posted August 29, 2013 05:32 PM            

Thank you very much!!
I will post the charts later on today.

posted August 30, 2013 04:28 AM            

I can not see your past life, or his.

I can not see a relationship in the composite.

I could probably read the synastry and composite generically, but I like to get impressions.

posted August 30, 2013 05:16 AM            

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Sun-South Node: This connection indicates a past life connection in which an imbalance related to authority issues between the two people. In a previous lifetime, perhaps it was a father-child relationship. At any rate, the South Node person did a lot to help the Sun person in a past life, and has now returned for “repayment.” The Sun person feels obligated to pay the South Node person back due to the instant familiarity and comfort. The Sun person gives the South Node person support and help. The South Node person may (inadvertently) drain the vitality of the Sun person, and may, in some way, prevent the Sun person from realizing their full potential.
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My first boyfriend’s Sun was conjunct my South Node in Scorpio. We met in the most random, bizarre way, but the chemistry and familiarity was instant. I certainly felt “held back” by the relationship over time; with my North Node in Taurus, my life’s path involves, among many things, working towards valuing myself and fostering my sense of self-respect. With him, I was stuck in a “rut” of sexual exploitation, obsession, and jealousy. After 2 years, I was exhausted, and had no choice but to separate myself from him. True to Scorpionic fashion, we took a long time to fully break up, but I certainly felt a weight had lifted once it was over.

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And from cafeastrology:

When your Sun is conjunct your partner's South Node (therefore it is in opposition to your partner's North Node), this relationship can be revolutionary in terms of personal growth. The friendship between you is instant. In fact, you are likely to find each other very familiar even on first meeting. Your partner will quite naturally reveal your inner strengths. The caution here is that you may pull your partner into the past. You will feel safe to your partner, and he or she runs the danger of avoiding key issues he or she needs to face through North Node lessons via your association. You may not encourage each other to take on new adventures, finding it all too easy to slip into a familiar pattern. Your partner might eventually feel that you are coming on too strongly, or that you are too clingy, dependent, or pushy. You might feel your partner is too passive, not involved enough, or pulling away. The ties that bind you, however, are very strong.

Oh boy ....those last three sentences are so true!!

posted August 30, 2013 05:36 AM            

South node conjunct Chiron between charts:

The past (south node) meets the wounds (Chiron) . Shades of karmic liaisons and soul mate tales can infuse this dramatic union but it is usually about replaying literal events in the immediate past as they surface to be understood, healed and released through the present union. Can also indicate a combined life journey using learned talents and skills."

Chiron to the south node by synastry indicates a significant past lifetime issue or key relationship. Repeating of themes and behaviour patterns are always the case with south node contact, even more so with Chiron there. The experience is one of total relive or fruition. The experience can be one of feeling locked in or futility (for both parties). The Chiron person may have a unique/special contribution to make to the south node individual - appearing as a guide, healer or saviour – one who “opens a key door”.

And I also read it means the chiron person always feels pain in the presence of the south node person, to the point he/she might even become sick.

posted August 30, 2013 07:30 AM            

i notice you have a sun/chiron conjunction..do you mind me asking how that has or does affect you...(my son has one also in a water sign..scorp)

posted August 30, 2013 08:23 AM            

Anyway basically, the guy in this would not want a relationship with you, he feels sorry for you, like you have low morals and need guidance. Despite some trines, they are affected by other aspects because almost every aspect from his point of view from his AC, MC, Sun, Moon, is not regarding you as someone he wants to be involved with - but as I said I think even the trines are interacting with the other difficult aspects.

One of the aspects even showed that he would even like to see if any of his friends would have sleep with you - just so he could validate his feelings about you based on their feedback - his feelings being that you would make him angry at how prepared you are to be used -like he thinks you are chronically pathetic.

A couple of aspects showed that he could think you had movie star potential. Quite a few aspects showed that he thought he or his mother should guide you and show you how to grow up properly and finally adopt some of the female behaviour that he thinks would serve you better such as being more modest, enjoying life with having nice friends, being happy about nice things etc.

He generally thinks you are potentially harmful to him, his life, and how he would like to think about the world. If he did weaken and get involved with you he could feel despair and may feel like he would like to destroy you.

You on the other hand would never really know whether he finds you attractive or whether you can only be platonic. You would often be peeved that you just don't know what to do with him/about him - like he is frustratingly impossible.

posted August 31, 2013 06:28 AM            

..........................lol