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Topic: 5 of pentacles+5 of cups+8 of pentacles as relevance. Views please
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Cathy1980
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posted August 08, 2013 12:04 AM
  
Someone made a sarcastic comment regarding a person's maturity in a task. So, I was asked how relevant was the comment (to know if it was a constructive criticism or was it out of some jealosy)I got the folowing cards
5 of pentacles+5 of cups+8 of pentacles I take it as the person who made the comment is not happy about the accomplishments of the querent, not as a fact but out of some complex. I can't see any constructive thoughts seeing the 5 of pentacles, as it means feelings of dejection. Do you have any thoughts on this please. IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted August 08, 2013 03:00 AM
Hey Cathy  I don't think there's much constructive about his comment. It feels like the comment comes from a place like: I'm always doing things on my own here, I can't depend on anyone, have to do everything myself to get it done right & this person is focusses on that part. A bit 'woe me'-attitude. The comment was made from an emotional viewpoint mostly.
That's my impression when looking at this. I wouldn't be surprised if this person has actually difficulties delegating tasks and/or asking for help with an eye for the overall good of team/company. Just my impression.
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Cathy1980
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posted August 08, 2013 06:55 AM
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Originally posted by Twirl:
Hey Cathy I don't think there's much constructive about his comment. It feels like the comment comes from a place like: I'm always doing things on my own here, I can't depend on anyone, have to do everything myself to get it done right & this person is focusses on that part. A bit 'woe me'-attitude. The comment was made from an emotional viewpoint mostly.
That's my impression when looking at this. I wouldn't be surprised if this person has actually difficulties delegating tasks and/or asking for help with an eye for the overall good of team/company. Just my impression.
Hope it helps
Hi Twirl ,
Thank you for confirming there is no constructiveness in the comment.
But the context is different actually. The person who made the remark is a relative of the querent and is not involved in her career. But he had passed the comment regarding her professional maturity. This provoked her a little. Was thinking what made him make such a sarcastic comment. Got these cards. Would this change your interpretation now? IP: Logged |
Twirl
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posted August 08, 2013 07:10 AM
I would say this person is rather bitter tbh... Glass is half empty type..IP: Logged |
Cathy1980
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posted August 08, 2013 07:21 AM
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Originally posted by Twirl:
I would say this person is rather bitter tbh... Glass is half empty type..
Seems very relevant. May be an-always-complaining type. Thank you Twirl. IP: Logged |
EmpressMendez
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posted August 08, 2013 08:12 AM
Is someone struggling financially? Working too hard for little payment?IP: Logged |
Cathy1980
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posted August 08, 2013 08:38 AM
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Originally posted by EmpressMendez:
Is someone struggling financially? Working too hard for little payment?
Both of them aren't financially struggling exactly. The one who made the comment is somewhat financially better off than her. But hers is a different career. She's a colleague of mine. IP: Logged |
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