posted September 09, 2013 12:59 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
so I found out my SO is taking an interest in other women and maybe getting attracted to them. This is different for me. Hes not cheating on me and probably having 2nd thoughts. This is weird and out of his character though. What do you say? Is he tired of me??

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That sucks...

My suggestion is to keep and eye on him but also to keep your mouth shut for now. Sorry being blunt here. I used to nag and bring up issues that I disliked to no avail. Instead, take this time to better yourself. If you don't have a job, find one, If you don't have
some sort of education, try to take a few classes. One it helps to get distracted by being productive instead of snooping and wasting time worrying about what he thinks, what he's seen or heard or said. You don't need to ruminate over something that has no definite end.

It's better to get productive, because if **** hits the fan you have a nice exit strategy and won't be tossed on your behind in a daze. Happened to me. : /

I will never make the mistakes I made again.

So please, take a girl's mistakes and use them to your advantage rather than fall in the well like I have.