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Topic: Love Triangle
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Breeh26
Newflake Posts: 2
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 10, 2013 03:31 AM
  
Hello everyone I'm new here but have been following the site for a last couple weeks, it looks pretty amazing! I have a question about my love life if anyone could please help bring insight or even the obvious to the front it would be greatly appreciated!... I separated from my ex of 10 years and I'm now dating someone new. I just have allot of mixed feelings in regards to both situations and things are getting very serious. I'm very lost and confused!IP: Logged |
Single Cancer
Knowflake Posts: 43
From: Gold Coast, Queensland, Australia
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 10, 2013 03:59 AM
Hi BreehI seperated from the father of my child after 10 years in February and also started dating someone else in May.
That relationship got serious very quick after only a few weeks and then he decided he needed space after 3 months.
I've given him the space as it's also given me the chance to sort myself out and
concentrate on me.
After 10years with someone I now realise jumping into another relationship with someone else wasn't the best choice. I was still vulnerable and hurting from that break up and then had to deal with the emotions again with the new guy!!! I didn't give myself the time to heal.
The new guy was quite overwhelmed with the whole dating a single mum thing as I was still in contact with my ex due to our son...
I still talk and see the ex from time to time and at first it was hard to let go but as time went on, I moved on emotionally with the new guy.
Now I'm just dealing with the new guy and having to deal with his insecurities!!! I guess different people deal with life's situations differently...had to share my story with you. IP: Logged |
Breeh26
Newflake Posts: 2
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Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 10, 2013 12:13 PM
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Originally posted by Single Cancer:
Hi BreehI seperated from the father of my child after 10 years in February and also started dating someone else in May.
That relationship got serious very quick after only a few weeks and then he decided he needed space after 3 months.
I've given him the space as it's also given me the chance to sort myself out and
concentrate on me.
After 10years with someone I now realise jumping into another relationship with someone else wasn't the best choice. I was still vulnerable and hurting from that break up and then had to deal with the emotions again with the new guy!!! I didn't give myself the time to heal.
The new guy was quite overwhelmed with the whole dating a single mum thing as I was still in contact with my ex due to our son...
I still talk and see the ex from time to time and at first it was hard to let go but as time went on, I moved on emotionally with the new guy.
Now I'm just dealing with the new guy and having to deal with his insecurities!!! I guess different people deal with life's situations differently...had to share my story with you.
Thank you Single Cancer. This sounds very much like my situation. My ex and I separated and went though allot of court drama and I started seeing my new bf. He is a Leo and wow do we argue but everything else is amazing! He is moving here from out of state in about a month. My ex and I started started talking again after most of the court stuff was over with and we even hung out for a little bit there. I know I don't want him back but it still hurts and I still care. I feel like once my new bf gets here him and I need to cut communications down to our child only but its hard, I want him as my friend. He's starting to date and see other people (he says he not but its obvious) and even though I have someone in my life and its selfish it's hard to see and think about. IP: Logged |
redshoes
Knowflake Posts: 605
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Registered: Nov 2010
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posted September 10, 2013 05:42 PM
Just to confirm what has already been said ~~ not a good idea to start another relationship until you are resolved about the former oneI took a year out after my marriage broke down, then met someone, but now realise i didnt take enough time out!! IP: Logged |
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