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starzy54
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posted August 12, 2013 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starzy54     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is the strongest love I have ever felt for someone..my bf says its the same for him. Anything indicating marriage for us? or why it feels so strong for the both of us? It feels so fated. But there is so many obstacles between us, I am afraid to follow my heart or go with my gut, and I can't even tell the difference between the two anymore. My emotions are a wreck, don't know if i am going through a bad transit or not..if we will last, or if its better to let him go.


Anything in my personal chart indicating marriage for me or when i might be married? I have a lot of obstacles in my life when it comes to love and marriage.


Us together, synastry


Just me


Just him


I'll do a seven card love Tarot reading for anyone who might be able to help me.

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starzy54
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posted August 12, 2013 05:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starzy54     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
EDIT: HOPEFULLY THESE LINKS WORK

synastry


Just me


Just him

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Haplesschild*
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posted August 12, 2013 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's clear why you feel the connection-you guys have angles conjuncting. It usually points to a strong bond and a big pull towards one another.

However, I see both of you have Saturn conjuncting the other's angle, I feel like he is here to teach some lessons, though most likely he's not going to be the 'end game' imo...

He has an air moon that is unaspected, so he'll feel a disconnect with you a times, and an air venus, your placements are more grounded so it's going to be hard to understand each other at times. He has lots of mutable so may be quite flighty, so it's going to be hard to deal with him and hard to have him be completely stable.

He has Venus square Mars, in Scorp and Aqua so that's going to be a huge struggle. A part of him wants intimacy (in the broader sense) and intensity, but when he gets it his Venus in Aqua and Gemini moon sounds alarm bells and he retreats. This is not a good combo as his mercury and sun square his moon by sign as well-there's always going to be alot of internal turmoil going on.

This in combo with Sun and Uranus squaring, moon opposing uranus and a Gemini asc....Eeeeeek. I feel you're better off with a Taurus (who has some Aries placements).

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starmoon
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posted August 12, 2013 09:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I can see why it feels fated – you have his Venus sitting right on your DSC angle and your Saturn is right on his DSC. You also have your DC/MC angles conjunct, which is generally what leads to ‘fated’ feelings. There is also a venus conjunct mars (perhaps a bit wide) in Scorpio, so that gives attraction overall and sexual feelings. You have your moon in the 9th and he has Venus in the 9th so perhaps this is some type of distance romance or inter-ethnicity relationship; 9th house placements generally lead to something like that, or traveling to be with the partner. The synastry shows fated feelings and some romantic attraction, but I don’t think it shows marriage/forever.

His natal Moon opposite Uranus in the 12th house is troublesome; that aspect is generally associated with a lack of interest in marriage/partnership for quite some time. And since it's int he 12th he might not even be aware of his own personal issues. Coupled with his Venus in Aqua (a freedom-loving sign) he will likely not be ready to commit unless he’s 100% sure and ready. So, just keep that in mind if making a decision. He will be conflicted.

You have more quiet/reserved placements and would probably do best with someone with more earth in their own chart. He has a Gemini Moon, which isn’t a great match for you overall. I would never say to go/not go with anyone based on a synastry chart, but know that this doesn’t point to being a fulfilling relationship over the long-term because your basic needs (and his) are quite different. Best of luck.

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Love&Light
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posted August 12, 2013 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Love&Light     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nice to see you around starzy. I havn't seen the chart but the feeling I got from you earlier too (You have done a reading for me) doesn't seem to me the one that could match his Moon in Gemini. They are superficial in my experience. I know two guys and one gal. One guy very closely. This may not be true for all but in my experience in relationships they just don't have that grounding though they may have moment to moment intensity depending on their other placements like Mars Venus and Saturn. Sorry for the negative response. If you are OK with this then its cool.

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posted August 16, 2013 12:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

There may be an easier way to read and understand complicated Synastry pie chart aspects. Pie chart aspects can also be produced onto a basic Synastry Aspect Chart. Review the sample chart at your leisure. It may help you gain even more insight than you currently have.


http://risingpeople.wix.com/synastry-aspecting


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slowpoke
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posted September 06, 2013 04:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
starzy54

This is how your colorvision Synastry Aspecting Chart might look.


Planet and color code, in both directions:

S = ego energy
MR = raw energy
P = passionate energy
Asc = showmanship energy

Yellow boxes = high priority position for favorable major aspects.

Green column and row = emotions

Black column and row = North Node = groups of people that you know and do not know.

Gray column and row = communication channels

Black Aspects Not In NN columns = strong influences that could lead to physical fighting and separation.

Inner Box (VE on VE to JP on JP) = the core of the unit, favorable aspects in this area are very good indicators of success.


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What Draws You Together?

MR 5 VE - a strong attraction from the get go, that last.

MR 91 Asc - a strong desire to want to hook up right away.


What Is Holding You Together?

S 1 JP - One of the best aspects to have, it promotes growth for both of you. This is not an attraction aspect, but when you are together, it instills in you an influence to want to remain together.

MY 64 S - an easy flow of communication

MY 2 JP - You can't help yourself in wanting to be helpful to the other. You can laugh together.

VE 60 UR - a cautioned attitude towards radical idea.

MR 5 VE - a lets get it on attitude.

MR 125 MR - a blending of your physical energies.

JP 3 MY - You can't help yourself in wanting to be helpful to the other. You can laugh together.

JP 3 NP - is this really happening!? Somebody pinch me - no, don't.

UR 3 SA - this is the base that allows you to be yourselves.



What Are Your Problems?

S 93 SA - you both want to be leader of the pack. Outside forces impose rules and laws that can hamper your progress.

S 85 UR - learn to expect the unexpected. Whatever can go wrong - just might.

MY 94 SA - superiority complex. Too preoccupied with proving the other wrong.

MY 86 UR - tempers can fly due to trying to think outside the box.

MR 91 Asc - body language can seem repulsive.

UR 95 JP - the need to be me is greater than the need to be us.

NP 88 MR - I do not like sex any more, time to close shop.



What Might Happen If You Stay Together?

VE 85 VE - you do not share in wanting the same things at the same time, all of the time. This could grow into a sex problem supported by NP 88 MR.

NP 88 MR - for whatever reason, the thrill is gone and has turned distasteful. The partner is left chasing for that, that was plentiful. Frustrations could lead to more problems.

S 93 SA - efforts to correct problems go nowhere.

MY 94 SA - efforts to discuss problems leads to being belittled.

MY 86 UR - dispirit ideas leads to anger.

MR 91 Asc - non-committal body language leads to physical fights.


North Node: both directions

NN represents small groups of people, from family members, work associates + boss, the social environments you frequent, teams and clubs you are part of and, all of your neighbors.

The aspects to the NN, represent your natal planets action towards the NN and its potential response toward the Synastry unit from the actions.


MC of just the SD (Subject Date Person):

If the SD is active in public commerce as a business person or the Synastry unit wants to do business activities, then the aspects made to the MC suggest how the second person might help the SD and what the quality of that support might be like. If the SD is not an active business person or unit, then the MC is of little importance.

If the second person wants to do business activities, the MC for the second person is not taken into account on this chart. However, if there are aspects that pertain to the SD's MC, then it is safe to say that the SD may have valuable input, if the aspects imply it.



Bottom Line:

The energy is high when you first meet based on the influences of S 1 JP, MR 5 VE and, MR 91 Asc. The conjunctions have you feeling that a lot is possible. And the double whammy MY conj. JP is a conformation of your thoughts. These two aspected planet combinations may know how to hit your funny bone. You have the potential to make each other grin, almost at will.

The sextiles in the unit suggest that there is contentment between you and that, as a unit, you are able to achieve some goals. This is supported by S 63 S, S 1 JP, JP 60 P, SA 60 S and, SA 122 JP.

But, there is, as there is with all Synastry Units, an underside of potential difficulties. Oddly as it may seem in this case, the problems may start with sex. After you have gotten used to each other and over time, the sexual experiences may become problematic, either for personal reasons or based on your partner. Frustrations can set in because you may not be able to communicate your concerns well. This would support the influences related to S 93 SA and MY 94 SA. And these frustrations could spill over into anger, supported by S 85 UR and MY 86 UR. And the anger might lead into physical fights, supported by MR 91 Asc.

Neither of you are emotionally charged by this union, but JP 3 NP adds an emotional core of flavor to the union.


As with most unions, you will have to work at keeping this one a happy one.

This is a statistical report, the Synastry Aspect analysis does not suggest the results to be an absolute given.

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