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Topic: Crushing on a Gemini guy, but hes hard to read...Help
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TR2009
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Annapolis, MD,USA
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 12:25 AM
  
I really like this Gemini guy, and I'm not sure he feels the same we have been alone a couple times and he never makes a move but he smiles and sort of stares at me.
The last time I saw him he was playing a game on my phone and he had a chance to put his number in my phone but he didn't, the whole time we were around each other that he kept touching my neck and poking me. We have 2 mutual friends they keep telling me he has a crush on me, but he didn't flat out tell them, they are just going off of how we act towards each other. I will be seeing him this Saturday and than I wont see him again until about April. What should I do? Are compatible by our charts?Him:
Sun 24°49' Gemini
Moon 10°25' Aquarius
Mercury 09°50' Gemini
Venus 07°00' Gemini
Mars 10°34' Virgo
Jupiter 08°39' Sagittarius
Saturn 24°18' Pisces
Uranus 29°50' Capricorn
Neptune 24°60' Capricorn
Pluto 28°18' Scorpio
Myself:
Sun 24°37' Libra
Moon 24°53' Aquarius
Mercury 04°40' Scorpio
Venus 09°00' Virgo
Mars 01°10' Scorpio
Jupiter 07°11' Virgo
Saturn 00°15' Aquarius
Uranus 10°14' Capricorn
Neptune 14°09' Capricorn
Pluto 19°08' Scorpio
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KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2795
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted September 09, 2013 06:40 AM
How does he act towards you and why?
10 of Coins and 7 of Swords
He has a outer display of stable affection that is totally in control, but he seems to hold back and it seems like he is being deceptive or holding true face away from you , this *may* be a way of manipulation to get what he wants. OR he may hold back because of his own caution of being "tricked" again in a relationship.
How does he feel?
8 of Coins and 9 of Cups
He seems to be interested in you, but he wants to take a slow, steady, methodical, serious approach. He also seems to feel like he found a good woman or meet his "one".
What does he think of you?
2 of Cups and 10 of Wands
he thinks fondly of you but he feels like its a burden or hard work to carry or go on with it.
What should you do?
7 of Cups and The Devil
Hmm... Try not to become deluded by his actions.. or let him trap you in your own delusions..IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2795
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted September 09, 2013 06:59 AM
Astrologically I'd say his Mars in Virgo makes him prone to nervousness and he doesn't know how to act out his ambitions well LOL if hes not mentally balanced. He also has Venus in gemini like me and you have Venus in virgo.. we just have different love styles..  IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
Knowflake Posts: 2795
From: Uranus
Registered: May 2011
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posted September 09, 2013 06:59 AM
Moon in Aquarius and Venus in Gemini isn't good with romance IMO, he may be flakey and detach himself from you at any time as well.IP: Logged |
TR2009
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Annapolis, MD,USA
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 09, 2013 04:19 PM
There is a bit of an age difference between us, in about to be 22 next month and turned 18 in June.
We have known each other for about 2 years now but I never really spent allot of time with him until this summer, we are sarcastic to one another, me make each other laugh, but just when I think maybe he likes me as more than a friend he's says something about this or that hot chick he never says names he just says this hit chick, so I'm not sure if he's saying that to make me jealous or if he sees me as friend and he's just talking to me like I'm one of the guys.
We volunteer in a therapeutic horse program during the summer together, and where there are horses there are flies and the buzzing sound near my ears makes me antsy and he knows this. He makes the buzzing sounds and puts his hand on my neck all the time. Also when we are on our break he starts tapping and poking me.
We are closing our volunteering season for the year with a picnic type thing on Saturday and than I won't see him again until April. I want to tell him that I like him but as you may have guessed I'm terrified of rejection and that he keeps sending me mixed messages.IP: Logged |
TR2009
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Annapolis, MD,USA
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 12, 2013 01:28 AM
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Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 1025
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 12, 2013 01:48 AM
Based on his chart... I'd personally not go there aye. His chart has too much mutable (esp gemini energy) so he wont be stable or consistent, will be prone to getting bored easily. People with Venus n mercury in gemini show their interest by them constantly chatting to you and joking around. I dated a gemini mercury n venus very seriously....It didn't end well-he was a compulsive liar and cheater. IP: Logged |
milly
Knowflake Posts: 191
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Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 12, 2013 12:31 PM
Hi, based on the charts you look quite compatible.... to be at least very good friends. Both got lot of air. Mercury in scorpio is deeper thant mercury in gem.... you try to understand things that for him are just facts that do not need explanation.... the hot chicks ... it just a fact :-) I do no think he means to confuse you. I would say... explore the friendship... see if you like him as a friend... and still like something else. IP: Logged |
redshoes
Knowflake Posts: 695
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posted September 12, 2013 12:48 PM
I wouldnt go there either...detached, flakey and emotionally cold...hardly the man for warm romance and connections!IP: Logged |
hitplay
Newflake Posts: 13
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Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 12, 2013 01:15 PM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Moon in Aquarius and Venus in Gemini isn't good with romance IMO, he may be flakey and detach himself from you at any time as well.
holy caw this guy's charts looks so much like mine. I have Mercury and Venus in Gemini, Moon in Aquarius. My Mars is also in Aquarius, which makes me even more airy than him I think...
Queen has got it quite right, I run out of passion really fast,with almost anything..especially humans and hobbies. .Day one I have butterflies in my stomach, the next day I just don't feel a thing anymore. I get complains about this a lot...but what can I do? It's not my fault..Of course I wish to always be in love, but I'm just not emotionally able to.What's wrong with people like us? IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 1025
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posted September 12, 2013 02:01 PM
Maybe bc butterflies is infatuation and not love? Lol. Love takes time and doesn't just come n go.IP: Logged |
beenylove
Knowflake Posts: 360
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Registered: Jan 2012
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posted September 12, 2013 02:44 PM
Omg I dealt with a guy with very similar placements (he had a Scoprio Moon though) and he was so incredibly flakey and hard to read  I did notice that the more I ignored him, the more he was attracted to me. When I paid him even the slightest amount of attention, he ignored me.IP: Logged |
redshoes
Knowflake Posts: 695
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posted September 15, 2013 06:02 AM
Headf*ck comes to mind, excuse the languageHe would probably mess you up
RUN!!
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TR2009
Newflake Posts: 5
From: Annapolis, MD,USA
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 29, 2013 07:58 PM
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Originally posted by redshoes:
Headf*ck comes to mind, excuse the languageHe would probably mess you up
RUN!!
In what way will he mess me up, if you don't mind me asking?
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