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posted August 24, 2013 02:58 AM            

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Hi ,
I asked a very trivial question concerning a friend of mine. She is somewhat close and a few months old friend to me and I was little disappointed when she missed wishing me on my b'day.
But I didnt want to do the same and I did wish her on her b'day. But just wanted to know if she was manipulating the situation. I asked how did she feel about me having wished her though she didnt do it for me earlier. (I know questions like these sound very childish :P but then I wanted to know.) I use RW deck. I drew
3 of wands+6 of swords+7 of cups

Does it mean she was expecting my call though she avoided wishing me?

I have no idea what to make of this. Any ideas welcome

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posted August 24, 2013 04:14 AM            

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Sorry, I'm not in a mindset to really offer any type of interpretation at this time. I tried to make sense of the cards, but for some reason I kept getting crossed wires of was it your feelings or the friend's feelings, and trying to combine the 3 cards together. I just wanted to comment though that I thought it was unusual that all 3 cards have people with their backs turned away. It means something, I just can't quite put my finger on it. Is this really just a friend, or were you hoping it might be more?

You are a Leo right? I'm surrounded by Leos and it reminds me of my Leo friend that in my mind makes mountains out of molehills over her not getting her limelight. I seem to get pretty much everyone, and understand their motivations, but she has me scratching my head a lot, and wondering where she is coming from.

Maybe the cards are just stating the obvious and saying that you are feeling ignored. Happy birthday by the way!

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posted August 24, 2013 04:33 AM            

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Hi Bluejay,
Thanks for your input and she is just a friend but a bit closer, like we have a lot to talk in common. My view was that we being close and communicating a little constantly, I expected her to wish me obviously but that didnt happen and I felt a bit weird. I didnt feel ignored generally as I had my other lovely people around me. But then I did miss her.
And btw I'm a Taurus and not a leo My b'day was a few months back and hers few days ago. Would this change ur interpretation?

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posted August 24, 2013 04:55 AM            

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Hi,

Don't think she looked at it that way at all (6 swords + 7 cups). Just enjoyed the wishes/looking forward to a new year.

Not sure if this helps, but I tend to forget everyone's birthday (including my own at times ("why the present? What? It's my birthday? Ohh, I didn't realise it was Wednesday already.. " & my parents) & I hardly ever send cards around. Not because I don't wish my friends (or family) well, but I think because it's just not that important to me (and I'm chaotic/don't have a calendar/don't really notice the date). I do drop in with random gifts & thoughts about them all year round which for me is showing care much more than just a birthday wish. I however do make this clear to people in my surroundings so no misunderstandings can occur
So you two just might have a different mindset about this.

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posted August 24, 2013 05:30 AM            

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Hi Twirl,
Thank you for your views.
I too dont believe in celebrating b'days partying or gifts, but I definitely wish&expect a wish from my close ones, to be honest.

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So you two just might have a different mindset about this.

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I agree with this.

And can u please clarify how u see 6 of swords as a positive one here? I generally have heard as leaving something and going. Just asking this for learning purpose.

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posted August 24, 2013 05:34 AM            

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Hi

I think she didn't think of it in the way you phrased it at all. She moved on (6 swords). 7 cups would also point out she has no clue you feel about it this way.

I can apply more meaning to it though
3 wands (glad you put the effort in) and "moved past" (6 swords) her forgetting yours (7 cups).

Edit: to get a clearer answer I would break up the questions. Like: Is X aware that I was disappointed about her not wishing me a good birthday?
Why didn't she wish me a HB? Etc.

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posted August 24, 2013 05:42 AM            

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Wow.. Nice way of looking at the cards. I appreciate ur inputs. Thanks a lot Twirl
Yes what you say is right rephrasing questions, but we being close I playfully fought with her lol and she gave me some stupid reason for it So she knew I was waiting for her and she didnt wish me.

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