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Topic: my neighbor drives me insane! Can somebody do a tarot for me please?
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jenny415 Newflake Posts: 9 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 08, 2013 03:03 AM
He drives me insane. Sometimes I think I like him but then sometimes I get really frustrated with him. He has very very loud sex , literally everyday for at least 7 hours at a time-with either a girlfriend or multiple girls, im not sure. From 5 pm -5 am sometimes and starts back again at 10 am.But I have this intense pull towards him- which I absolutely hate! I don't know why part of me feel a connectedness to him- I want him out of my consciousness. I am not sure if he is a negative force or what. I avoid him but because he lives above me there is only so much I can do. Can somebody please help me - i guess i want to know why i feel a connection with this person who I barely know. Is there a reason? Will it go away?ANy insight would be greatly appreciated- i posted our synastry chart on a thread. SOS!IP: Logged |
Cathy1980 Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 08, 2013 07:04 AM
Hi jenny, May be someone out here would help you with a reading. But personally reading your following lines is very scary to imagine LOL! quote: Originally posted by jenny415: He has very very loud sex , literally everyday for at least 7 hours at a time-with either a girlfriend or multiple girls, im not sure. From 5 pm -5 am sometimes and starts back again at 10 am.
Whatever the attraction may be towards this person, I don't think a girl would like to have a commitment with this kind of a person at any time. People like him would play tricks in making girls fall for them so easily. If at all you feel out of control about falling for him, save yourself somehow and if possible atleast do change your residence out of his proximity. Please don't get me wrong, just felt like telling you. Moreoever, things are just before your eyes and you are 'knowing' who he is right? So the hint is already there. IP: Logged |
Jessica2407 Moderator Posts: 3343 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012
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posted August 08, 2013 10:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by jenny415: He drives me insane. Sometimes I think I like him but then sometimes I get really frustrated with him. He has very very loud sex , literally everyday for at least 7 hours at a time-with either a girlfriend or multiple girls, im not sure. From 5 pm -5 am sometimes and starts back again at 10 am.But I have this intense pull towards him- which I absolutely hate! I don't know why part of me feel a connectedness to him- I want him out of my consciousness. I am not sure if he is a negative force or what. I avoid him but because he lives above me there is only so much I can do. Can somebody please help me - i guess i want to know why i feel a connection with this person who I barely know. Is there a reason? Will it go away?ANy insight would be greatly appreciated- i posted our synastry chart on a thread. SOS!
I used another deck to do this reading. Please take it with a grain of salt. Le Guardien du seuil - Le Seigneur du Jugement -La Grandmere des scepters templiers -Lanima mundi Basically you are attracted to him because he evokes feelings of well carnal desires. It disturbs you because you are thinking of the kind of person you are to be feeling even the slightest attraction towards him.The first card means that you have face the parts of you that perhaps you don't want to think about to be able to overcome certain obstacles.The second card tells me you are fully aware of this situation,that you DO NOT want any sort of interaction with this guy.That you have already taken the decision not to get involved with him.That was the second card. However the third card shows that there is a part of you ( which is quite strong actually) that is very much drawn to him that evokes feeling of purely sexual in nature,I would say that represents an attraction that you find difficult to resist. The last card tells me you WILL overcome it,because this card alone is so powerful that it can eliminate all the negative cards in a spread. The feelings I got while pulling cards for you is that you shouldn't mistake this sexual attraction that you feel towards him for a connection. I didn't feel his presence in the cards,like the whole issue has something to do with you. IP: Logged |
jenny415 Newflake Posts: 9 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 08, 2013 03:39 PM
Thank you jessica and Cathy! The sexual thing makes sense although he is not someone I would normally be atracted to! I must say though although I want to hate him and want to think he is the biggest ******* on earth, so that I can disconnect- the truth is he has been extremely kind to me a few times when he really didn't have to be, and so I feel guilty in feeling such negatiivty towards him.
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Cathy1980 Knowflake Posts: 163 From: Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 09, 2013 03:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by jenny415: he has been extremely kind to me a few times when he really didn't have to be, and so I feel guilty in feeling such negatiivty towards him.
This is also a kind of manipulation I feel, that he is keen to getting closer to you. If it is something friendly, it is ok. But if this takes it further than that, it will hurt you. I feel "Out of sight is out of mind" in this situation will work. If you can temporarily get yourself out of his presence, it might give you some time to clear up your mind and take a practical stand. And after that, you will not feel this vague obsession towards him. Or that having some people around you (friends or family) and not being alone, (if you cannot move from your place), will restrict him from coming/influencing to you. Anyways take care. IP: Logged |