and am just continued to be "tested" if you will. I feel as though I have proved myself enough already.

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posted August 05, 2013 12:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Goatiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would really welcome a reading as I am fairly new to this. I definitely feel that something bigger is going on that is contributing to the struggles I am facing and that is what, I believe, led me to look into my native chart. Any insight would be helpful.


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posted August 05, 2013 12:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Your good time is on its way very soon based on the info mentioned below based on Saturn and Jupiter transit this year
* Career prospects will open up
* Money will be coming IN
* confusion will still exist bcos of saturn and you may not be still happy with the money flow
* be careful on health issues

This is based on vedic astrology, questions to *Edited by Randall--you have to answer questions on the Forum*


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Originally posted by Goatiegirl:
I would really welcome a reading as I am fairly new to this. I definitely feel that something bigger is going on that is contributing to the struggles I am facing and that is what, I believe, led me to look into my native chart. Any insight would be helpful.



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posted August 05, 2013 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your chart ruler, your moon, has been stressed by Neptune in Pisces squaring it. Neptune is a slow moving planet, and when it will move past 5 and 6 degrees of Pisces FOR GOOD, you will start feeling better.

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posted August 05, 2013 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's no accident that you used the term of a "dark cloud raining over " your parade. Neptune's shape is cloud like and when it's squaring or opposing, it truly feels like dealing with a dark cloud.

Because of Neptune's cloudiness, your emotions are dampened and your judgement may not be sound. Just stick it through until it's out of your way. This too shall pass.

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posted August 05, 2013 09:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You will have a Saturn return next year. Major milestone.

Neptune will be done squaring your moon around January 2015. Soon after that, you will be experiencing a Saturn conjunction of your moon, which could be a welcomed influence after Neptune's nebulous confusion. As a Cappie, Saturn is a planet you are familiar with so you should be feeling more grounded, more clear headed, and very self-centered. You will have your emotions in check and will be able to figure out what is best for you.

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posted August 06, 2013 02:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for themischievousone     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok, this is me practicing but I feel I do have to put input on this one as you are a couple of hours older than my SO. He's also been saying something along the same lines as you are (except you have a better way of putting it). I'm giving you a modified version of what I told/found for him. This is my first time giving a "reading" to anyone not related or close to me, so if something seems weird or wrong or mean, please don't take it too seriously.

One thing I will say is that there are some not so easy transits right now with neptune and chiron, but it will get better for you. Your sun/jupiter conjunct natally does indeed give you a positive attitude (as well as your sag moon) and Saturn is kinda testing you at the moment but you will have a saturn return milestone around November of 2014. Saturn is in your 5th house (7th house ruler so dealing with that house may also be effected). Seek out the joy of every moment and enjoy it. Don't set unrealistic expectations.

One thing that sticks out to me is saturn transiting your 4th house (also conjunct your natal pluto. I think that should start moving away sometime next week definitely by next month ). Did you recently go through a rough move or have a change of residence? Normally from what I have read saturn/pluto conjunct is transit time that the proverbial ball starts rolling.

*Sometime next month (mid month I am guessing 9/5- 9/15 closer to the 15th as Jupiter will be 16 degrees Cancer on the 15th and your MC is 15 degrees Aries) Jupiter will square your MC. This was one thing I found about this when I was looking it up:

You attempt to significantly improve your work and career at this time. You may seek new employment, a promotion, or request an increase in your salary. You feel ready and fit for a better situation. A major key in helping you succeed in making a transition is improving your appearance, mannerisms, and attitudes to fit the position that you are striving for. Oddly enough, relatively superficial issues like this can be more important than qualifications, credentials, or talent! Also, be careful at this time to not overshoot the mark. You may attempt a major improvement in your career and overall life style that is unrealistically grandiose.

Positive developments in career, business, and professional pursuits are likely at this time. A promotion, salary raise, or an opportunity to advance in career may present itself at this time. If an offer or opportunity does not present itself, then apply yourself towards attaining a goal that you have been seeking. You can have a stroke of good luck now, and your judgment and sense of timing are excellent. However, it may not just fall in your lap, and you may have need to seek out the opportunity. Also, the improvement that is possible is usually not of great magnitude, but a solid and significant advancement is very feasible at this time.

Positive Potentials:

Desire for greater freedom, growth, influence, or an expanded range of expression leads to taking risks with a spirit of adventure. Increased optimism, hope, and confidence, a sense that "it will all work out".

Negative Potentials:

Growth and expansion for their own sake without regard for practical considerations or other important values.

Remedies and Suggestions:

Some extravagance can be good for the soul! Investigate all possibilities and definitely let yourself aspire, dream, and reach for the things that you'd really love to do or have. However, beware of get-rich-quick schemes or promising ventures that require little on your part (if it sounds too good to be true, it probably is).


*After that Jupiter trine mars (shortly after that nMars at 17 Pisces and Jupiter transit 17 cancer around 9/15 or 16). This is what I found:

Invite more people, especially those you admire and wish to emulate, into your life. Express a lot of recognition of others' contributions. The more inclusive you are, the more positive this period can be for you.

Your health and vitality are good now. You feel confident and ambitious, and you enjoy athletic events and sports immensely now. You may try your hand at a new sport or athletic game. You are energetic and optimistic, without being pushy or impatient.

Events work out smoothly now.

If you are involved in any sort of legal dispute, now is the time to try to resolve it. If you can manage to do so, the outcome is likely to please you. You may fare much better than you expect.

Positive Potentials:

Fortunate and effective action. New enterprise flourish. Positive self-assertiveness and initiative. A sense of fair play and principles infuses competitive activities, gaining you respect and popularity. Health and energy level are at a peak.

Negative Potentials:

There is very little down side to this particular cycle.

Remedies and Suggestions:

Now's the time to do what you've been dreaming of. Say Yes!

From what I have been seeing transits do ease up a little around the end of this month and gets better going forward.


Hope all goes well for you.

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Goatiegirl
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posted August 06, 2013 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Goatiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you all very much. Can you tell me when this Neptune guy started this transit? Actually I have been on a roller coaster since 2009ish but like I said I think I just got used to it. I like my attitude in the face of challenges- I've just been facing them since day one. Literally since before I was born my father was killed.

Anyway last summer I could feel something coming and sure enough fall 2012 was rough. October 6th was a rough rough day. I read somewhere that Saturn left some part of my chart on 10/6. Does anyone know what was going on around that time?

Major event was that I was disillusioned with a love interest last summer. I am still trying to figure that whole thing out (I thought we would be married with a couple kids by now lol)

A big problem I am having is that of lonliness. At the same time an amazing thing that is going on is that of faith. I have gotten so close to God and I have the certainty that things will get better, great and even better than before soon. I wish I had others to share this excitement with. That is when I get sad. I'm so looking forward to things getting better though!

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posted August 06, 2013 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for themischievousone     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I tried to look back into the Neptune transit. I can say March and April of this year for sure. Any further back I'm a little unsure of. I'm sorry to hear about your father. ;..(

What I do see on that day is Saturn entering Scorpio, the sign your Saturn is in. What I also noticed that day is North Node is conjunct exact with your natal Saturn and pluto conjunct exact with natal mercury.

I want to poke around a little further (I'm still learning transits) and study the houses being impacted a little further if you don't mind. I also want to compare to 2 others that have the same birthday. October 6th seemed to have a lot going on.

You have so much positive energy. I hope your feelings of loneliness pass too. I'd also like to look into transits that may be affecting that if you do not mind me studying your chart later.

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Goatiegirl
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posted August 07, 2013 02:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Goatiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't mind at all! Please do.. Thank you so much!

I wonder what if anything is affecting my relationships. I seem to be quite lonely at this time. I've never been one of many friends but at this time that I am single and trying to put myself out there it seems as though I'm solo and it's just awkward. I still attempt it. Maybe its the point in my life too. Many friends/acquaintances are marrying it up or have moved for jobs. Hmmm.. it just feels like something big is going on. with me or maybe with the whole world maybe. Any input is welcomed!
Oh yeah, the bad boy was an aqua and I am oh so confused. But Ive been reading the forums and apparently the aqua boys are good for that. But man I loved that one :/

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zarea
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posted August 07, 2013 02:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for zarea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Goatiegirl:
I don't mind at all! Please do.. Thank you so much!

I wonder what if anything is affecting my relationships. I seem to be quite lonely at this time. I've never been one of many friends but at this time that I am single and trying to put myself out there it seems as though I'm solo and it's just awkward. I still attempt it. Maybe its the point in my life too. Many friends/acquaintances are marrying it up or have moved for jobs. Hmmm.. it just feels like something big is going on. with me or maybe with the whole world maybe. Any input is welcomed!
Oh yeah, the bad boy was an aqua and I am oh so confused. But Ive been reading the forums and apparently the aqua boys are good for that. But man I loved that one :/


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zarea
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posted August 07, 2013 02:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for zarea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Goatiegirl:
I don't mind at all! Please do.. Thank you so much!

I wonder what if anything is affecting my relationships. I seem to be quite lonely at this time. I've never been one of many friends but at this time that I am single and trying to put myself out there it seems as though I'm solo and it's just awkward. I still attempt it. Maybe its the point in my life too. Many friends/acquaintances are marrying it up or have moved for jobs. Hmmm.. it just feels like something big is going on. with me or maybe with the whole world maybe. Any input is welcomed!
Oh yeah, the bad boy was an aqua and I am oh so confused. But Ive been reading the forums and apparently the aqua boys are good for that. But man I loved that one :/


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zarea
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posted August 07, 2013 03:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for zarea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Goatie,

I'm a capricorn as well. Can you post a second chart with transits so that I can give you a better reading? Just as a disclaimer: I'm practicing my astrology reading and may not get everything right. But I'll be speaking from experience as a cappy as well.

I agree with what everyone has said with the nepture and chiron transits. I'm going through them also in my fourth house. Last year, venus and chiron conjuncted my natal neptune and opposed my moon. All hell broke lose with my relationship with my ex. I was desilusioned and it ended in a traumatic way by September. Wounds were re-opened (chiron) and i had to deal with the pain and self-esteem issues. I took this year off from everyone and have been working on myself. You get the drift.

It wash't all chiron and neptune though. Capricorns are going through a pluto transit until 2024 (I think) and you are going through that as well. If you should post your natal with the transit, we can see more clearly what pluto is touching on your chart. Since pluto entered capricorn in 2008, my life has changed for the better and worse: I got pregnant, I lost everything I had pretty much, had to live with my parents, at one point I couldn't afford a cell phone. I have three planets in Capricorn: mars, mercury, and sun. When Pluto was on my mars I had lots of energy but at the same time I was angry at everyone and anyone who tested me dealt with my rage. I had periods of darkness dealing with self-esteem issues also, crying for hours as pluto is transiting my 2nd house.

In any case, in your 6th house which is a malefic house, pluto will be forcing you to uncover deeply hidden issues, traumas related to your everyday functions, your health (mental and physical), forcing you to deal with them; it will destroy lots of things but it will help you rebuild how you handle the daily aspect of life on stronger footing. I think I'm done with the worse of pluto which was when it was on my mars. it's on my mercury now and it is giving me the mental accumen to write better (i'm a writer). Once I realized that all the sadness, transformations, pains, joys that I was going through were from pluto's direct hits, then I dealt with them better by accepting them and rolling with the punches.

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posted August 07, 2013 03:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Goatiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not sure I know how/where to find the transits.

Does this help?

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zarea
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posted August 07, 2013 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for zarea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

goatiegirl, go to astro.com, extended chart selections and enter your DOB to start a chart. then get a natal chart wheel and Transits in the circular charts sections. then upload it here and I'll take a look at it later today.

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posted August 07, 2013 05:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Goatiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok. Thanks. Here it is.


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zarea
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posted August 08, 2013 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for zarea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ok goatiegirl here is what I can tell from the chart. Let me know if it makes sense for learning purposes.
Pluto has been transiting your sixth house as I've said earlier but it's going over your natal mercury in your sixth house. It's currently at 9 degree and your mercury at 7 so from about 2010-2011, it's been making that conjunction with retrograde included. Mercury rules your 12th and 3rd house. Your twelve house in particular is a very spiritual house ruled by Neptune, it's the house of our dreams, consciousness, our fears as well. It's associated with prison, bondage, drugs, depressions. third house is communication (emails, letters, cars, cousins ) So this pluto transit should be affecting these areas in general. In your natal chart mercury is already in a three degree orb semi-sextile with natal pluto so you should be used to this energy. I do think that you are feeling the chiron transit in your 8th and 9th houses as well which are going over your venus and mars which themselves square your natal moon and n. uranus. Neptune's . The 8th house is also another powerful house dealing with subconscious and subterranean energy, in a different way than the 12th. It's pluto's house: death, birth and rebirth, not literally so, but transformations of an area of the self, and since chiron is involved here, the transit should affect how you deal with loss, the pain/wounds of loss. On venus, this makes sense with the loss of your relationship last year.

All this together, I would say that you the transit are affecting you at a very deep, emotional and subconscious level. the crying for no reason is a way to purge yourself of unknown hurts, wounds that you have stored deep inside. But at the same time, you're having this beautiful relationship with the divine/God which is also neptune working here. It's as if this transit is connecting you to transcendental forces/energies which you cannot express through words as mercury (communication) and ruler of your 12th is involved here.

Please give me some feedback even if it's to say that it doesn't connect. From my own experience after going through so much for the past couple of years and now just getting out of it all, I would say that the only way to keep my head above water and hold on as the storm passes was through reading a lot about the transits to see them as learning experiences, lessons that I need to learn to grow stronger.

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posted August 08, 2013 10:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for zarea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 08, 2013 10:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for zarea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted August 08, 2013 10:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for zarea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Goatiegirl
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posted August 09, 2013 11:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Goatiegirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Zarea- thank you so much for taking the time to look at my chart and provide me that info.

The only thing I can think of about Pluto affecting my third house- cousins, cars etc. is that I have always been very close to my cousins and admired them; however in the last few years I've realized and allowed myself to not "idolize" them. There's a couple in particular that I was always very fond of and I've come to accept that they're not as great after all and that is ok. People aren't here to please me or be what I want them to be. (Now I'm seeing why/how this attributes to my lonliness..hmmm..just now I realized this as I'm typing. interesting)

The cars issue is interesting as well. I got my own awesome car right after college in 2010 and have had to figure everything out on my own. Any little maintnance, car insurance etc. speeding tickets a somewhat major accident, dealing with insurance and rental etc. has all been going on since summer of 2010. A couple of times I have sought out assistance from the cousins mentioned above and the response has been a little rough. But hey I've dealt with it and I love my car so much! I take such good care of it and it makes me proud as a single woman, no father, brother or cousins or uncles to really help in that area.

As far as Neptune and my most deep and also spiritual areas that makes sense. I have never ever in my life felt the connection with God like I do these days and it started about 2010/11 ish. It got stronger and now I walk around with this faith that is so delicious. Even in my darkest moments I pray and I feel the amazing peace and I'm assured that everything will be ok. That I'm special and loved and it's just great. I hope that never changes.

I'm interested in knowing more about the natal venus natal mars squaring my natal moon etc. What can I do to help myself in that area?

Thanks for the advice about just crying it out for no reason- its true it is very helpful! Another thing you mentioned in a post was a traumatic end/event in September last year- that is extremely interesting as I had a traumatic experience September 2012. It involved the breakup and it was pretty huge.

On that note, I really really desire to be happily married and all that. Maybe because I never saw/experienced that growing up. Sometimes I read about my placements and transits and get the feeling I just might not ever get that.

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posted August 16, 2013 12:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uranus, Neptune and, Pluto are very slow moving planets. They stay in position a long time and the influences associated with them last a long time. For this reason, these planets are called generational planets, meaning that these planets will affect a large number of people in the same age group the same way.

Investigate the influences of these planets with your natal, then put in some thought on the other planets, on how to best work with or work around these influences and, then let these issues rest. Set them aside and let your conclusions linger in the back of your mind. You have done the best that you can do with the data. Now place your concentration on the faster moving planets and try to form a course of action only with these remaining planets in mind.

By setting the slow planet data aside and focusing one the faster moving planets, you will in essence be helping time to move faster, so the slow planets rate of speed will seemed to increase.

If you are interested in transits, you can get your personal 2014 transits here,

http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting#!in-the-closet-astro-tools/c1s43


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