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LovelyAries86
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posted September 04, 2013 09:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Based on MY CHART what kind of man do you think would be best for me?

And what placements of MINE brings you to this conclusion?

I'm very curious to hear the insight you all can offer!


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Kerosene
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posted September 04, 2013 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow, I like you chart. It's balanced and well placed, not the mention the grand kite.
I can imagine variety of different guys for you!

You probably attract all types of energies.

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SDragon
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posted September 04, 2013 09:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SDragon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mmmm... someone with a nice little Venus in Scorpio might do the job :P

Venus in 8th
Venus in Taurus would be opposite
Moon trine Pluto
Pluto in Scorpio
Pluto sextile Mars

Lots of scorpio energy even though only Pluto is in the sign.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 04, 2013 09:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by SDragon:
Mmmm... someone with a nice little Venus in Scorpio might do the job :P

Venus in 8th
Venus in Taurus would be opposite
Moon trine Pluto
Pluto in Scorpio
Pluto sextile Mars

Lots of scorpio energy even though only Pluto is in the sign.


We're on the same page! ROFL! I'm very much into Scorpio energy in men. I *NEED* intensity in a man, nothing psychotic, just purely passionate.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 04, 2013 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Kerosene:
Wow, I like you chart. It's balanced and well placed, not the mention the grand kite.
I can imagine variety of different guys for you!

You probably attract all types of energies.



Why thank you, darling. I really do enjoy diversity & complexity in a man because I'm the same way. Makes it kind of tough finding the right match though!

And if you don't mind teaching me, what exactly is the 'Grand Kite'? I'm still learning some things!

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 05, 2013 10:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
AWW COME ON!!! I knowww there are more fantastic members of this Forum that can enlighten me on romaaaahnce than this!

If Love isn't your department...then just chat with me about the aspects of my chart that catch your eye the most - just for fun.

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted September 05, 2013 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your chart tells me you are searching for someone who has their life pretty much in order whom you can share the good life with. You have lots of love to give, want the same in return. The guy has to be strong. I am picturing a fire fighter.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 05, 2013 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Your chart tells me you are searching for someone who has their life pretty much in order whom you can share the good life with. You have lots of love to give, want the same in return. The guy has to be strong. I am picturing a fire fighter.

Well said, Starlight.

Oooh a Fire Fighter?!

I'll tell ya...men like that do drive me nuts (in a good way). Fire Fighters, Pastors, Soldiers...I'm attracted to men who are BRAVE. I'm very kind & respectful, but I do have a strong personality and I require a man to have powerful intellect, emotions & willpower. OR ELSE I HAVE NO INTEREST IN HIM.

QUESTION:
What aspect points out the biggest reason why some men become "intimidated" by me? Not intimidated as in me being disrespectful or mean....but just them feeling like they aren't "on my level", so to speak.

I do get male "attention". But oftentimes, it's not from the men I'd actually take seriously.

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted September 05, 2013 10:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you like muscular men? I see you preferring ones with good builds.

I had the feeling you were looking for a certain kind of guy and would only be happy with him but I didn't want to put a negative spin on your thread so I kept it to myself.

The reasons I think this are:

You have Pluto in the first house in (edit) Scorpio.
You have exalted Aries sun in seventh, the house of the partner.
You have elevated Cancer moon
You have exalted Capricorn Mars near your MC. This really makes me wonder if you will be involved with a fire fighter, soldier, police officer or some kind of first responder.
Venus in Taurus, eighth house.
Jupiter in Pisces, fifth house.

So I'd say you have LOTS of goodies in your chart lol. I am surprised you are single tbh. I won't get too nosy.

All I can say is, you picked a great time to be born!

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 05, 2013 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
Do you like muscular men? I see you preferring ones with good builds.

I had the feeling you were looking for a certain kind of guy and would only be happy with him but I didn't want to put a negative spin on your thread so I kept it to myself.

The reasons I think this are:

You have Pluto in the first house in (edit) Scorpio.
You have exalted Aries sun in seventh, the house of the partner.
You have elevated Cancer moon
You have exalted Capricorn Mars near your MC. This really makes me wonder if you will be involved with a fire fighter, soldier, police officer or some kind of first responder.
Venus in Taurus, eighth house.
Jupiter in Pisces, fifth house.

So I'd say you have LOTS of goodies in your chart lol. I am surprised you are single tbh. I won't get too nosy.

All I can say is, you picked a great time to be born!



Aww thanks!! I'm awesome but I truly try NOT to brag about it haha.

I do enjoy muscles. Strong ARMS are like #1 for me. I enjoy bear hugs a lot! After arms & lips...I can be physically attracted to more than one type of man.

I've been asked numerous times "why THE HELL are you single?" lmao. I'm single by CHOICE not because I'm not desired. But for me personally...being "desired" means NOTHING if you aren't attracting the ones that you desire just as strongly. Get what I mean?

I briefly dated this one guy some years back who was a Paramedic. He was a Scorpio too! Instant attraction we shared! He was very into me. But...I told him that his career was too demanding of his time so I didn't feel that the time was best for a relationship yet -- he'd also had his heart broken by an ex-fiance who walked out on him close to their wedding day. Ick!

I had an ex-soldier courting me for a little bit last year too. He was a Pisces w/ Scorpio-Rising & Scorpio-Mars. Hot sh*t!! Haha. However, I totally didn't relate to his Moon & Venus being in Aquarius. Ugh not enough depth, it ruined the Scorpio energy he did have! I liked him a lot though. He was too unsure of himself though to waste time taking things further at that time, so I ended it.

I'm open-minded & I enjoy meeting all kinds of people! But I've realized that I simply **MUST** have passion in my man...connection on every level with him. I can't get with the superficial junk. He certainly doesn't need to be perfect!! I'm pretty realistic about this LOL. But when you have as much to offer internally as *I* do...it's not easy to find a man (with maturity) who isn't already taken who can match my same character or intensity.

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Randall
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posted September 05, 2013 11:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Personal Readings.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 05, 2013 11:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One other thing to add...

I seem to attract men in extremes. He'll either be a pushover who is always afraid to take charge and he'll also have some deep wounds that he needs nurturing on -- so I'l end up being this "shoulder" to cry on for them (since my Cancer Moon wants to genuinely console you). They'll cling to me when I never even stated that I was interested LOL.

OR...I'll often get the Bad Boy who wants "a great girl" on his arm to make him "better" or whatever. I actually don't mind helping people to TRANSFORM and grow because I feel that it's part of my calling to be a catalyst for people. However, I don't do well with a**hole behavior, instability, or selfishness. So Bad Boys won't do either!

The men in "the middle" are the most afraid to approach me. And those are the ones that I want - if they aren't already taken. It's insane! LOL.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 05, 2013 11:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Randall:
Moving to Personal Readings.

Hi Randall,

I've seen quite a few relationship threads seeking personal advice on the 2.0 Forum. Just curious why mine wasn't a fit?

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted September 05, 2013 11:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LovelyAries, I did get a vibe from you, that something went on or would be going on with someone who is a first responder or similar who spends a lot of time away. I got that from your Capricorn Mars placement.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 06, 2013 12:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
LovelyAries, I did get a vibe from you, that something went on or would be going on with someone who is a first responder or similar who spends a lot of time away. I got that from your Capricorn Mars placement.

I just hate the idea of my lover being away from me constantly, where he barely has time for me. That sounds so lonely And we all can be lonely by ourselves! Companionship is important for me.

But hey...we'll see. Might be able to strike a balance! I really appreciate your taking the time to respond, Starlight!

Do you & I share any similarities in our charts?? I know that we both have Libra-Rising.

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted September 06, 2013 01:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have the moon and Saturn in Taurus and your Mars trines my sun in Virgo pretty closely. Your moon makes a good aspect to my sun and it looks exact or pretty close

With Libra rising, Venus in Taurus and Jupiter in Pisces, being alone could be uncomfortable. Especially with Venus in Taurus because they want to cuddle and be close to their partner so much, every night and spend a lot of time with them.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 06, 2013 06:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I have the moon and Saturn in Taurus and your Mars trines my sun in Virgo pretty closely. Your moon makes a good aspect to my sun and it looks exact or pretty close

With Libra rising, Venus in Taurus and Jupiter in Pisces, being alone could be uncomfortable. Especially with Venus in Taurus because they want to cuddle and be close to their partner so much, every night and spend a lot of time with them.


I enjoy Taurus-Moon people like yourself. Solid folks!

What's funny about me is that although companionship is wonderful for me...I can be just as content without it. In other words, I don't feel miserable or desperate when I'm single -- I loathe when people are that way, too. I live a *FULL* life, regardless of my relationship status. Thank God!

When I am *IN* a relationship though, I very much love it. As you said Starlight - cuddling, conversing, exploring, & connecting with my partner is essential for me to commit. Once I *have* committed, there is NO ONE more devoted and down for a man than I am!!! He doesn't need to be up under me 24/7, but him being gone constantly won't work AT ALL either. I love to explore new things & I'd like a man who isn't rigid and one who could truly teach me a lot about Life.

I'll shut up now LOL.

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted September 06, 2013 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's a great way to be, LovelyAries, content with life and happy with yourself. I do get that feeling from you, you are this way. It's very comforting. A lot of the time I get the opposite from people, lol.
I like your posts
I know whomever you find will be very lucky to have you fall in love with them.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 07, 2013 01:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
That's a great way to be, LovelyAries, content with life and happy with yourself. I do get that feeling from you, you are this way. It's very comforting. A lot of the time I get the opposite from people, lol.
I like your posts
I know whomever you find will be very lucky to have you fall in love with them.

Thanks a million!! I'm glad that you "get" me. There's some very cool people on this Forum & you are one of them Starlight.

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posted September 07, 2013 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for slowpoke     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LovelyAries86

Based on your natal chart, You are a complicated person.

The following dates are favorable aspect that I found in your Sun Cycle transit calendar. Try and do as many positive things that you can on these dates.

(read as: 410 - 418 = Apr. 10 thru Apr. 18 of any given year.)

306 & 307

410 - 418

504 - 511 !

511 - 522

708 - 710

1115 - 1124

There is also, a bonus with these dates. Any one who has a birthdate, any age, on any one of the dates listed above will have their natal Sun in favorable aspect to your natal planets. Some of these people could become friends. But, caution, this does not mean that they would be compatible with you, you will have to check the Synastry Aspects for deeper answers.


slowpoke

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Haplesschild*
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posted September 08, 2013 04:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Find a guy with Virgo and Leo placements (maybe a Libra placement too?).

I'm a Virgo sun with a Libra stellium and Aries rising and I always get along and eventually get close to people with very similar placements to you- I feel they balance out my energies and understand me.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 08, 2013 10:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by slowpoke:
LovelyAries86

Based on your natal chart, You are a complicated person.

The following dates are favorable aspect that I found in your Sun Cycle transit calendar. Try and do as many positive things that you can on these dates.

(read as: 410 - 418 = Apr. 10 thru Apr. 18 of any given year.)

306 & 307

410 - 418

504 - 511 !

511 - 522

708 - 710

1115 - 1124

There is also, a bonus with these dates. Any one who has a birthdate, any age, on any one of the dates listed above will have their natal Sun in favorable aspect to your natal planets. Some of these people could become friends. But, caution, this does not mean that they would be compatible with you, you will have to check the Synastry Aspects for deeper answers.


slowpoke


Interesting! Thank you for your reply! I'm trying to branch out & do different things, go different places, and SEE different faces.

I am indeed very complex! How do I find the right match with all that going on?? LOL.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 08, 2013 11:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Find a guy with Virgo and Leo placements (maybe a Libra placement too?).

I'm a Virgo sun with a Libra stellium and Aries rising and I always get along and eventually get close to people with very similar placements to you- I feel they balance out my energies and understand me.


You're saying that individuals w/ placements like *mine* seem to understand you Hapless?? Well that is lovely!

I have *tons* of Virgos & Leos in my family. Truly! So I know both signs quite well. So well in fact...that it somewhat bores me to actually date them because of that LOL.

I did meet this interesting Virgo guy a couple days ago though. He rung up my food at this Organic place I'd never been to before. He invited me to his Poetry Gathering and I went last night. It was cool! His friends are lively & intelligent since they do Spoken Word. I randomly asked them all "Where do you meet people of the opposite sex??" - to which this guy answered by saying that he meets them online, or he'll see them at his job & ask for their number (AFTER seeing them a number of times first).

He gave me his YouTube info to check him out also. Eh...we'll see if this goes anywhere LOL.

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LovelyAries86
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posted September 08, 2013 10:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LovelyAries86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Starlight & I have determined that *this* is the right man for me:

-Aqua Sun
-Taurus Moon
-Leo ASC
-Venus Pisces
-Mars Scorp

SOMEONE HELP ME PLAN THE WEDDING!!!

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