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posted August 18, 2013 05:00 AM            

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Hi, this is about the complex happenings between me and my bf. We meet infrequently because of the distance and our last weekend together was great. But he later confessed that he thought I had been disappointed (for chrissake!). He has since become uncommunicative and it may be that he is reconsidering the relationship.

So, my question is: Is his sense of failure causing him to withdraw? I hope this question is not too complex.

From the chart posted below, I, as Mercury, am combust which kinda describes my current state. Jupiter (bf) opposite Moon could indicate dissension and hurt. As for the rest - I can't tell. Help!

Thank you

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posted August 18, 2013 06:02 AM            

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This chart doesn't "speak" to me much..

Noticed Venus in Libra applies to him. I hope that's you! Also the Moon opposition is separating.. It seems like you were somewhat disappointed because you're in his fall. He is ruled by you, so no worries, he still loves you. Who is this Mars fellow that has the hots for you and you're exalted by him and also applying?? Could it be Jup is jealous?! Jup loathes Mars.

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posted August 18, 2013 06:11 AM            

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Hera, you are like a vitamin shot. You've made me smile.

There is no other guy!!! I wonder if he has an ideal in his mind (or thinks I have an ideal I compare him to) that he compares himself to? All this psychological stuff is soooooo exhausting!

Would moon separating mean that the stressful situation may be resolved?

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posted August 18, 2013 06:36 AM            

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Hmm.. Mars could be your boss, or a neighbor or.. someone at the bank? lol Perhaps Jup noticed he stares at you for too long or smth and he took your disappointment as disinterest.

But you know what I don't understand? Jup is strong. He is in his own exaltation and angular. I see him in quite a busy and stressful time right now, with all those aspects, dealing with this, dealing with that, meeting people etc. But it's not anything that he can't handle!!

In respects to you and your relationship, I'm not getting much tbh. Could it be that you're simply reading too much into it? You are combust after all = not seeing clearly?

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posted August 18, 2013 06:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Astro keen:

Would moon separating mean that the stressful situation may be resolved?

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It means it has passed. But there's the applying Venus square so you're not out of the woods just yet!

Idk if Venus is you or someone.. in your house? Do you live with someone?

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posted August 18, 2013 06:47 AM            

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I am really and truly in awe of the power of Horary! The things you could tell from Jupiter's position. Wow!

Yes, it is likely that I am over thinking here. There is some difficulty but perhaps not as I imagine it. Good to know that Jupiter is not feeling undermined in anyway. I hope I understood that correctly.

Nope, no other women around.

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