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Topic: Why do we argue so much?
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PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted August 10, 2013 05:59 PM
  
This is a mother daughter relationship. It isn't like your typical mom and daughter arguing, it is like they both can't stand each other.
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Bluejay
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posted August 10, 2013 06:39 PM
A couple of things jumped out at me right away. For one, you have moon conjunct Mars in Taurus. You are probably pretty stubborn, and unlikely to back down from a fight, especially if you get your feelings hurt. The other person has Mars square moon, which can also make them short tempered. Their moon is also in Aries, and having experienced this placement firsthand for many years, I believe that an Aries moon actually likes arguing and drama. Pluto in Scorpio probably makes you want to have the last word at all costs, which doesn't help any. You both probably get so caught up in your own feelings, and have difficulty seeing things from the other person's point of view. Also, there is a Mercury/Saturn opposition, that makes sense in a mother/daughter relationship. Mercury is also square moon and Mars, which can mean there are a lot of hurtful things said that provoke arguments. Both people are quick to argue with each other, and have difficulty communicating in a non confrontational way. IP: Logged |
PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted August 10, 2013 07:55 PM
Thank you, very interesting. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted August 10, 2013 09:34 PM
You both have 6th house Mercury signs that land in the other person’s 12th house, so communication will be a big issue here. You’re both going to struggle to understand the other person, because anything that hits the 12th house of another makes it hard(er) to understand the other person and their needs. Since it’s reciprocal with you guys, it’s problematic for both people and not just one. The 6th house = our daily life and relationships, work, family, responsibilities, etc. so this means daily interaction with each other is problematic. You have someone with a stellium in Capricorn that opposes someone with three signs in Cancer. Although they are not direct oppositions, they are opposite by sign, which means that these two people are going to come at things from completely different perspectives. The Cancer person will be a very sensitive/soft communicator, perhaps hold grudges (as they have an excellent memory) and be unwilling to compromise, but for reasons completely different than the Capricorn person. The Cancer will be sensitive emotionally and the Capricorn will feel like pride was wounded. The Capricorn individual is far less emotional than the Cancer and will not ‘get’ the emotion of the Cancer, and the Cancer will not understand the lack of emotion from the Capricorn. The moon in Aries person is a very feisty position – people with that placement tend to be fighters by nature and can really stomp all over a softer person with verbal attacks, so that placement alone – against a stubborn Taurus could potentially mean that neither person backs down from the other easily. The ‘stronger’ partner here is the Sun Cap/Moon Aries person – they also have the mercury in Aquarius which is a great placement for winning arguments, because they have wonderful reasoning abilities. I’d say the Cancer person will always be bending to the will of the Capricorn here even if they aren’t wanting to. You also have venus conjunct Uranus and Uranus conjunct the DSC of someone; any times Uranus comes in such close contact with an angel/planet, it makes for a very up/down relationship with coming together and then breaking apart and then coming together breaking apart – it’s like a never ending roller-coaster that never really stops.
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PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted August 11, 2013 11:31 AM
@starmoon
Thank you. You really helped me understand better why my mom and I don't seem to get alone. You broke it down great for a newbie thank you. IP: Logged |
slowpoke
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posted August 12, 2013 01:30 PM
It appears as though both individuals have a raw energy influences (MR) with their emotions (M) in their natal charts. M square MR
M conjunct MR This suggest that both individuals have a natural tendency to become emotionally irritable.
The catalyst is shown through one individual's MY squaring (M conjunct MR).
There seems to be objection in the way you do things in front of each other. There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.
http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting
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PiscesCancerTaurus
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posted September 23, 2013 02:49 AM
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