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BILL10
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posted September 10, 2013 05:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BILL10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Everyone

I hope someone can help me, I need help.

I have been having an ongoing issue with a guy (Josh) who won't leave me alone. He is my stalker, and he refuses to go away until I marry him. I have told him countless times that I am not interested in marrying him. He just won't leave.

He is Bipolar and has other mental issues. He tends to have delusions and blames me for everything that goes wrong in his life.

He accused me of putting a "voodoo curse" on him and his ex-gf. He says that she cheated on him and married another man because of the curse. I never put a curse on him; I wouldn't do something like that. The truth is, he neglected her while he was stalking me. So, she turned her attention on another man.

Now, he's telling me that he used "Black Magic" on me to make me love him or marry him. He says that he out for revenge and that he will make my life hell because of the "voodoo curse" and if I don't marry him.

I want to know if he's being serious, or is he messing with me?

I can't deal with him anymore. When will his attention on me end?!! Or when will he find a new target to obsess over. Anything! I just want to know when this will end. Will he go away?!

I feel so drained and miserable.

Please help.

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Phoenix
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From: I believe there's a reason for being at this forum.. I'm learning why it is
Registered: Apr 2012

posted September 10, 2013 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Phoenix     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, im sorry for that. Can you go to the police maybe? :-\

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zarea
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posted September 10, 2013 06:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for zarea     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

You need to go to the police with this and as the police most likely won't help much until you're hurt, you need to protect yourself against this guy at any cost. Can you get a restraining order?
Meanwhile, check the security in your home and don't walk alone, be on the alert. That's a bit scary and intense. Were you together in some way? even as a brief fling and he can't handle it's over?

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BILL10
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posted September 10, 2013 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BILL10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did go to the cops once, but they did nothing. He started off as my cyber stalker. He hacked everything, but the cops said I needed more proof for them to do anything. He is very good at technology and electronics. He has a very high IQ. And it seems like he is always one step ahead of me and law enforcement. It's been so hard to get proof.

Yesterday, he let me know that he followed me from the library to a convenience store and he told me what I purchased. It freaks me out.

I went to the same school as him, but I never dated him.

He doesn't want to date, he wants to immediately get married and have children which is common with stalkers. They want to "lock" you in.

He has abandonment and severe rejection issues.

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starmoon
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posted September 10, 2013 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
well, quit talking to him in any way/form and block all avenus of contact - phone, emails, etc. if you haven't already done so. giving him any responses to his questions (even 'no, i won't marry you') or being anywhere near him will encourage the behavior. if he is bipolar he should be on meds - perhaps you can notify a family member of (of his) what is going - they might be able to help you? or even his ex-gf, who may have some contacts?

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venuscorpio86
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From: salem,or usa
Registered: Feb 2011

posted September 10, 2013 07:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venuscorpio86     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scary, I hope that can get taken care for your own safety!

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BILL10
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posted September 10, 2013 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BILL10     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He keeps hacking my stuff, so its hard to ignore him. He messes with my stuff, and then I react. Yea, I know I should stop reacting, but I get so mad.

He hacked into my comp, and he saw that I had an interest in astrology. I used to spend a lot of time browsing this website. So I think that's where he gets the idea that I did something.

The weird thing is, now he is obsessed with astrology and anything related including Black Magic and the occult. He has a very addictive personality which is common in people who have mental illness. He sees astrology as a tool to fix his life. But he is very vindictive and revengeful, so he might use it to do something bad.

I thought about contacting his mom and just having a sit down conversation with her. His gf knows nothing about him being a stalker, hacker, and mentally ill, so she won't get it.

He gets really weird with me. He hides his true self from others, but for some reason he thinks that he can be his true self with me. He has all these sexual fantasies and crosses the line all the time. He hacked my comp and watched me through my webcam.

I think he was sexually abused when he was younger. I was doing a google search on him, and I found out that his mom's brother was in jail for abusing a child. I have no proof that he was abused, but putting together his behavior with the fact that the uncle was in jail tells me that he was the boy who was abused.

This is getting creepier by the minute, and I just need someone to give me some guidance as to what is going on and when it will end.

I can post the synastry and composite if it will help, but I don't know how to do it without showing the name, birthplace, and date.

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